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"Mama ongendawo" kunye newaka lezizathu eziliwaka: Abasebenzisi beRudita baxoxa ngeminyaka yabantwana babo abakukhumbulayo nge-shwedder kwaye kutheni wonke umntu othanda kakhulu umntwana.
Ukuba ucela nawuphi na umzali, yintoni eyona minyaka yobudala bomntwana wakhe, impendulo yakhe ayizukulindeleka. Umntu othile wayenembi kakhulu kwithuba lentsale-ngokulala ebusuku, iidayithi ezingena ezinqeni kunye nokukhala kwe-pterodaccol, umntu-kwi-Net "), kwaye umntu ucinga ukuba umntwana Sele ibonakala ngathi ikrelekrele, kodwa ayikabikho - lo ngumtshutshisi wejaji.
Enye indlela okanye enye into, into enye malunga nendlela iminyaka yobudala enikelwa ngayo kubazali bayo ngaphezu kwayo yonke into, ayikho. Ngeminyaka "elungileyo" yeminyaka enjalo injalo. Nangona kunjalo, kuhlala kunokwenzeka ukuba udibane noluvo lokuba intokazi yeyona minyaka imangalisayo yomntwana. Njengokuba kukho i-zucchini, ngokuchukumisayo i-rulite, ijonge abazali bakhe ngothando ngamehlo akhe - kwaye kungabikho nto ivumayo kuwe kunye ne "Puppy Patrol".
Umsebenzisi waseRandit Strawberrymochie144 wagqiba kwelokuba ajongane nezizathu ze-nostalgia, apho uninzi lwabazali lukhumbule iminyaka emininzi yomntwana wabo kwaye lwenza intambo ngombuzo:
Abantu abathi isigaba sentsana sesona sithandwa sabo: Yintoni ephosakeleyo ngawe? Andiqondi.Ngaba i-massochists, ayikhumbuli nantoni na okanye ixoki? Umntwana wam phantse unyaka. Kwaye nangona ungumtsalane nje, kunzima kuye!
Utya kwaye atyeke izihlandlo ezithandathu ngosuku. Uzama ukutyhala yonke into azibona emlonyeni wakhe. Waqala ukubaleka kwangethuba, ngoko ke kufuneka ndimmele rhoqo. Uhlala ephosa ukutya. Unoyolo ulele ngaphezulu kweyure. Usavuka ebusuku. Ufuna ntoni ukundixelela ukuba kuya kuba nzima ngakumbi?
Emini, umbuzo ufumene iimpendulo ezingaphezu kwama-700, ezinceda ekucaciseni uthando lwabazali ngeendlela zokucoca abantwana, kwaye banika ithuba lokujonga iminyaka eyahlukileyo. Ndiguqulele abanye babo.
Ngalo lonke ixesha ndinokuhleka ngokwengqondo, xa abazali bakaNtsapho bathi: "Kunzima kangaka, bavuka ubusuku bonke, ngoku bakhawuleza," njalo njalo.
Ewe, ewe, linda nide zibe yishumi elivisayo, nize niqale ukuhamba nabahlobo, kwaye aniyi kulala ubusuku bonke kuba abaphenduli de babuye. Kwaye ndiyazi ukuba ndithetha ngaBantwana abathandathu. Ndingathanda kakhulu ukuba ziintsana kwakhona.
I-Mioniochatbholo -ll.
Andinguye oyena uthandayo, kwaye ngoku ndonwabile kakhulu njengomzali womzali ophakathi kunokuba bendikwindima yomntwana. Kodwa kwisizathu esithile esingacacanga, kufuneka siqalise umntwana wesibini, kwaye .... ipachake.
Iintsana zintle kakhulu. Banezidenge ze-cubby kunye namathole athambileyo asebenza kakuhle. Benza izandi ezimbi nezihlekisayo kakhulu. Ilula kunye nabo. Kwaye bakhula ngokukhawuleza.
Unyana wam wamazibulo wayengumntwana ozizigidi kwiminyaka eyadlulayo. Okwesibini kum phantse sisiqingatha sonyaka. Kodwa ndiqinisekile ukuba wazalwa izolo.
I-Gluestic_TTC.
Abantwana bangabahambisi. Aba bahlupheki abancinci abathimba ikhaya lakho.Ndikulungele ukuba sisigidi sezigidi. Kodwa andizukunyamezela abantwana. Oko kukuthi, ndikulungele ukukhulisa umntwana ngokuzalwa kude kube lixesha lokuba aqala ukuhamba, emva koko ndingamnika umntu de abe uneminyaka elishumi ubudala, ke ndikulungele ukuyenza.
I-Brain_Firy_Over_MED.
Ndicinga ukuba le yimemori ekhethiweyo: Kwelinye icala, ukungabikho kokulala kuyagqwetha iinkumbulo, kwelinye icala, kuxhunyiwe ngenxalenye yendaleko-kungcono ukhumbule ubunzima. Ewe, ezinye izinto zobuqu.
I-inasnaspocket.
Ayiba nzima ngakumbi, abantwana bayeka ukuba mhle kakhulu. Ndacinga ngokufanayo xa umntwana wethu ezalisekisiwe unyaka. Ngoku ndiyazi: Ubuntwana busenokwenzeka kakhulu ixesha elinzima, kodwa neyona ilungileyo nayo.
Ulihlabathi liphela, umntwana wakho, ngalo lonke ixesha amehlo akhe ekhanya emehlweni akho, uyaqonda ukuba ngenye imini uya kuyiphosa yonke imiphefumlo.
I-DietddopdomplepyPorp.
Ewe, ke kuya kuba nzima ngakumbi. Ndilinde nje de umntwana akuxelele ukuba "unomsindo omkhulu," kuba awumvumeli ukuba ubekhona amathuba kwisidlo sakusasa. Kodwa ixesha lentsana andinayo eyona nto ithandekayo, ndiwuthanda umsantsa phakathi kwe-1.5 kunye ne-2.5 iminyaka ubudala - phambi kokuba abantwana bathanda ukuxoka.
Ooooz.
Ndinabantwana kwiqela ngalinye leminyaka. Kwaye ixesha lentsana lelona lihle kakhulu. Ewe, ayisiyonto ilula kakhulu, kodwa ilula kakhulu kunokuba unxibelelwano namantombazana athe aqaqanjiswa.
Mamabear0596.
Ndaye ndakuvuyela xa umntwana wam wayesandul 'ukuzalwa. Ke ngoku, xa ndicinga ngayo, ndilikhulu lepesenti eliqinisekileyo lokuba yayikukumgqibelo. Ndiyavuma, bendingenawo owona mntwana usandul 'ukuzalwa. Akukho namnye kubo owayene-colic okanye ezinye iingxaki, kwaye ndiyaziqonda ukuba, mhlawumbi, yonke into ibiya kwahluka xa ndinabanye abantwana.
Kodwa ixesha lokuzalwa kwam kunye nosana olusanda kuzalwa, yayikuphela kwexesha lokuziva ndingumzali ofanelekileyo.Ngalo lonke ixesha badanduluka, ndabathatha ezandleni zam. Ndabazondla, ndancuma, ndafunga kwaye ndazimisela. Yiyo yonke into endiyenzileyo.
I-Nimueelovefefee.
Ndiye ndacinga njalo yonke imihla yokuba ndinomntwana wesibini, kwaye abadala babengabo abathathu. Ngoku iipesenti ezingama-90 zamatyala omntwana avela abe lula kakhulu kuneminyaka emithathu. Ngomntwana yonke into ilula, yonke into inokuqikelelwa kwaye kwishedyuli. Mna nomyeni wam ndiyaxabana ngenxa yomntu oya kukhathalela umntwana.
Uthando_i_store.
Ngeentsana zilula. Nkosi, njengoko ndikhumbula ngelo xesha. Baneemfuno ezintandathu ukusuka kumandla. Ukuba bayakhala, bafuna ukutya, okanye baneegesi, okanye badinga ukuwanuka okanye badiniwe. Kwaye kulula ukuyifumana.
Kwaye emva koko babonakala izizathu eziliwaka. Zivela ngakumbi iimfuno, iba nzima ngakumbi nabo. Ewe bafunda ukuthetha, kodwa kunqabile ukuba bacinge kwaye bacacisa ngokucacileyo oko bakudingayo.
IFudypi.
Ndiqinisekile ukuba ingqondo yethu icwangcisiwe ukuze silibale ngayo yonke into kwaye sizale abantwana abaninzi. Nditsalela icebo lam leminyaka emihlanu, kwaye emva kokuba amazinyo ayo egqibile ukusika, sasilula kuye. Kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo andikulungeni ukuba ndigqitywe ngobu busuku obungenasiphelo ngokulala.
Katsa_hoy94.
Kubonakala kum ukuba yonke iminyaka yoyikeka, kwaye kwangaxeshanye engcono, ngokuxhomekeka koko ukubukela.
KristweMpe.
Ewe, iba nzima ngakumbi. (Ndingumzali okwishumi elivisayo. Kunzima ngakumbi). Ukuba bendinokuzicombulula zonke iingxaki zakhe, ndiyondla, ndimsulela kuye de walala ... Oh ewe nceda!
I-infiindeer
Kwintambo yakho unokufumana amagqabantshintshi anomdla kwezona zinto zibalulekileyo: Umntu othile ukwi-zucchini emnandi ye-zucchini, kwaye umntu othanda abantwana abaqhumayo, abanokuthi sele beyichaze into kwaye beza nayo. Ukugweba ngugqatso, olona lunzima kubazali abakwishumi elivisayo. Kwaye nguwuphi umntwana onayo oyithandayo?
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