Umthengi weReddit kunye noNick Kkuzzy wabuza abazali ukuba baceba ukuba nzima ukukhathalela abantwana abasandul 'ukuzalwa kwaye iiyure ezininzi bafumana ngaphezulu kwamakhulu eempendulo.
Akunakwenzeka ukuba ulungiselele ngokupheleleyo ukuzalwa komntwana- le yinyani. Umbhali wayesazi ukuba ulinde ukungalali, luhlobo luni lweendlela ababenazo kwaye ukubaleka kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Kodwa ngamaxesha onke kukho amaxesha ekungekho mntu ukhankanyiweyo, kwaye ngelize.
Kwinxalenye yenxalenye yombhali ekhathalelo lomntwana osandula ukuzalwa, ienwele zezipikili nase-geeping yaqala: "Kutheni ezi zikhonkwane zikhula ngokukhawuleza? Kutheni bekunzima kangaka ukubona? Kutheni le nto nje yayikukubetha kwimizuzwana elishumi emva kokondla, kwaye enye emva kwemizuzu esixhenxe? "
Izicelo ezininzi kakhuluKumagqabantshintshi, abazali babelana ngentlungu yabo: "Njengomama weenyoka ezintathu kunye neveki ezintandathu, ndalibala ukuba kunzima kangakanani na xa bonke abantwana befuna ingqalelo yakho kwaye bachukumisa. Umntwana unokukunika imizuzu elishumi ngelixa enomdla wokuxoka kwisitulo sokuphumla. Ke ngoko utya ngokukhawuleza, bhala ngokukhawuleza, uthathe ishawa ngokukhawuleza, ubeke uhlambile kwaye uzilungiselele ukuphazamisa izihlandlo ezisithoba, "wabhala iPeachy_sam.
Ukulala kunye nokuxhuma"Eyona nto inzima kum yayikukuba ndingqengqele, kuba intombazana yam ayikhange isetyenziswe esifubeni. Kwaye nezipikili zokugcina iinwele kunye nokulala ubuthongo kwiinyanga ezine, "wabhala i-champsmyppupy.
Ukwenza njani yonke into"Iwindows encinci yayiyifestile phakathi kwamaphupha kwiinyanga ezintathu zokuqala nokuba kungaya esihogweni, sinike indlela awayelala ngayo kakubi ngaphandle kwendlu. Sasinemizuzu engama-60 ukuya kwengama-90 yokunyanga, itshintshe, idlale, ivuye kwaye ibekwe kwi-wie-pings esuka kwishedyuli, ngaphandle koko isihogo sifikile. Yandiqhuba ngenxa yokuba kwakunzima ukuya kwenye indawo. Ngexesha, xa sasikulungele ukuphuma, sahlala malunga nesiqingatha seyure, esahamba ngendlela, siphinda sibuyele phambili.
Iingcinga ezingaphumliyoI-Dazzling_Frubhi ye-Dazzlings4710 Ingqubana nobunzima: "Sisabile kwaye silandelwe, malini i-oz. Eyona nto imbi kakhulu xa watya incinci kunento yakhe eqhelekileyo. Nangona wonke umntu wathi le yinto eqhelekileyo kwaye akufuneki uxinzelelo, ndaziva ndinexhala kunye noxinzelelo. Khange ndishiye iingcinga ebezingengaqhelekanga. "
Into engalunganga kum"Kum ezi yayingamathandabuzo ngesiqu sakho njengomzali xa wazalwa amazibulo. Uxhalabile, mhlawumbi, ndenza into engalunganga? Ndikhathazekile ukuba kutheni umntwana wam evutha kwaye enoloyiko xa endibona, mhlawumbi andindithandi? Yonke imihla ndibone iinethiwekhi zentlalo zeposti zokuqala, ezibonakala zibaluleke ngokupheleleyo kwimizuzu elungileyo yosuku ngalunye. Kwaye indenza ndizive ngathi andikho ipesenti ezili-100 ndithandane ne-trafles, njengesigidi se-dieper okanye ukungalali, yintoni ingxaki yam? " -Uthathe inxaxheba kwingxoxo ye-Esteban1226
Ubuchwephesha"Kum ngokobuqu, kwakunzima kakhulu ukujongana nabo bonke aba bantwana: Ukuthwala, i-sterilizer, i-hammock ... Le ayisiyonto ifanelekileyo. Ibhala athi: "Kuyimfuneko ukuba uqonde nganye nganye kwaye wenze ngokukhawuleza," ubhala ngokuthi, "ebhala e-Prepleroseld.
SebenzaIngxaki eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo kwakufuneka ijongene ne-TheWitbabaltito73: "Ikhefu lokuya kubeleka lifutshane kakhulu - ziiveki ezili-12 kuphela. Eyona nto imbi kakhulu kum kukuba ndiliphosile ixesha esinokuchitha nalo nomntwana. Endaweni yoko, ndaya emsebenzini, ndingaphindi nyani emva kokuba ndibuyele kwi-geumatic genera ngamacandelo aseCesarean. Izimvo zoogxa bakho malunga nokuba kutheni ndingekho ekhaya, ndikhulisa imeko. "
Ezo zandi"Kum ezi ziisandi ngequbuliso umntwana opapashayo! Akukho mntu undixelele ngeBoulock, ukuntywila, ukuncwina nokuntywila, "watsho uLayaralae7.
Iintsana zenza ngokwenene izandi ezininzi ezingaqhelekanga, kwaye ubukhulu becala iyomzimba kwaye eqhelekileyo- sele siyibhale apha. Kwaye wenza ntoni ukuba zonke ezi zandi zedemon azivumeli ukuba zilale nabazali, unokufunda kwisikhokelo sethu ukuze usinde emva kobusuku obungalali.
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