Ingcinga yokuba umntu wakho omtsha uneentloni kunokuba yinto engathandekiyo kakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, oku kunokuba. Kwaye usenokungabi sisizathu soku, kodwa uloyiko lwakhe okanye ukungaqiniseki. Kodwa zithini iimpawu ezifanele ukunikela ingqalelo ekuqondeni, ngaba kunjalo okanye akunjalo?
Ukudibana nabahlobo akusabeki
Uve iingcebiso malunga nokuchitha ixesha kunye nabahlobo bakhe kwaye udibane. Kodwa into ihlala iqala ukuhamba kakubi, kwaye intlanganiso ihlehliselwe. Indoda ayicwangcisi ukukuvumela ukuba ube kwisangqa sakho esikufutshane. Kwaye ithetha ngobunzulu beenjongo zakhe.Ingcebiso yakhe ngenguqu
Olu luphawu olunzulu obonisa ukuba into ethile kwinkangeleko yakho ayihambelani nemigangatho yayo. Nangona kunjalo, oku akunakuba njalo xa umntu eluthandweni okanye ubuncinci kakhulu. Uyakuthanda yonke into kuwe: Umbala weenwele, i-makeve kunye ne-t-shirt engaqhelekanga.
Iintlanganiso zakho kuphela ekhaya
Uhlala udibana, kodwa ngenxa yesizathu esithile sihlala ekhaya. Akukho kuhambahamba, ukuhamba ngendawo yokutyela, ivenkile yekofu okanye i-cinema. Ingqesho yakhe mhlawumbi ithethelela ukungabikho kweziganeko ebomini bakho kunye. Kodwa ngaba uxakekile rhoqo?
Intlanganiso engalindelekanga kunye nabantu oqhelileyo
Nikela indlela abonisa ngayo ngayo kunye nokuqhelana kwakhe kwaye ukho konke. Ukuba ebezibele ngengozi ukwazisa, oko kunokwenzeka, akukho sizathu.Akakuniki ukuba uthethe phambi kwabahlobo bakhe.
Mhlawumbi ukuqhelana nendawo awayekuyo, kodwa ngaba ungazikhokelela kwindlela eqhelekileyo. Ukuba umntu wakho uxela imilinganiselo yokuziphatha, iziphazamisa xa ufuna ukuthetha into, kunokwenzeka, unokuba nembeko kuwe. Uyoyika okanye uneentloni ukuba unokuthetha into engalunganga.
Ewe kunjalo, ekuqaleni kobudlelwane, awudingi ukunikela ingqalelo kuzo zonke iimpawu. Kodwa ukuba ngexesha lo mfo angafuni ukuba udibane nabantu abakwimo esuka kwindalo esingqongileyo, ke kufanelekile ukucinga ngayo. Mhlawumbi uchitha ixesha lilize.
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