Indoda yakho luphawu othuleyo olungakuxeleli ukuba ucinga ntoni okanye luziva njani? Xa umbuza imibuzo kwaye uzame ukumnyanzela ukuba aveze, ngaba awucingi ukuba ukhutshiwe kuwe? Uyadideka into oyifunayo kuye?
Ukuthetha namadoda kunokuba nzima ukuba awuqondi ukuba basabela njani. Nokuba indoda yakho iyathetha, isenokwabelana ngeengcinga zakhe, iimvakalelo okanye iimvakalelo ezineentsingiselo ezinzulu. Ngaba ufuna ukwazi iimfihlo ezintlanu kwindlela yokuthetha nendoda?
Awunakho ukuthetha namadoda njengabafazi
Abafazi baphantse balungele ukunxibelelana. Ukuba uvuke intombi yakho ngentsimbi yesithathu ekuseni ukuya kumxelela iinkcukacha zexaso lakho kunye nomntu, uya kuba nakho ukulungisa into oyithethayo malunga nemizuzwana emihlanu. Kwaye ngokuchasene noko, ukuba uvusa inkwenkwe yakho ukuba imxelele nantoni na ebalulekileyo, iyakulingana nokuluma kwenyosi. Iya kothuka, idideke kwaye inomsindo kancinci. Uya kufuna imizuzu engamashumi amabini ukuba adibane kwaye ave ukuba uthini.Musa ukujoyina incoko namadoda xa bengakho kwimeko. Banike ithuba kunye nexesha lokuphulaphula. Bafuna ukuba kufutshane nawe kwaye bakunike into oyifunayo, kodwa ufanele uqonde ukuba badinga ixesha lokugxila kwincoko, kunye nokuqonda okucacileyo nokuchaneka kwento oyifunayo kubo.
Amadoda akulo nkulungwane ayelungiselelwe ukhathalela usapho
Xa unxibelelana naye nasiphi na isikhalazo, nokuba ukhalaza ngenxa yokuba iinwele zakho zipeyintwe eziluhlaza, kwaye zingakhanyisi, ngokungazi ukuba lityala lakhe. Ukuba indoda ivakalelwa kukuba ukukhathalele kakubi (kwaye izikhalazo zijika ziyimbono yokuba ungalunganga kuwe), emva koko ufumana ukungakhathazeki kwengqondo. Uyayibona ingxaki yakho njengoyiswa.
Akukho mfuneko yokuba ungayiqondi indoda ethe cwaka okanye ijongele phantsi ukuba uthetha ngaye. Ube sengozini kuwe.
Ngokungafaniyo nabafazi, amadoda awaphili amanxeba athembekileyo
Ngubani okhathalela okungakumbi ngentanda yakhe, indoda okanye umfazi? Ukuba uphendula ukuba le yindoda, uya kuba ulungile. Xa indoda ivakalelwa kukuba ithule kubudlelwane, ucinga ukuba yonke into ilandelelana. Ukuba umntu obhinqileyo akathethi, ocinga ukuba ahambe. Isiqingatha samadoda kubudlelwane obuhlelelekileyo bayazi ukuba kukho ingxaki. Abanye bakholelwa ukuba babengalindelanga ikhefu.Unika intsingiselo yobomi kwindoda yakho. Ubaluleke ngakumbi kuye kunaye nabani na okuqondayo. Lumka ngamazwi akho.
Amadoda angcono kwabo baqhuba abanye ngokujongana nabo.
Abafazi bafumana intlawulo eyomeleleyo kunxibelelwano. Amadoda akasayi kuze afumane uyolo lokuba bayathetha nomntu. Bahlala becinga ukuba amagama aphazamisane nokuziva ngalo mzuzu. Amadoda anomonde weemvakalelo ezintle xa besenza into okanye benze imithambo yomzimba. Bayakuthanda ukwabelana ngeeklasi zabo kunye nomfazi othandekayo.
Fumana ubuncinci isifundo esikuthandayo sobabini, kwaye sizenze kunye. Iya komeleza ubudlelwane bakho kwaye inike impumelelo yokuphumelela.
Amadoda athanda iodolo
Indoda iyayithanda i-oda. Ukutshintsha kweShedyuli, izicwangciso, okanye imeko esendlini iyayenza. Ufuna ixesha lakhe akhululwe kwi-tuermoil, ukuze akwazi ukugxila kwaye agxile emsebenzini, kwaye, ekugqibeleni, kwintsapho.
Inqaku lokuqala lilapha
Umthombo