Ndichaphazela ngokuthe ngqo zonke iintlobo zezifundo ezinesihloko "indlela yokugcina indoda", "Ungayibuyisa njani indoda", "Ungayilungisa kanjani na ukubamba indlebe .
Kodwa mangaphi amabali asele enamabali anjalo, oko kubonakala ngathi unobuqili nobuhle kwaye ulungiselela zonke iimvavanyo, indoda leyo isele ihambile yafumana enye.
Ndisoyisile kwaye ndicinga ukuba njani ?! Kutheni le nto engazange anele? Ngelixa ndingakhange ndingoyiki.
Amadoda anokulungiselela ngokugqibeleleyo, hlamba kwaye azicoce. Kude kube senze umfazi, akufuneki benze le nto. Nokuba uqinisekile ukuba umyeni wakho akanolwazi lokuba isitovu sijika njani, unomdla kakhulu. Uya kukhawuleza akuqonde oku, ukuba ngequbuliso iyayifuna! Xa umfazi ecinga ukuba akazukuphila ngaphandle kwemini yakhe, uyaphambana kakhulu. Kodwa womelela, unempazamo xa iqala nini kwi-Apochy. Ngaphandle kwakhe akazukukwazi nantoni na. Apha kuvela kumadoda anjaloleka ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngonaphakade.
Ndandinomhlobo awayemkile kuloo myeni wam. Uye wacinga ukuba akakwazanga kwanto. Njani kwangoko nomsebenzi owafumana ngcono kwaye wafunda ukulungiswa, kwaye wafumana ngaphezulu. Ngokubanzi, iphumelele kuzo zonke izikhombisi. Kwaye andimgwebi. Zicinge, kuhle ukuphila nomntu oza kukuxelela yonke imihla: "Ewe, ngaphandle kwam!". Kwangoko, ndifuna ukuphakama, ndikhe ndibonise enye into enje "!
Kodwa umfazi onokukhuthaza umntu akasayi kuze ahambe. Uya kwenza yonke into ngaphandle kwayo yonke into. Ke ngoko, ukuba awufuni kuyeki umntu wakho, funda ukungamngcikiva ukuba akanakukwazi, kodwa amkhuphile ukuze enze yonke into! Kwaye ndikholelwe, unako konke kwaye ukuzenzela wena!
Nazi i-Wirkhov:
- Ibize ngokuthe cwaka kwaye unothando, nceda ubone ngcono kakhulu kunokunkcinkca kunye neemfuno.
- Akunakulindeleka kuMalume abadala unokutshintsha into. Kulula ukufumana enye indoda.
- Ngesizathu esithile, ndiye ndahamba ngakumbi ngenyaniso yokuba lo mfazi uhlala elinde izenzo emntwini, aze enze nto ngokwakhe. Ndiyakuqinisekisa amadoda, nam, thanda ingqalelo!
- Hlonipha ukuzithemba kwakhe. Ukuba ayilunganga, mxelele ngayo ngokobuqu, xa uwedwa.
- Ukuba uyibona njengento engezantsi kwe-plinth, ke kutheni nakuko konke? Naxa uthando apha akukho ngongoma ekuthetheni. Ayinakuphela. Kwaye akukho thando? Akunakulindeleka ukuba ungayikhuthaza ngento ethile.
- Ukuba kuwe ihempe yakhe ingumsebenzi ongathandekiyo, hayi isenzo seenkxalabo, kungcono ungagungqi kwaphela.
Kuxabiseke kangangexesha lethu ukuziva ngathi uthando kunye nenkathalo zihlala zidala imimangaliso. Ukuba uqala ukumkhathalela, uyakuqala ukwenza into enye kwaye uya kuphinda ubuyise eli xesha lepipi, esele sele idlulile. Kwaye mna ndicinga ukuba akafanele adlule, kwaye uthando nenkathalo kufuneka ihlale ikhona. Kwaye apha i-50% yoxanduva kumfazi! Ewe, i-50 eseleyo iya kuthatha indoda yakho.
Khawufane ucinge, akazange anike iintyatyambo ixesha elide. Kwaye apha ukhubekile ngexesha lokuxabana okulandelayo: "Ewe, awuzange undinike imibala iminyaka elikhulu." Akayi kunika. Cally. Kwaye ukuba udlula ngentyatyambo uTimo uncwina: Mhlawumbi lo ngumzekelo ka-Bant, kodwa usebenza yonke into. Ubuncinci le qhinga alizange liphumelele!
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