Imalunga nokudibana "yeyona" wonke umntu ngaphandle kokukhetha. Nangona kunjalo, kwiindlela zobomi, sonke sifumana inani elikhulu labantu. Abanye babo baboniswa kuthi, kwaye abanye, ngokuchaseneyo, sifunda kuthi. Kodwa kungekudala kubomi betyala elinye nelinye, loo nto iyenzeka xa indoda ivela, ithunyelwe ngokoqobo izulu.
Kodwa ungayiqonda njani? Abasetyhini abane-intuition ephuhlisiweyo banokuhlangabezana nalo msebenzi, kodwa kuphela iiyunithi zinesipho esinjalo. Okuseleyo kuyaqonda ukuba iqabane liyinto entle, linokuhambelana nale miqondiso ilandelayo.
Uyakuxhasa
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo yolwalamano olusempilweni luyitoliki. Kungenxa yoko le nto kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba kuphela umntu onokuba novelwano ngokunyaniseka kwaye alondoloze umzuzwana onzima unokuqwalaselwa. Ithetha ngantoni le ntetho apha kwiimeko ezininzi malunga noncedo lwezezimali. Kubaluleke kakhulu kubafazi abaninzi yimvakalelo yegxalaba elinamandla ekufuphi.Bona: Umntwana noyise: 10 Izinto ezifunyanwa njengelifa
Unomdla kwi
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Ujongeka ngathi
Siqaphele ukuba kulwalamano olonwabileyo yindoda nebhinqa ihlala ifana kakhulu nomnye? Ukujonga abantu abanjalo, kunokucinga ukuba phambi kwakho bhuti nodadewethu, bajonge ngoku. Nangona kunjalo, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukufana okubonakalayo kulwimi olunamandla kudlala indima encinci, kunye neyona nto iphambili yindlela efanayo nenenekazi kunye ne-cavalor yalo ziimpawu. Ukuba neqabane lakho ningene kwiimeko ezifanayo zobomi, ninokuzonwabisa okufanayo okanye ninamava afanayo angathandekiyo kubudlelwane bangaphambili, niyakwazi, ubudlelwane bakho bunethuba lokukhula kwebhokisi.Jonga:
Uhlakulela kunye
Akukho mntu uya kumangalisa into yokuba indoda kunye nebhinqa ngokunxulumene nomnye linempembelelo ethile. Kwaye kuhle kakhulu, ukuba, ngenxa yokubulela ngokunjalo, amaqabane ayaba namava, anamandla kwaye anobuchule. Kodwa rhoqo imeko xa umntu esibini etsala iqabane lomphefumlo. Kwiintlonelo ezinjalo, njengommiselo, akukho ndawo yothando, kodwa kukho iimfuno ezingapheliyo kunye namabango. Ngokuchasene noko, ukuba umntu uthunyelwe kuwe ezulwini ezulwini, uya kukuvuyela ukukwenza kube ngcono kuba ungabi nakukwakho "i".
Udibene ngamabona-ndenzile
Ewe kunjalo, kunokwenzeka ukuba ufumane amaphupha abantu kwindawo yokuthandana, nangona kunjalo, njengoko uninzi lobudlelwane bongeza emva kweentlanganiso ezingacwangciswanga. Iinoveli, ziququzelwe ngokuthe ngqo, ziphantse zasilela ukusilela, kwaye nomntu, omaziyo okwenzekileyo, umzekelo, emgceni kwivenkile, unokuphila ubomi obonwabisayo. Ngoba? Mhlawumbi eso sizathu kukuba isiphelo sabantu sibhalwe ngokwenene ezulwini, ngenxa yoko asinikwanga izicwangciso zendalo. Impendulo yalo mbuzo, nangona kunjalo, wonke umntu uneyayo.
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