Ewe, xa usacinga ngothando, hayi njani entwasahlobo? Ilanga liyakhanya ngaphandle kwefestile, kwaye iihormoni ziyakhawuleza. Ukuba ufuna indoda oyithandayo, yaqala ukufumana uvelwano lwakho kuwe, eli nqaku liya kuba yindlela nje!
Kuya kuphela ukuba zininzi iindlela zokuthandwa ngumfana, kwaye zonke zinikezelwa ziinzululwazi.
Ungathandana njani nendoda: 6 Iindlela ezi-6 ezisebenza kakuhle
Unokwenza ntoni, ukuze inkosi yenkulu yaqalisa ukubetha rhoqo?
1. Yenza isigqibo kwisenzo esigqithisileyoSele iqinisekisiwe ukuba abantu ababini abafumana i-adventure eyingozi okanye enomdla, ihlala ithandana. Ke ngoko sicwangciselwe ukuba kwimeko yexhala lokuba umtsalane wesini esahlukileyo kuyaphuculwa. Unganika umntu omncinci kunye ukhwele isithuthuthu okanye uxhuma ngeparachute. Iimpawu zanele ixesha elide!
Hayi, ngoku asithethi malunga nokuvunywa kwexabiso ukuba indlela eya entliziyweni yomntu ilele esiswini sakhe. Kutshanje, iYunivesithi yeYunivesithi yaqhuba isifundo, ngenxa yoko kwathintela ukuba umntu, ukuva "amazwi" afudumeleyo "," umhle "," uthambile " otsho la mazwi. Kwaye eyona nto inomdla kukuba iziphumo ezifanayo ziyenzeka ukuba uphatha umntu ngokutya okufudumeleyo okanye isiselo. Kuyavela ukuba ngamanye amaxesha kwanele ukusela ikhephu lekofu okanye iti ukuze lizaliswe luvelwano.
3. Hlala usoloko ubonaZama ukuhlala kufutshane nento yokwamkelwa. Okukhona ufumana emehlweni akho, kokukhona okwaneleyo ukuba athandane nawe!
4. Fumana umdla oqhelekileyo kwindoda.Abantu bahlala bengenelela ngovelwano kwabo bajonga into kubo. Izinto ezinomdla ezinomdla zihlanganisana kwaye zinceda ekufumaneni isihloko sengxoxo. Ke, ukuze umntu onomdla kuyo, unokubukela iifilimu ezifanayo njengoko yena, emamele umculo ofanayo aze akhethe iimpahla ngendlela efanayo eqhele ukuba nayo. Ekugqibeleni, unokuhlala uqalisa ukubukela ibhola! ?
Ayinamsebenzi ukuba uza kudlala ngokuchanekileyo: kwipiyano okanye igitare. Izazinzulu zesiFrentshi zifumanisa ukuba abantu "kuwe" ngesixhobo somculo sibonakala ngathi sisini esahlukileyo. Ngaba sele uyazi indlela yokudlala into? Ngokugqibeleleyo! Emva koko uyekile ukubonisa italente yakho eluthandweni. Ukuba uyakholelwa kuphando lwesiFrentshi, uya kuba unqweneleka ngakumbi emehlweni endoda. Ihlala kuphela ukuba ijonge ukuba kunjalo! ?
6. Musa ukukhwela ngaphandle kolusu ukuze uthandane nonyuliweyo ngomhla wokuqala.Olunye uphando lwenzululwazi luye lwangqinisisa ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba luthande kanye kuphela umntu ongekaluka! Mhlawumbi iya kubonakala ngathi ingaqhelekanga, kodwa eneneni yonke into ilula ukuyichaza. Masithi le ndoda uye wadibana nayo, yenza ukuba ube neemvakalelo ezimbi. Ngenxa yoko, uya kuqalisa ukucinga ngakumbi ngakumbi kunokuba bekunjalo. Ufuna ukuqonda ukuba intsingiselo yokuqala yayichanekile. Kuya kufuneka ucinge ngokunzulu kwaye ucinge ukuba umntu akanikwanga elinye ithuba.
Ke, ukuba udibene nendoda yamaphupha akho, awuzukukhwela ngaphandle kolusu ukuze uvelise umbono olungileyo. Ziphathe ngokwemvelo!
Ezinye zezi ngxelo zingasentla, awunakuvuma. Ekugqibeleni, kwanokuba izazinzulu ngamanye amaxesha ziphosakele, kwaye ezona ndlela zinyanisekileyo ngamanye amaxesha ziphuma phakathi kweentshaba ezifungelweyo.
Mamela intliziyo yakho kuyo nayiphi na imeko. Ukuba uphila ngokuvisisana nawe kunye nehlabathi elijikeleze, ngokuqinisekileyo amadoda aya kubona kwaye axabise! ?