Rhoqo, abazali bafumanisa ukuba kudala, ukuba umntwana wabo unengxaki esikolweni kwaye imeko ingene esiphelweni esifileyo. Kodwa kufanelekile ukukhusela ingqalelo abanye abantwana ukuba baqonde ingozi ezayo. Amanye amabinzana kwaye iimpendulo zibonakala zingenabungozi malunga nayo. Nceda uqaphele - ukuba umntwana wakho uyawuphendula, kufanelekile ukucinga.
Andinamdla kum "
Phantse bonke abantwana banomsebenzi owuthandayo okanye umdlalo ozonwabisayo - abanye bayamthanda, abanye - iPaki, isivumelwano sesithathu sivumelana uhlobo lwenqwelomoya, kwaye isine sidlala ii-shooters. Kwaye ngequbuliso umntwana ephosa yonke into, elahlekile inzala, mhlawumbi nje ukulala nje, ejonga i-phaliling, kwangayenzi ukuhamba. Okanye, ngokuchasene noko, wachitha lonke ixesha lencwadi yezifundo kwaye engenalo ixesha nomsebenzi wasekhaya.
Esi sisibubungqina esicacileyo sokuba nengxaki yokufunda, kodwa isikolo esisesikolweni asifuni okanye soyike ukuvuma abazali. Ifanele irhoxise umntwana ukuba irhoxise umntwana ukuba agule kwaye amncede anciphise imeko engathandekiyo.
"Namhlanje andibuyi kwabuya ndenzeka!"
Njengomthetho, "uyeke ukubuza" kwisifundo esithile (isiNgesi, i-algebra nabanye). Kubaluleke kakhulu ukubuza intsebenzo yemfundo ngale ndlela, de uye esikolweni (ngoku kunokwenzeka ukuba ufunde kwi-Intanethi). Kwaye emva koko fumana indlela yokufumana indlela yokufumana indlela yokusombulula ingxaki - inokuba ziiklasi ezongezelelweyo ngomfundi okanye umsebenzi omeleleyo omelelweyo."Andifuni kutya"
Nika ingqalelo yokwala isidlo sangokuhlwa okanye isitya esithandekayo ngenxa yesizathu esingahambelaniyo nokufunda, kodwa saphakama esikolweni. Rhoqo kwiimeko ezinjalo: Ukuba umntu uphuculwe umzobo, obizwa ngokuba ngu "Tolstoy" - kwaye nantsi ingxaki elungele! Ezinye zezinto azizenzi iintlekele, kodwa amaxesha amaninzi amantombazana akwishumi elivisayo abuhlungu malunga nezimvo ezinjalo.
Umama kufuneka athethe nentombazana, mhlawumbi mhlawumbi avumelane ngotshintsho kwisondlo kwaye indlela ethile yokufumana ubume be-fac-umzekelo, bhala kumdaniso okanye ukuqina. Oku kuya kongeza ukuzithemba.
"Andikwazi ukulala"
Ukuba isikolo sine-insomnia, ekuseni kukho iingxaki ngokuvuka, wasisidenge, inokuba luphawu lweengxaki zesikolo ezinokukhokelela kwiziphazamiso zemfundo ezinokukhokelela kwiziphatho zezikolo. Njengomthetho, ezi ngxaki zinzulu - iingxabano zootitshala, oontanga bafika kwi-bulia. Ukuba isikolo esisesikolweni asifuni ukwabelana ngemfihlo kunye nabazali bakhe, kuyafuneka ukuba uqhagamshele izengqondo yengqondo.
"Andinabahlobo, akukho mntu undifunayo"
Ukungabikho kwabahlobo besikolo sisizathu sokucingisisa ngokungakhathalelwanga, mhlawumbi umntwana akamkelwa kwiqela leklasi. Le ngxaki ayiyi kusonjululwa ngokuzimeleyo- kuyimfuneko ukuba unxibelelane notitshala weklasi kunye nogqirha wezengqondo wesikolo. Ingcali iya kuxela indlela yokuseka unxibelelwano, kwaye utitshala uyakuxhasa.Yintoni ekufuneka abazali bakho banikele ingqalelo kuye?
Kukufanelekile ukuba unikele ingqalelo kulo mzuzu ongamvuziyo umntwana ongenanjongo ebomini. Ukuba ngeli xesha kukho iingxaki zosapho okanye ukuthanda ukuthandwa, kunokuphazamisa ukugxila ekufundeni kunye nezinto ozithandayo.
Ngexesha lokusombulula ingxaki, abazali abakwazi ukuba yile izoyikiso kunye neengcikivo. Umntwana ufanele avakalelwe kukuba abantu abasondeleyo bayamqonda kwaye bafuna ukunceda.