Ukuqala kwentwasahlobo, onke amadoda anxulunyaniswa ne-bistle yeholide yangaphambi kokufumana izipho ezinesidima zamanenekazi amahle. Iingcebiso zokudidanisa amadoda afuna ukumangalisa iintombi zabo kunye namantombazana aqhelekileyo ngexesha labasetyhini.
Ngokwesiko, elenza ngathi lalithelwe lethu kule nkulungwane yama-20, umfazi ngamnye ulinde isipho nge-8 kaMatshi kubo bonke abantu, ngakumbi abo abenayo ngoFebruwari 23.
Amantombazana aqala ukuphupha ngezipho nge-8 kaMatshi, ngoFebruwari 23. Ukukhetha izimanga zamadoda, banethemba lokuvuyela ukuvuyela. Akukho meko ayinakuphoxeka ngabahlobo babo, oodade wabo kunye nabantu abaziqhelanisa, ngakumbi ukusukela ukuba uncede amanenekazi ahleliyo kulula kakhulu kunokuba kubonakala ngathi kubonakala ngathi kuyabonakala. Sonke singaziqhelanisa noomama, oodade, oonogani, umakazi kunye nomthetho--ms-umolokazi ngoMatshi 8, iintyatyambo kunye nezitya. Kodwa, amadoda amahle, afunda ukuya ekukhetheni isipho ngasinye. Ngakumbi ukuba sithetha ngothando lobomi bakho.
Yintoni onokuyinika intombazana ngoMatshi 8? Isipho sokukolula ngexesha. Umzekelo, indoda inokuthenga iiroses kwaye ipakethe nganye ngokubhala inani elifanayo lamanqaku alithandayo ngeminqweno, izincomo, ewe ngokwakho uya kuza nayo.
Isithandi-sobulumko esikhulu Sigmund freud freud izamile ukufunde bonke ubomi bakhe, oko kufunwa ngabafazi, kodwa ngewayengakwenzi oku. Abahlobo bam bazama ukuphinda umzamo wokucinga kwaye baqhube uphononongo "Yintoni onokuyinika amantombazana ngoMatshi 8?" Isifundo esibandakanyeka malunga nekhulu labafundi be-zhurfak.
Onke amadoda entwasahlobo aqhekeza iintloko zazo ngalo mbuzo, sisiphi isipho esibonisa nokuba yintoni intombazana. Rhoqo, amanenekazi ethu ayaneliseka zimbini ezinesidima ezimhle kwaye zixabiseke kakhulu ubucwebe. Kwaye oku akumangalisi-abantu abayazi indlela yokufunda iingcinga, kodwa bahlala befuna ukuba basebenziseke, bangazifezekisi iminqweno. Ukuthelekisa iziteto, sahlulahlulahlulahlulahlulahlulahlulahlulahlulwe ngamacandelo amabini: "Yintoni amantombazana afuna ntoni" kunye "nento bafuna ukunika umntu."
Udliwanondlebe nomsebenzi wabo obenziwe ngokumangalisayo kwaye wavutha yimvelaphi. Omnye umfundi wacela i-unicorn okanye iPanda, umntu othile unqwenela ukufumana iseti ye-Poker, kwavela ikukhali kuluhlu lwezipho. Abafana bathintelwa ngakumbi, njengoko oko kukholelwa ukuba ngamadoda, kwaye kuluhlu lwabo lweempendulo bekukho iseti ye-classic yezipho: ukusuka kwiilekese kunye nezinto ezithambileyo zokuhlwa kunye ne-rose.
Iziphumo zophando abantu abambalwa abantu baya kothusa, kwaye izikhundla ezimbini zokuqala ezinemida enkulu ukusuka kwezinye iimpendulo zithathwe ziintyatyambo kunye nezatifikethi zezipho. Kuyavela ukuba amantombazana akafuni ezintabeni zedayimani negolide - asanemihlali kwi-boequets entle yasentwasahlobo, apho ivumba labo lihlawulwe ngokutsha. Kwaye isatifikethi seSipho sizalisekisa ngokugqibeleleyo iintyatyambo ngendlela yokuthenga, i-hike kwi-spa, i-solarium okanye ichibi.
Mhlawumbi, uZhurfak yindawo yokuhlala, ngenxa yokuba abafana abathabatha inxaxheba kuphando olukhethiweyo ukunika iintyatyambo zabo ezithandekayo zentyatyambo kwaye bacwangcise imihla yokuthandana kunokuba bagalele amantombazana. Ndiyathemba ukuba iziphumo zophando ziya kunceda abantu ukuba baphephe amandla kunye nokuphoxeka kumanenekazi abo kwiholide entle yasentwasahlobo. Xa uthenga isimanga, khumbula ukuba eyona nto iphambili ayisosipho soqobo, kodwa ingqwalaselo oyinikelayo kubantu obathandayo.
Umbhali-Maria Larlin
Umthombo - Springzhizni.ru.