Xa into embi yenzekile, ayifanele ibe nomsindo kwindalo iphela okanye amanye amakhosi ephezulu, kuba bahlala benqwenelela okuhle. Umzekelo, indalo iphela ilungiselele ikamva lethu, kodwa akukho nto iyo injalo. Kule nto kuya kufuneka uhambe, kufuneka uzame. Kwaye ukuba ngequbuliso uyehla kwaye ungahambi kakuhle kwindlela, indalo iphela iya kuhlala ikunqanda. Kodwa ayinguye wonke umntu owaziyo ukumamela imiqondiso.
1. Rhoqo emva kwexesha
Ngaphambili, uvukile ngexesha kwaye wonke umntu ulawula yonke indawo, kodwa ngoku yonke into iphosakele? Inokuba luphawu olucacileyo lwendalo iphela. Mhlawumbi ukhawuleze kakhulu, kuba kutheni ulibale ngokupheleleyo ngawe? Phumla kwaye ucinge ukuba awuthandi ngokuthe ngqo kweli lixa.2. Uninzi lwezinto ezingafunekiyo, inkunkuma
Hayi, uhlala uhlala, nyuka endlwini, kodwa inkunkuma iseluninzi? Oku kunokuthetha ukuba awuyiboni imeko ngokupheleleyo, mhlawumbi yile nto kanye izama ukuyidlulisela indalo.
3. Kunzima ukugxila kuhlobo oluthile lwe
Umzekelo, umntu ugcwele ukuphefumlelwa. Uhlala phantsi aze aqalise ukwenza into awayeyifuna, kodwa emva kwemizuzu embalwa okanye emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa izandla zingasafuni ukwenza le nto. Lo msebenzi uyekile ukumdlalela okanye ungenzi kubangela iimvakalelo ezingathandekiyo. Yonke le nto isenokuba yimiqondiso yendalo iphela, ukuba oku kuyenzeka rhoqo. Mhlawumbi kuya kufuneka ufumane izizathu zakho? Okanye ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ucinge, kwaye ngaba kufanelekile ngexesha lakho namandla akho?4. Isithukuthezi, ukulangazelela, isizungu
Ukuba ubuncinci kwezi mvakalelo zihlala zikutyelela, emva koko ulahlekelwe ngumnqweno wokufezekisa iinjongo zakho. Okanye ngaba uyaqonda ukuba yonke le nto ayisiyonto uyiphuphayo. Kwakhona, indalo iphela inokucebisa ngayo nayiphi na ingxwaleko, malunga nezinye izinto ezintsha. Eyona nto iphambili kule meko ayibizi, yiya phambili!
5. Yoyika ukucinga malunga notshintsho
Ukuba uyoyika ukutshintsha nantoni na ebomini bakho, nkqu nokuthenga i-mug entsha, endaweni yakudala, emva koko inokuba luphawu kwindalo iphela. Ubona yonke into, kwaye uyayibona indlela oyisebenzisa ngayo iminqweno yakho. Ndiyoyika ukuzama / ukuqala. Apha ngokwale meko ibalulekileyo kwaye uzama ukucacisa indalo.
Zonke ezi meko zenzeka ngequbuliso kwaye ziphindaphindwe rhoqo. Ukuba utshintshe into ebomini bakho, kwaye ngale ngxaki uyeka ukudibana, ke ukwikhondo elifanelekileyo! Umnqweno omhle)))
Njengaye kwaye ubhalise kwijelo. Apha uza kufumana amanqaku amaninzi anomdla onomdla kunye nolunye ulwazi oluluncedo))Umthombo