-Ngaba bathathe izandla zomntwana, sukulahleka!
-Ewe, yithathe ezandleni zakho, ukona ntoni ?!
La mabinzana amabini e-moms alawula ukuva umzuzu omnye kumntu omnye. Kwaye nokuba banexesha namandla, banokuqiniseka ukuba bathembisa ngokubonakalayo kwimigaqo-nkqubo yemigangatho ephindwe kabini. Kodwa kube kanye-kufuneka ukhathalele umntwana ofuna ingqalelo ngokwenene.
Nangona kunjalo, umbuzo weemfundiso zomntwana ezizandleni ezifanelekileyo phantse wonke umfazi ozelwe kwindawo yasePosiet. Oomama babo ngokwabo, abangenayo ixesha elaneleyo lokunikela eyabo umntwana.
Iimeko zomiso zazihlukile ngokupheleleyo, kwafuneka ukuba bangenise abantwana ebomini, njengabangakhathaleli iimfuno ezininzi. Ke ngoko, kwibhinqa ngalinye eliselula elisoyikayo lokuthatha i-cruimb lezaseza, yime umama nogogo, uloyiko lwabo ukuba ukunxibelelana ngokusondeleyo kuya kujika kwingxaki kwixa elizayo.
Funda kwakhona: ukuvalwa ngoomama abahlengikazi: Yintoni enokwenzeka, kwaye ukusuka kokungcono ukwala
Kwimeko entle, kungcono ukukhumbula kwangoko: Akunakwenzeka ukufundisa abasandula ukuzalwa ezandleni. Wayesele ezelwe ngokuqhelekileyo. Iinyanga ezilithoba Umama unxiba umntwana ngaphakathi ngokwakhe, uyasetyenziswa kubushushu bakhe kunye nokubetha kwentliziyo, nangokuzalwa, kuya kuhluthwa konke oku.
Ngapha koko, nokuba abazali abanenkathalo, loo mntu akavumi konke konke ukuba nobomi babo obulandelayo ukusuka kumgangatho wokusondelelana. Nokuba ngandlel 'ithile iyayilindela inkululeko yosana. Unesidingo esiphakamileyo sokunxibelelana nabantu abadala- umntwana akakhange aqonde ukuba ifumene phi.
Kwiinyanga ezintathu zokuqala emva kokuzalwa, akunakwenzeka ukonakalisa umlinganiswa wobuhlobo obusisigxina kamama. Eli xesha libizwa ngokuba "yiTrimester yesine". Kukho izizathu zebhayoloji zoku.
Usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa lubonakala' lubethelele "kwindlala enokuthenjwa. Kukufezekiswa kweenyanga ezintathu, kukhula kwangoko phambi kwamehlo, kutshintsha ngaphandle kwaye ufumane izakhono ezitsha.
Iingcambu zembali ze-UbaukOV
Imfundiso yomntwana evela ezandleni yayiyenye yeempawu zempucuko. Ngo-1853, umntwana wokuqala wavela eNgilani, kwaoko wafumana ukuthandwa. Ukubakho kokulayisha abameli bangaphambili abasetyenzisiweyo kwi-aristoracy. Ngapha koko, inenekazi elihle elikhathazekileyo elalikhathalelana ngokwabo, kodwa malunga nee-nannies zabantwana babo.
Abantu abalula nabo bathatha ngokukhawuleza umbono. I-folk cheftsmens yafunda ukutshaya iinqwelo, apho unokuthwala abantwana. ERussia, abo babemi bodwa bavela kuphela embindini wenkulungwane yama-20 kwaye babenzela isampulu yaseJamani. Ngaphambi kwalomntwana, abazali banxiba.
ERussia, kwakungekho nto enjalo eyaziwa kwamanye amazwe amaninzi njengesiqwengana. Kodwa abafazi baseRussia baqhubeka nabantwana bona ngokwabo - ePodol, okanye i-Apron. Ngenxa yoko kwavela ibinzana elidumileyo.
Xa umntwana wayesele ehleli kwaye engadingeki ubisi lwengoma, wayenabanyibilikisayo - oodade, okanye kwanommelwane. Banxiba abantwana kwi-hip, ebambe ngesandla esinye, owesibini wayekhululekile. Oomama baqhubeka bezalisekisa imisebenzi yabo yasekhaya ngokupheleleyo.
Izithethe ze-louling kunye nokuvakala kwabantwana zahlala kwiinkulungwane ezidlulileyo. Kwakhona kukholelwa ukuba ukuba umntwana uza kungcungcutheka ezandleni ngaphambi kokulala, uya kuba namandla kwaye alale nzulu kwaye ahlupheke kakhulu kune-tummy.
Ndiyazibuza: Njengomntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa wasindisa utata wakhe
Inkcubeko yabantu yamazwe ahlukeneyo iyazi iingoma ezininzi zelullaby. Kuyanyibilikisa, ukungcungcutheka, ukusondela komzimba owenza isandi sokubetha kwentliziyo kamama yayisongele ukuba abantwana baphumelele kuphuhliso lwabantwana.
Zeziphi iingxaki ezinokucombulula okulula ezinxibelelene
Abantwana beenyanga zokuqala zobomi abasazi ukuba bangayikhathaleli. Zinezidingo ezilula nezikhethekileyo, ziyakwazi ukwanelisa abazali ngokulula. Baby, ngubani umama rhoqo kwizibambo, zihlala ziziphatha kakhulu. Balele ngcono ukulala, qinile kwaye ulale ixesha elide.
Unxibelelwano lomzimba lunefuthe eliyingenelo kwi-nervous nenkqubo ye-cardiovascular. Umntwana ulula kakhulu ukudlulisela iinkqubo ezibuhlungu ezinxulunyaniswa neegesi kunye ne-colic (ukuba iguqukile ukuba ibe kwimeko yokugqibela).
Ukutyibilika kwamazinyo kuya kuba yinto engathandekiyo ukuba ngamaxesha eentlungu ezibuhlungu zinxibe umntu onengxaki yezandla. Ukusondelelana kukamama ngokungathi imiqondiso-yonke into ihamba, yonke into iza kuphela kungekudala, awuyi kukuphosa. Kwisicwangciso seemvakalelo, umntwana uziva mkhulu.
Oomama abaninzi baphawula ukuba imeko yabo yemozulu iyaphucuka, xa zithatha abantwana. Kwaye oku kunefuthe kwi-cyckotion. Elinye sele lininzi umfazi umfazi wade wakhumbula indlela amshiya ngayo umntwana ukuba akhwaze egumbini, ukuze angabunzi ngqwalaselo engafunekiyo. Yena ngelo xesha wayesemva komnyango, waphulaphula ukhala kwaye waphulukana. Ngasihlandlo sithile, waphulukana nobisi, kodwa ke akazange azithelekise ezi ziganeko.Kutheni uloyiko lokufunda izandla aliziswanga
Indlela yokutshintsha komntwana othambileyo emhlabeni ukuze ayeke ukuba afezekiswe. Iinyanga zokuqala ze-Kid zihlala zivakalelwa kukuba bona kunye noMama benza into eyodwa, ngoko xa ahamba, unemvakalelo yokulahleka koyikekayo. Kodwa ngokuthe ngcembe i-gord ibanzi.
Bona: Iintsomi ezikholelwa ukuba ii-moms ezininzi, kwaye ogqirha abazivumeli
Uninzi lwabazali luze luqonde ngokucacileyo ukuba umntwana wabo "incwadana" amele bazimele. Oku kwenzeka malunga neenyanga ezisithoba. Umntwana uyaqonda ukuba uyakwazi ukufezekisa phantse zonke iinjongo zayo ngokuzimeleyo, ngaphandle kokhathalelo lwabazali. Unomdla kwihlabathi elijikeleze yena.
I-crouch sele ifumene unxibelelwano lwaneleyo lokudibana, uyaqiniseka ukuba unxibelelana ngengqondo nonina. Ke ayiyothusanga ukuba yazi entsha. Umsebenzi wabazali ngeli xesha awucacanga ukukhusela, ngelixa unika inkululeko eyaneleyo kunye nokubonisa ukuthembana kwakhe. Umntwana uya kuba lula xa eqonda: Ukuba loo nto, uMama okanye uTata usondele.
Ungayisingatha njani impilo yakho ngelixa unxiba umntwana ezandleni zam
Enye ingxabano ngokuchasene nonxibelelwano olusondeleyo kunye ne-crumb yimpilo yomqolo kamama. Wayekhulelwe ukukhulelwa, ukuzalwa komntwana, kwaye ke umntu ohlala ekhula "obhalisiweyo ezingalweni zakhe.
Kubalulekile ukuba uzinyamekele ngokwakho - ubuxoki obukhulu kwaye ungathwali amandla ongezelelweyo. Ke kaloku, baninzi kwaoko isibhedlele sokumama abalekela kwisitovu, esitolo, baphakamisa umngxunya ngomntwana kumanyathelo.
Umgangatho womzali uxhomekeke ekubuyiselweni komzimba emva kokuziswa. Ke ngoko, umthetho wokuqala kukuxoka kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Cela izalamane zithathe imibuzo yasekhaya.
Kwiinyanga ezimbalwa emva kokuzala, kuxhomekeka kwimpilo-ntle, ungaqala ukwenza imithambo encinci ukubuyisela imisipha ye-back kunye ne-pelvic esezantsi. Kuya kuba kuhle ukunxibelelana kunye nokuthambisa.
Ukwenzela ukunxiba umntwana ukuba angabi yinkqubo yokuphazamiseka, unokusebenzisa i-slings elungileyo kunye nomgangatho we-erggyukzaki. Kulula ukuba ufunde kwisiqwengana kwakhona kuneminyaka yokunyanga umqolo wakho.
Ndiyazibuza: Ehlala njani abantwana ngoku, ababebizwa ngokuba "yeyona nto intle emhlabeni"
Kungcono ukukhetha izixhobo zendalo, iifom ze-ergononom kwaye zikhokelwe kungekuphela kukuphononongwa kwabanye abazali, kodwa nangokucebisa kwabasebenzi.
Ifanele ikhunjulwe ukuba izandla zikamama zihle. Kodwa ukhuseleko lwentwana ungaphezulu kwako konke. Ke ngoko, ayikufanelekeli ukuba, umzekelo, ukubamba umntwana ukuba agqibe ukufudukela kwizitulo zemoto. Kungcono ukuyeka imoto ngokukhawuleza ukuba kunokwenzeka, fumanisa izizathu zokukhala kwaye ubeke / ucwangcise umkhweli ophambili. Umama makahlale ecaleni kwakhe, uyayibetha izibambo, iibhulethi, ukucula ... musa ukubeka emngciphekweni ubomi be-tactile.
Esona sibe sinzima kuMama "Isandla sokufundisa" ngulomzuzu xa umntwana sele ekhulile kwaye engasafuneki iingalo zakhe. Xa eqhuba iinyawo zakhe zonke ngeshishini lakhe, ishishini elinjalo kunye nomntu omdala, emfutshane xa kuthelekiswa nobomi bonke, ixesha leTekhnoloji likhunjulwa ngokulangazelela. Akukho sidingo sokuzithoba kwezi nyanga zimbalwa, bafuna bobabini uMama nosana.