Siyaqhubeka nothotho lweekhontrakthi zelungelo lokushicilela zelona qhandi linempembelelo kubuhle bezinto ezintle zobuhle kunye nemveliso yezempilo, izimvo zakhe zinokuthenjwa ngeepesenti ezilikhulu. Ngeli xesha, uYulia Yuhhansson - Ingcali ye-SPA enamava amakhulu, ehlala ixesha elide e-Asiya naseYurophu, emva koko yabuya iRussia kwaye iphinda ibuyele kwenye indawo eMoses Phambi kwabafundi ngekholamu yayo yangaphambili. Ke, buyintoni impilo ilingana nendlela yokufezekisa?
Okokugqibela, sincokole ngento yokuba sikwazi ukufumana ibhalansi kubomi bemihla ngemihla, ukulingana, kuya kuthi ngokuqinisekileyo siya kusebenza ngokuzolileyo nangokuvisisanayo. Ke indlela yokufezekisa ukulingana? Ngaba ikhona imfihlo? Kuyaziwa ukuba sihlala sikhawuleza iikhavathi, iphepha kunye nokukhululwa indawo yethu kwizinto ezingeyomfuneko, iziganeko ezitsha kunye nezimvo zifikelele ebomini bethu, ukuphefumlelwa. Kwaye ukuba sinikela ingqalelo kwizinto ezongeziweyo, emva koko 'njani' malunga nezimvo eziphazamisayo ", eziphazamisayo?
Ukuzisola, ukuphoxeka, ukuzigxeka, umoni, zonke ezi mvakalelo zokubamba indawo yethu, zisithintele ekufumaneni.
Kodwa njengoko inkunkuma yenkungu inyamalale, ayizukutshabalalisa kwaye inkunkuma entlokweni ayisayi kutshabalalisa, "kukhona umsebenzi ocwangcisiweyo. Le yinkqubo efanayo njengokucocwa kweziqhelekileyo: Ukuvavanya oko ukufunayo, kunye nento engeyiyo, emva koko uzisuse ngokungeyomfuneko kwaye ungabalulekanga. Kunokuba nzima kunenkunkuma yezinto ezibonakalayo, kuba kuya kufuneka ulwelwe kuwe kunye neemvakalelo zakho. Kodwa ngenxa yemali kufuneka yenziwe ngokuqinisekileyo.
Ngaphambi kokuba uqhubeke "nokucoca", zibuze le mibuzo ilandelayo:
- Bubuphi ubuhlobo obucinyiweyo?
- Zeziphi iimvakalelo ezingavumeli ziqhubeke?
- Ngaba kukho imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla ebangela ixhala?
- Zeziphi iimvakalelo ezimbi ozigcina kuwe?
- Babizwa ntoni?
Kuphela kukuvavanya nokuhlalutya imeko, sinokukhulisa icebo lokucoca intloko kwinkunkuma kwaye, ukuba iphumelele, ukuzisa i-odolo kuyo. Musa ukoyika ukukhulula ubomi bakho 'kwityhefu' yabantu abangenzi iimvakalelo ezintle xa unxibelelana.
Kwakhona, ibhalansi yethu yophula isibakala sokuba sihlala sibalibala ngawe, sinyamekela intlalo-ntle yabo basilandelayo kuthi. Kwaye uMbutho, ngelishwa, usifundisa ukususela ebuntwaneni, ngakumbi abafazi, bacinga ntoni ngawe.
Kodwa ukuba ulandela le mithetho, ungalibala ngokukhawuleza malunga nempilo yakho!
Ukuze ukwazi ukukhathalela abanye, kufuneka, kuqala kubo bonke, ukuqondwa kwelizwe lakho kwaye ugcine ubutyebi bakho. Zichaze kwicandelo lakho leshedyuli yakho, makubenzele indawo yakho. Mhlawumbi iya kuba yimizuzu emi-5 kuphela ngekomityi yeti enye ethe cwaka, isidlo sakusasa yedwa okanye iyure yokuthambisa ukusuka kwingcali elungileyo. Zikhathalele ukuze ukwazi ukhathalela abanye kwaye ugcine ulungelelwano lwangaphakathi!