Ubufazi obuvuthiweyo bokwabelana ngesondo nabadabi beLizwi. Ifana newayini enkulu, enevumba elimnandi, umhombiso onqabileyo, uncuthu lwengoma, ukuqhubela phambili kwiifestile ze-gesi ephezulu, ihlobo elishushu okanye ekuqaleni kwendalo yonke le ntlobo yepeyinti. Ubuntu bobufazi butsha buza ikakhulu emva kweminyaka engama-30 ukuya kunye nobomi obushiyekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, uhlobo olunje lomtsalane alukho kwindalo yonke.
Khumbula ukuba udibana kangaphi iminyaka engama-40-50 ubudala, usanomsindo njengabakwishumi elivisayo, abafazi. Okanye coarse ... njengokuba bendifuna ukuya kwelinye icala okanye ukuvala iindlebe zakho.
Ubuntu bobufazi beqonga bokufumana ubuntu obuvisileyo. Kwaye unamandla awo - amandla angaphakathi, ukugculelwa kwezinto neentsingiselo. Kumfazi ovuthiweyo, kulula ukuba uthandane- unokuzicwangcisa, kwaye ukhululekile, ihlabathi lawo ligcwele emdeni, amandla alo agcwele ngaphandle.
Zeziphi ezona zinto zikhanyayo zenzeka kwibhinqa eliqolileyo?
Ukhululekile kwaye aphumle. Unomdla kwaye uyathandeka ukuphila. Kufundwa xa kuluvo, kwi-pose ehlaziyiweyo, kwizimbo zomzimba oxhobileyo.
Uqinisekisa nantoni na kuye nabani na. Andoyiki. Ndiyayazi indlela yokuzimela ngayo.
Uzityhil 'izigqibo, aziveze ihlabathi, akholwe ukuba uya kumva. Yenzeka.
Uyakwazi ukuthatha izincomo. Bayakuvumela ukuba ususe uxinzelelo kwaye wenze unxibelelwano lube mnandi ngakumbi.
Ihlala izolile kwimeko enzima. Iyaqonda ukuba i-suss, ukuphosa kunye ne-phusteria kuya kwenza ngakumbi imeko.
Nxiba ngencasa. Uyazi ukuba ayizizo iimpahla, kodwa ichaphazela ukuzinyanga.
Ihamba ngokulula. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, uyazi ukwaneliseka komntu ngokulula kwi-gait yakhe. Cinga ukuba yintoni kuwe - udidekile, udiniwe, kubuhlungu? Okanye une-enamandla kwaye unenjongo? Amanenekazi azithembayo aya ngokukhawuleza. Banokuya apho baya khona, nokuba ngubani na oza kubona, kwaye kukho umsebenzi obalulekileyo ekufuneka uza kuzalisekiswa. Nangona kunjalo, xa uhamba ungakwazanga ukungxama.
Ukubamba ukuma. Indlela umntu "athwala ngayo," angaxelela okuninzi ngaye.
Enkosi ngokunyaniseka. Uncedo luthatha ngesidima.
Ngawaphi amabhinqa aqolileyo anomtsalane?
Nokuba ungazihlanganiswa njani uluntu kunye nobudala, abameli besondo elinzima bafuna ukubona kwinenekazi:
- Indalo (chemistry, i-popy intetho enemifanekiso esisisidenge nje ye-intiyories!);
- ukuchaneka, ukucoceka, umyeni olungileyo;
- Eyona nto iphambili yobukrelekrele (ukuba yi-Smart othandekayo, ibuthathaka, enembono yokuba ngumfazi - uvuyo olukhulu!);
- ubuwena;
- Okwahlukileyo kukuqonda komfazi wonke;
- Ukugudla kwentshukumo, ubabalo kunye nobuchule bokuzuza ukuze uzithintele, ngaphandle kokutya iimfanelo kwaye ungaphezulu komgca onqabileyo, emva koko uqala ukungaqhelekanga.
Kwintliziyo yokusekwa komntu obhinqileyo kuphela kwezinto ezintathu: ukhathalelo, ukubhengeza kunye nokuphucula iifeksti ze-terreotypes (kunye ne-Obuest "yobuhle" bobuqhetseba " ).
Okokuqala, yonke into yenziwe kuphela, kwaye isondele, isondele, ithanda ingqalelo yabameli besini esomeleleyo iba yibhonasi emnandi.
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