Indalo iye yasinika izinto ezininzi ezinokwenzeka. Kodwa kunye kunye namathuba enike amandla okuqhekezwa kwizenzo ezithile. Asiyi kuqwalasela imikhwa eluncedo nengalunganga, icacile kubo bonke umntu. Kodwa imikhwa engafunekiyo ifihliwe kangangokuba ngamanye amaxesha sibabona njengenxalenye yokucinga.
Imikhwa engafunekiyo ephazamisayo ngobomi obuzolileyo
Ndiyisusa le mikhwa, uya kuziva inkululeko yobomi, uziva uluthando, hlala uyonwaba kwaye wonwabe kwimihla ngemihla.
Umkhwa wokubonisa ukuthotyelwa kwayo akukho kuphela ebomini bokwenyani. Khumbula ukuba sihlala silala njani ngeincoko zangaphakathi zangaphakathi. Senza incoko yengqondo apho sibonisa umbono wakho. Sicwangcisa intetho eyayibangela umdla kwimeko yentlanganiso. Ngenxa yoko, sisoloko sikwimeko yoxinzelelo. Ingqondo ayihluleli iincoko zengqondo neyokwenyani. Kwaye ngalo lonke ixesha, sinengqondo, sikhupha inqaku lakho elifanelekileyo, sicaphukisa umzimba ukuba sivelise iihomoni, uphawu lokukhusela kunye noxinzelelo.
Ngaba yimfuneko? Ngaba kufanelekile ukuvelisa inqaku lakho elifanelekileyo kwabo bangafuni ukuyamkela? Kungcono kakhulu ukuba uzive ukhululekile kubungqina. Ulungiselele ilungelo lokukhetha, kwaye ukuba amagama akho akazange amkele, oko kukuthi kukhetho.
Umkhwa wokugxeka okuqhubela phambili ukuba sihlule ngokubi nokulungileyo konke okanye amagama. Ngenxa yoku, sinako kwaye wonwabe, kwaye ube nomsindo. Zama nje ukuqaphela izibakala kwaye ungaphenduli kubo. Funda ukwamkela ulwazi njengoko injalo kwaye ungazami ukuyiphonononga. Akukho nto iya kutshintsha ukusuka kuvavanyo. Endaweni yokupheliswa kwesiqhelo, umkhwa wokuphatha yonke into ilula.
Ukulinda impendulo yobubele okanye uncedo, sisungula ngokuzenzekelayo ukunxila 'imingxunya yempendulo enyanisekileyo ", sihamba nokuqokelelwa kwengqumbo. Kwaye ukwenzela ukuthintela iimvakalelo zakho ezingalunganga, kuya kufuneka uyeke ukulinda impendulo. Ke ingqumbo ayiyi kutolikwa, kwaye zonke izinto ezilungileyo eziya kubuyela kuwe ziya kunceda ukungalindelanga.
Ukuzithethelela, sibeka phambili kwisikhundla "esingezantsi komnxibelelanisi". Ukuhamba kwexesha, umkhwa wokuzithethelela unciphisa ukuzithemba kunye nexabiso lomntu, njengomntu, kodwa komeleza uloyiko, kuba sele sikulungele ukugcina impendulo phambi komntu.
Ukucela ulindelo lomntu luza ngokuchasene neminqweno yabo, siziqeqesha ngokwabo kwiimeko. Abahlobo, izihlobo, oogxa bakhe, abaqeqeshi, abantu banolindelo lwabo malunga nathi. Njengoko silindele isenzo esithile kubo. Kodwa oku akunyanzelekanga ukuba ungabutyesheli ubomi bakhe okanye umnqweno wakhe, ukuphumeza konke okulindelweyo.
Ukususa le mikhwa, sitshintsha indlela esicinga ngayo. Ke ngoko, kuya kufuneka ulungele into esinokutshintsha kuyo indawo esihlala kuyo. Nangona kunjalo, olu tshintsho luzisa uyolo, vula inkangeleko entsha emhlabeni, vumela ukuba uqhelene nabantu abatsha, fumana imibono emitsha, fumana uthando, funda ukuthanda kwaye uzixabise.
Siza kushiya inqaku apha → Amelia.