Ngalo lonke ixesha kumhlaba wethu kuya kubakho abantu, njengoko kubonakala ngathi, siphilile eLadim. Kodwa ekugqibeleni, siyaqonda ukuba yonke into ayilunganga njengoko kwakubonakala ngaphambili.
Amatyala anjalo akanabo "ubudala". Banokuba ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo obubomi, kwaye bahlala bengamava obomi okanye isimo sengqondo esihle sokukhusela. Kuya kuhlala kukho abantu abaya kuzama ukusiphula okanye bathi ubuhlungu emva kwabo.
Kutheni abantu besithi theasty
Umnqweno wokuthetha izinto ezingathandekiyo zivela phi? Abanye abantu bayafuneka ukuba bahlabe abanye xa besiva isoyikiso. Kwaye esi songelo asiyonyani. Abasithandi isikhundla sabo, ukuze banciphise ukuzithemba kwethu ukuba bahambe kwinqanaba labo, okanye bathetha izinto ezingathandekiyo malunga nathi ukuba bawubeke bube bubuntu bethu emehlweni abanye. Kodwa phantse bekusoloko kuyindlela yokuphendula, eshukumisa umnqweno wokuziva ngcono, ukugxeka, ukuthuka okanye ukunika omnye umntu.Yintoni injongo yabo
Injongo yabo kukuba nefuthe elibi kuthi kwaye kuthambekele kubaluleka kwabo. Phantse rhoqo lo mthetho ubonayo. Ngeli xesha siqala ukuzisola amagama amaninzi awayekhe wabelana. Ngapha koko, ulwazi lwabo luyadlala kuthi.
Unokuba njani kwiimeko apho abantu bathi mastinge ngasemva kwabo
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula umthetho omnye. La mazwi umntu athetha ngayo abanye abonakaliswa nguye, kwaye akangobabani abathethayo. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, kungenziwa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, konke kuxhomekeke kwimvakalelo yakho.
- Unokubeka ityala ngokuhleba abahlaseli kwiintshukumo ezingathandekiyo kwaye baqhubeke nokujongana naye. Ukuba impembelelo yamazwi akhe yayiphezulu kwaye ifuthe kwiGunya, ke oko kunokubakho kuya kufuneka kwenziwe.
- Ukuba imeko ayigxeki okanye uluvo lwabanye aludlali indima, kungcono ukuba "wenze ikhefu egxalabeni" kwaye uqhubeke. Abantu abanjalo basibonisa ukukhanya okuphosakeleyo kwabo babaphulaphulayo. Kwaye ukuba abantu bamamamela banqwenela ukuthatha ulwazi, baya kuyithatha. Awungekhe wenze nto ngayo.
Abantu abathanda ubomi bomnye umntu onezenzo ezimbi, baqonda ukuba abanakuyilawula. Ke ngoko, bafuna ukulawula indlela lo mntu ambona ngayo lo mntu. Ewe kunjalo, kukunganyaniseki. Kodwa oku kuyenzeka. Kuyenzeka ukuba usabele kwaye usabele, okanye ubakhulule ngeengxaki ezikude kwaye baze kwixabiso lakho, ngaphandle kokuvula umqobo.