UAlfonso ukhona, okokuqala, i-dexteraus mailliculator, ihlala inedatha elungileyo yokwenza, i-parasite entle yentlalo, umonakalo onomdla ongathathwanga awuthathelwa ingqalelo yikhowudi yolwaphulo-mthetho njengobubi.
Imvelaphi ye "Imvelaphi" yobudoda "(i-Alphonse" ithengisa ngokwayo ", kwaye ayisebenzi nje i-charm yayo yokutsala) kufuneka ifune ukujonga ebuntwaneni. Rhoqo 'ngunyana kaMamienekin "," inkwenkwe entle ", apho bengafuni kwanto, bebiyela kuyo yonke" ingozi "yeli hlabathi lipheleleyo.
Kwinani elikhulu lamatyala entsatsheni, kwakungekho tata, umama, umakhulu, umakhulu kunye nomhlobo kamama wajikeleza inkwenkwe ephukileyo. Ukhule ukhule, ulivila kwaye akasebenzi. Kwangelo xesha, inkwenkwana enjalo, ngenxa yokuqatshelwa kwabantwana, yaqatshelwa kakuhle ziimeko zokuziphatha kwabasetyhini-oko bakuthandayo, kunye nento abanayo, bamamela ngayo incoko yabo.
Ukukhula, waqala ukukhangela kwabanye abantu ukuba abonakalise isisa sakhe, kodwa abe ngumama ongenangqondo, wayehlala emxhobisela kubo bonke ubunzima babantwana, nto leyo ihlawula zonke iimbandezelo zabantwana. Inenekazi lifanele libe sisityebi kwaye liphumelele ukuze ukwazi ukuthutha emva kwakhe 'u-Manane' ubuyele 'wale' wachitha, ngaphandle kokucinga, ngemali yakhe.
Owona msebenzi uphambili wealfons-ukufumana umfazi osisityebi osisityebi, wehlisa kwaye, ukuba imeko ilungele, iphila naye okwethutyana, intlekisa enkulu.
I-Alfons indlela yokuziphatha ye-Akin kwi-UUREITS I-fudolo yekhethe elithandekayo:
- Imbono enye, iimpahla ezihle, ifashoni yefashoni, incasa ethandekayo, umzimba ochetyiweyo.
- Izama ukujonga njengokuphawulwa kwesondo, indlela, ithanda ukwenza umbono, i-hystery (ihlala inxibelelana nale nto, iyamkelwa ngempazamo ngamanye amadoda ukuba abameli kunye ne-oszyan).
- Hlanganisa i-challier, uncumo aluveli ebusweni. Ukuba umntu obhinqileyo uyatshaya, uya kuhlala elula ngexesha, uZipping kude neteksi nge-zipper kwaye unike i-nipper kwaye uchaze umnyango wegumbi lamanenekazi, ngaphandle kokubonisa ukucaphukisa okanye iingcikivo.
- Ivulwe kunxibelelwano, kodwa ayithethi ngaye, ikhankanya kuphela ukuba ifumene idrama yobuqu kwaye ayisakholelwa kubafazi, kodwa wadibana nomdla omkhulu kwaye onomdla okokuqala ngqa.
- Unomdla ngokweenkcukacha, unomdla kubuhlobo bakhe, mbuza ngomsebenzi, imeko yemali, imeko-bume.
- Ukuba ndiyaqonda ukuba le inenekazi alityebi kwimali, emva koko liphantsi kwengxokolo ngoku ekubeni sele iluncedo ngoku ukuba intlanganiso ebaluleke kakhulu kufuneka yenzeke, iya kuzama ukuqokelela. Kwaye makamkele! Isusa ngokukhawuleza kwincwadi yefowuni, iibhloko kuyo yonke indawo.
- Ukuba "ubambe isibindi" ubanjiwe, uqhubeka, kodwa ngokumodareyitha, ujonga indlela yomfazi kwisenzo ngasinye.
- Xa inoveli yayisele ijijekile, kukho ngoko nangoko ukhangela ngokukhawuleza malunga nento ekufuneka imali ifuneka, ababolekisi bayacinezelwa, "Umama uyafa," ekuphela kwezindlu ezinokubukhulisa. Ujonge umfazi emehlweni alusizi, andikwazanga ukumbongoza kuye? Ibizwa ngokuba yimali enkulu. Ngamana ungaguqa ngamandla, ukwenga izandla, vumelani.
- Ungaze ubonise amaxwebhu akhe - phantsi kwayo nayiphi na intelekelelo yolu kupheliso.
- Ayithandi ukuba ifotwe, ilele ukuba iNeubotogenic, ixhoma naziphi na izihlomelo zemilingo ("iifoto zithathe amandla obuqu", njl njl).
Umfazi othandweni, ngakumbi inqanaba, exabisa igama lakhe, ukuba inkohliso, aliyi emapoliseni. Asingabo bonke abaza kuyicima umphefumlo wakhe ebantwini, baxele ukuba basuka njani na ukuzizimathane.
Ngaba ukuthintela kule meko? Ewe ewe ewe. Kuya kufuneka wenze oku kulandelayo:
- Funda yonke into ngomsebenzi wentando entsha (iqinile, isikhundla, umvuzo, isimo sengqondo kuye kwiqela).
- Ukwala ukuhlawula amatyala. Ukuba ekwenzeni okokuqala ziziphathe ngesisa, wahlawula ngendawo yokutyela, kwaye xa ubudlelwane besibini basondela, ngequbuliso kuye kwafuneka ahlawule isizathu sencoko enkulu.
- Ukuba iguqukile ukuba i-macho ayisebenzi- ekuqaleni iyasebenza, kwaye ke uthando lothando luyaqhubeka.
- Ukungaziseli usapho nabahlobo. Ifuna ngokungagungqiyo ukuba umntu oqhelileyo kwenzeka.
- Qala incoko malunga nomntwana (nokuba awucwangcisi ngoku). Iqonga ngokuchasene ne-os sisizathu sokulumkisa.
Ungasusa njani ii-Alfons:
- Vala "i-crane yezemali". I-HARD nengaqubli.
- Ukutsho ukuba yonke into ejikelezileyo ayingowe. Le ndawo yizalamane zakho.
- Ukutshata umnikelo wakhe, ndixelele into ofuna ukugqiba ikhontrakthi yomtshato. Kukho igqwetha elilungileyo enimthembayo.
- Eyona ndlela ilungileyo neyonwabisayo-ngequbuliso inika ingxelo yokuba unabo ubunzima bezemali, ngoku uya kuphila ngendleko zakhe. Ivela emsebenzini kwabacinezelweyo. Mcele ukuba anamatyala imali ubuncinci e-zeros ezintlanu, esithi ufuna ukusombulula iingxaki zakho zezinto ezibonakalayo. Niya kubona ukumka kuye, nomkhondo uya kusasazeka.
Kwangelo xesha kubalulekile ukuba ikhuphe iimvakalelo ezithambileyo (ukuba zisekutsha kwaye zikukhathazekile). Kule meko, owona mncedisi obalaseleyo uyanekratshi. Kwaye ewe, akuyomfuneko ukuba uzisole. Sisifundo esihle nesiluncedo.
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