Ukufika kwam esikolweni, iintlanganiso zabazali yayikukuphela kwendlela eyinyani yokudlulisela ulwazi oluyimfuneko kubazali, kuba kwakungekho kwi-Intanethi, kwaye ifowuni yayingeyiyo yonke. Phambi kweendlela zonxibelelwano, iincoko ezifana nezithunywa, kunye nokuvalwa kwefihlakalo ekukhankanywe iifanitshala ethile, iintlanganiso zabazali zajika zaba sisiseko sexesha elidlulileyo.
Ukuqala kwi-Kindergarten, bendisiya rhoqo kwiintlanganiso zabazali, ndiyithathela ingqalelo ngoxanduva lwakhe olakhe. Ke kwakungekho ncoko kunye neenethiwekhi zentlalo kunye nemibuzo emininzi ifuna ukuba ubukho buqu. Kwiminyaka emi-3 eyadlulayo, xa unyana wayekwibanga lesi-8, ndayeka ukuhamba kubo ndazisola ngokuba ndingakhange ndiyenze ngaphambili. Ndifuna ukwabelana nabafundi baka-Adme.ru, kwakutheni ukuze bafumane isigqibo kwaye yintoni etshintshe ukusukela ngoko. I-Spoyiler: Akukho nto, ngaphandle kokuba iintlungu ziye zomelela ngakumbi kwaye kwavela ixesha elide.
"Amanye amantombazana abukeka ethembekile, kwaye amanye amakhwenkwe atya rhoqo isidlo somntu"
Sele i-zero, ootitshala abaqhubela phambili baphepha izimvo zabo, kwaye ukusukela ngo-2006, xa umthetho "wasungulwa kwidatha yobuqu", umkhwa wathatha umlinganiso omkhulu. Ngoku oomama bakamama banokuya ezintlanganisweni ngokukhululekileyo, bengakwazi ukubamba iimbono zabanye abazali. Kwangelo xesha, iintlanganiso zaphulukana nentsingiselo ephambili. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, abazali babaluleke kakhulu kunazo zonke iimpumelelo ze-chad yabo, hayi ukusebenza kweklasi xa iyonke. Ke, kunokwenzeka ukuba ufunde ngokuziphatha okanye uvavanyo lomntwana wakho ngoku kwintlanganiso yakho kuphela kunye notitshala okanye ngohlobo oluthile lweempawu ezingathanga ngqo.
Xa unyana wam wayekwibanga lesi-8, utitshala, engabizi amagama, wathi amanye amantombazana ayenza i-fakemp eqaqambileyo kwaye ebangela ukuba amakhwenkwe atya isidlo sasemini. Ezo zimizuzu ezili-15 ukuba utitshala kunye nabazali bamantombazana afunyaze, ngokolawulo, kukho imbonakalo, kukho imbonakalo, kukho inkangeleko, oomamma kunye namakhwenkwe ajonga kwiifowuni. Imizuzu eli-15 ezayo, ngelixa isela le-ephemeres le-dinerers laxelwa, abazali bamantombazana baphoswa.
"Abantwana Bakho abayi kubhala umsebenzi wokuqinisekisa"
Amabinzana athi "Wena iklasi embi" eyoyikisayo yabantwana kuphela kumagumbi okufundela, kodwa kunye nabazali ezintlanganisweni. Omnye utitshala waphefumlela, abazali: abantwana bakho abayi kubhalela umsebenzi wokuqinisekisa, musa ukunikezela ngeemviwo, ukungakhathali, abayi kuhlawulwa, njl njl. Ewe, babhala badlula. Kodwa lo ufakelo lo titshala kukwenza ukoyikisa, kwaye womelele ngakumbi - kutheni engaphelisi ndawo. Khawufane ucinge indlela ebeya kuba yenzeka ngayo abazali, ukuba ngequbuliso, entlanganisweni, umntu ovela kubafundisi-ntsapho wathi: "Ewe unokuphumelela, uya kuphumelela."
"Abazali bakhawuleza bawa kwizibini, umntu omnye uya kuvala amehlo akhe aze awele, kwaye omnye uyayibamba"
Umfundisi wokuqala wonyana wam wayekhe wahlonela inenekazi elinekrelekrele elinesimo esisebenzayo. Uchithe indibano ecokisekileyo, kwaye ngaphambi kwentsimbi ye-9, kwangafane iphoswe. Ukongeza kwi-Orgali, iNatalia Ivanovna iphakamise iingxaki ezibalulekileyo zedadagogical. Umzekelo, enye inkwenkwe yamxelela ukuba izindlu zakhe zihlekiswa zithathu. I-batl exshwe ngesiqingatha seyure uNatali ivanovna ifunda isiluleko sokuba kutheni kungenzeka ukuba senze njalo, - ngemizekelo yobomi, iingcebiso zezengqondo. Kulungile, kodwa kutheni ndingaphikanga umntwana kwiTroka, emva kokuba usuku olunzima lokusebenza kufuneka limamele le ntetho, endaweni yokuya ekhaya ndinikele ingqalelo kulo mntwana? Ngamanye amaxesha uNatalia Ivanovna akaphelelanga kwintetho. Xa sele ebuze bonke abazali ukuba baphume baye kwi-paridor kunye nengozi kwesi sibini. Ngaphezulu kwelinye lamaqabane kwakufuneka avale amehlo kwaye aqalise ukuwa, kwaye enye ifuneka ukuyichola. Ke sasebenza kwintembelo kwiqela labazali. Kuyinyani, omnye uMammy akabanjwa. Uninzi lwezinto lwalusekwiminyaka emi-4 yeSikolo samaNqaku: Senze ngasemva, saphosa uhlobo lwamagqabi laza labhala iileta ngokwabantwana bethu. Mhlawumbi yonke le nto inokuba inomdla kakhulu, kodwa kwezinye iimeko, nabanye abantu kunye nesicelo sabo.
Iintlanganiso ngosuku olunye: Isikolo sikhululekile, hayi abazali kakhulu
Kanye ekuqaleni kwentwasahlobo bendiyifumene intlanganiso. Imoto kwafuneka ibeke iimitha ezingama-300 ukusuka esikolweni. Ngelixa ubaleka ebumnyameni kwikhephu elinyibilikileyo, wawa kuhlobo oluthile lwepuddle, enkqonkqoza imilenze yakhe. Kwaye konke kuba "ukulula kwendalo" isikolo sagqiba kwelokuba sibambe iintlanganiso kuzo zonke iiklasi ngosuku lwabazali bonke, ngoku iimoto zabo bonke abazali zesikolo zihlala isitalato sonke. Ukongeza, kwezinye iintsapho kukho abafunda ngabafundi aba-2, kwaye umama kuphela ebandleni, engakwazi ukwahlulahlula kwiiklasi ezi-3. Ngokubanzi, esi sigqibo sifanelekileyo sokubonakala kukayise entlanganisweni asiyondisi ngokuchanekileyo.
"Kwaye undixelele ukuba zingaphi iiseli zokubuyela umva?"
Ukuya ebandleni, ixesha labo landala abazali bakaPetrosyan, kunye ne-MAMS engaqondakaliyo okanye engacacanga kunye notata. Ezinye izinto kunye nemibuzo efanayo kwisangqa se-101 ("kwaye ndixelele kwakhona, zingaphi iiseli eziya kubuya?"), Amaqhulo angalunganga "yinxalenye yendibano. Kwaye ukuba kwincoko onokuthi ujikeleze bonke ukungakhathalelwa kwaye kungabekwanga, emva kwentlanganiso, yiba nobubele, hlala kwaye uphulaphule.
"Njani ngaphandle kwemibala? Ewe, uyenzile! "
Xa unyana wam eguqulwe kwisikolo esitsha, iminyaka emininzi yonke imibuzo isombulule "iTransjeor" encinci yabazali abasebenzayo. Yimalini ukuba ichithe kwizipho zoNyaka oMtsha, indlela yokwenza imisebenzi yangaphandle, njl njl. Basongela ezintlanganisweni ngesigwebo esisekwenzeni. Xa ndiphelelwe ngumzekelo ovela kwi-Intanethi, ndinikelwe endaweni yokuthenga iintyatyambo ngoSeptemba 1 Ukuchitha imali kaThala, ndahleka. Ndaye ndafumanisa ukuba ukuthanda kwam akuvunelwanga ngokhetho lwe "Rulling Russing", nokuba lukhetho lweholide ekhokelayo, umhlobiso kwikhonsathi. Kwangelo xesha, andikhathali yonke le nto, kubalulekile ukucwangcisa i-shotion kwaye ibhukuqa iKomiti yazali.
"Iklasi ayifuni kufunda! IMATHEMATIKA Kutitshala Ikhalaza NgoBantwana "
Kutheni le nto imeko injani ukuba ootitshala bakhalaza kubazali abangengabo abahlali kunye ne-hooligans, kodwa kudidi olupheleleyo, baye bangumgangatho wakutshanje. Nangona, ukuza ezintlanganisweni nasekunquleni: "Abantwana bakho ngokucwangcisiweyo abawugqibe umsebenzi wabo wesikolo," utitshala uphwazelwa kukungasebenzi kwakhe, kuba abanye ootitshala azizingxaki. Ngandlel 'ithile kwintlanganiso kwiBanga lesi-6, umfundisi-ntsapho omtsha weMathematics uvula ucango lokufundela kwaye athi: "Abantwana bakho abafuni ukufunda konke, kuya kufuneka wenze into." Bonke abazali bakhukhumeleza emgqalazweni, bathe cwaka, nanku omnye utata waqukwa: "Yintoni le ayenzileyo kukutshintsha ootitshala." Utitshala ubonakala emve, kodwa ndivumelana ngokupheleleyo nam. Andiqondi ukuba kutheni ndim, mzali, ndifuna ukuzaliseka kukatitshala, kwaye andifuni ukuchitha ixesha lam, ndiphulaphule, kubi, kubi bonke abantwana bethu.
Kwiminyaka eli-11 ndiza kuchitha i-5.5 iintsuku zobomi bakho ngeentlanganiso zesikolo
Xa unyana wayekwibanga lesi-8, intlanganiso yomzali yenzeka ekuqaleni konyaka wesikolo. Ixoxa ngesikolo esilandelayo (ndingathanda ukongeza "amampunge"). Ukuphola kwethu, ngokokuqhelisela kwakho, kutsala iklasi efanayo. Kunyaka ongaphambi koko, utata omnye ophuma kwi-8 "b", emkhosini, yeza ne-cuisine yasebusika ukuya kwi-cuisine yasesikolweni kwaye wafunga iPilaf, eyayikho. Kulo nyaka kufuneka siphulukane nempumlo "ye-Bashchki". Ngelixa abazali abakhutheleyo baxoxa ngayo, indlela yokucwangcisa ipizzeria eselula kwibala lemidlalo, ndizamile ukubala ukuba ndilibala ixesha elingakanani nakwezi zinto zibalulekileyo kuzo zonke izinyuko ngazo zonke izinto. Ijika malunga neeyure ezili-12 kunye nendlela kuzo zombini iindlela. Oko kukuthi, kwiminyaka eli-11 ndiza kuchitha iiyure ezili-132 zobomi bam akucaci ukuba yintoni. Kwaye ndagqiba kwelokuba: yonke into yanele.
"Kwaye ukuba bonke abazali bayayeka ukuya ezintlanganisweni?"
Intlanganiso elandelayo, eyayinikezelwe kumbhiyozo woNyaka oMtsha, ndagqiba kwelokuba ndingahambi. Uvavanyo ndiyazi kwaye kunjalo, akukho ngxaki nonyana wam, ukuba ufuna ukutyikitya into - iya kuthunyelwa nomntwana, ulwazi olubalulekileyo luya kubhalwa kwincoko yomzali. Ukuswela kwam, kubonakala ngathi akukho mntu uqaphela. Ngokuqhelekileyo esingenzi njalo-kuphela sisiqingatha sabazali kuphela. Ekupheleni konyaka, umfundisi weklasi wayengahlambulukanga: "Kutheni bekungekho kwintlanganiso? Khange ugule? " Ndiphendula ukuba akukho, andiyiboni ingongoma. Kwaye ibolile ezingcuka kutheni. "Kwaye ukuba bonke abazali bayayeka ukuya ezintlanganisweni?" -buza utitshala. "Ke, mhlawumbi, uya kuyeka ukuchitha," utshilo. Kwiveki kamva ndabizwa kuMlawuli. Ibhinqa elicacalanga leSoviet Ukohlwaywa laqala ukuyicacisa ukuba lo ngumsebenzi wam wokuba ngumzali kwaye, ukuba andifuni kuyenza, isikolo siya kunyanzelwa ukuba siyinike ingxelo. Izisongelo zazingenanto- akukho mthetho unjalo unyanzelisa abazali ukuba baye ezintlanganisweni. Ke ngoko, akunakubakho sohlwayo ngenxa yokwala. Ndicacisa ngentlonelo umlawuli, kutheni ndingangeni ebandleni.
Kule minyaka i-3, ndaphawula ukuba imeko-moya yosapho iye ithole kakhulu. Ngaphambili, nangona kunjalo, nangona kunjalo, nangona kunjalo, ndingenisa inxenye yekhaya kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ndandiqala ku-Kirest unyana wam: "Kwaye uAnna Mikhailovna uthi awwenzanga izifundo kwifowuni, njl njl." Ewe, kwaye ngokubanzi, imeko emva kokuba indibano yayingenguye, kwaye uninzi andivumi, into ethile inomsindo, kodwa usahlala kwaye ucinga ukuba ndiyayirhoxisa ngenxa yale ntlanganiso nabahlobo . Ngoku le mpikiswano yaphuma ebomini bethu. Lonke ulwazi olubalulekileyo yinkokeli epholileyo ephosa kwincoko yomzali. Ukuba ndifuna ukuthetha notitshala othile-ndiya esikolweni. Imali ndiyiguqulela kwimephu. Kulo lonke eli xesha, andizange ndivakalelwe kukuba ndiyalikhumbula into ebalulekileyo. Kwangelo xesha, kufuneka kuqatshelwe, andifuni ukunxibelelana nabanye abazali. Mna nomyeni wam sityelela iikonsathi kwaye "Makenze" qala ", emsebenzini kwi-disconsi yesikolo, siya kwihambo epholileyo. Iintlanganiso zabazali, ndiyakholelwa, zikhutshiwe kwaye zikufuphi nexesha elizayo nokuba ziya kunyamalala, okanye ziya kwifomathi ye-intanethi.