Umahluko kwi-Age: Indlela Eluchaphazela Ngayo ubudlelwane

Isizukulwana esinye

Iingcali zengqondo Qaphela umahluko phakathi kwamaqabane asusela kumgangatho weminyaka eli-16. Ubudlelwane bunokuqina kwaye buphumelele kuba omabini amahlakani sisizukulwana esinye kwaye unokuba eneenqobo ezifanayo kwaye unembono efanayo ngobomi. Ukongeza, uninzi lwabantu ababini oontanga baphantse babandakanyeke kwisikhundla esinye semali kwaye baphumeze yonke into kunye.Isondo

Ukusondela phakathi kwamaqabane-oontanga kuhlala kuvalekile. Zombini zinemeko efanayo yomzimba-impilo, inqanaba loqeqesho, amava. Ke ngoko, bazame ukuziphindezela ngesondo rhoqo ngenzondelelo.

Indoda endala

Uhlobo olunjalo lobudlelwane kwiinkulungwane lukhuthazwe luluntu. Amadoda aqolileyo athabatha abafazi bamantombazana amancinci, kwaye babenempilo-ntle enjalo kwimanyano. Namhlanje, olo lwalamano aluqhelekanga. Intombazana esencinci isatsala indoda eqolileyo ngobuhle bayo kunye nokutsha, kwaye ke, ifuna inkxaso kunye nenkxaso emntwini oza kuba ngumntu ofana notata wakhe (ngokwengqondo).

Isondo

Kumadoda, umtshato kunye nebhinqa eliselula lingenelo olukhulu. Inqanaba lokwaneliseka ngala mabini langqengqa nje. Ngenxa yeqabane elinamandla, abayeni bancinci emehlweni abo. Nokuba ubomi babo bulinde ngama-20% ngaphezulu kwamadoda anamahlakani.

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Indoda endala

Olu hlobo lolwalamano lungaqhelekanga kakhulu kunale ingentla. Kodwa abafazi abazimeleyo banamhlanje bakhulisa ngakumbi abafana. Baphumelele ukuphakama kwi-quarry kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba banikezele kwimpembelelo yendoda enkulu.

Njengommiselo, kubudlelwane, apho umfazi mdala khona, omabini amahlakani abonisa ukuba nguye othatha indawo ekhokelayo kwisibini - esenza izigqibo ezisekelwe kumava obomi obutyebi ngakumbi.

Isondo

Ngesondo, isibini esinjalo sinothando oluninzi. Incopho yesini sabafazi, njengommiselo, uza kwiminyaka engama-30, emadodeni - kwi-18-25, ke iminqweno yabo iya kudibana.

Ngaphandle kweMithetho

Uluntu luyathanda ukubeka izitampu zezonyoka, ukuthetha ngolwalamano lwamaqabane kunye nomahluko kubudala. Ukuba le ntombazana incinanana kunentanda yakhe, ulizingeli lelifa, ukuba indoda ithe yaba mnci kakhulu kunendoda leyo, iphosakele.

Ngapha koko, iminyaka ayinamsebenzi xa ubudlelwane bobuhlobo bubotshelelwe kwintlonipho kunye nothando! Ukuvuthwa kwengqondo (ukuvuma ukuthathela ingqalelo kwaye ube nembopheleleko), hayi ukumakisha kwipasipoti.

Kwiminyaka engama-20 ukuya kwengama-23, amantombazana aphambi kwabantu abancinci kuphuhliso lwengqondo, ke, baziva bekhululekile ngamahlakani amadala. Kunokubakho umahluko kwiminyaka emi-3-5 eyaneleyo apha.

Ukuba iza emtshatweni, uninzi luthintela umahluko phakathi kwamaqabane kuxa indoda ineminyaka eyi-8. Nangona kunjalo, kunqabile ukuba iqondakale ukuba inyani yendalo ibalulekile (ebhaliselwe kwipasipoti), kunye nengqondo (kude kube ngumntu omdala).

Olo mahluko unokunika iingenelo, kuba, kwelinye icala, indoda, njengommiselo, sele ugqibe kwelokuba le micimbi kwaye ngamanye amaxesha, amaqabane asahlala nabantu besizukulwana, kwaye kulula ukuqondana.

Kwangelo xesha, ngaphandle kwalo mdala wamkelweyo "ofanelekileyo" ofanelekileyo, kukho amanani ngokomtshato onamandla ngabo bavela apho umahluko kumaqabane aneminyaka eyi-1-2 kuphela. Xa umahluko kwiminyaka yamaqabane yiminyaka emi-5 nangaphezulu, ubungakanani boqhawulo-mtshato luyanda.

Omkhulu umahluko kubudala, ngaphezulu kwepesenti ye-Steam yoqhawule umtshato. Xa umntu mdala kunokhethe okhethiweyo kangangeminyaka engama-20 nangaphezulu, uqhawulo-mtshato lwenzeka ngaphezulu kwesiqingatha samatyala.

Izizathu zokuba umtshato wabantu onomtshato omkhulu awunakwenzeka, ngokufanayo kakhulu. Ekuqaleni, kwimibutho yabasebenzi, umfazi unolindelo oluthile oluvela kwindoda (uninzi lwezinto), kwaye banokungangqinelani okanye bangasebenzi ngokungekho ngqiqweni iqabane lakhe. Kwaye kunzima kakhulu ukuthintela ukungaqondi kwimitshato enjalo, kuba kukho ikhefu kwicandelo lemigangatho yehlabathi, kwaye umahluko ebomini kunye neemfuno zobomi.

Kwaye okwangoku, kuwo nawuphi na umthetho apho kuyafana nakweyiphi na imeko, ulonwabo kubudlelwane aluxhomekeki kubudala, kodwa kwabo bantu balwa nolwakhiwo, kwaye iminqweno yabo yokuhlangana kunye. Ukuba kunjalo, nabuphi na ubunzima obunokusonjululwa.