Kukho abantu ekulula kuye kwaye nje ukugcina ubudlelwane. Kodwa kwenzeka ukuba, kwisangqa sabahlobo bethu, abahlobo okanye izalamane, umntu uyavela, apho kuya kuba nzima khona ukumisela incoko yababini epheleleyo. Isizathu sokuba le isenokuba zizikhalazo zayo ezingapheliyo zobomi, ukugculelwa kukanaphakade okanye uthando olungenakuthintelwa.
Kwi-Adme.ru esengozini yokwahlula imikhwa emininzi, kunye nabanini bezininzi abangathanda ukugcina naluphi na ulwalamano.
10. Yenza konke ukungaqiniseki
Ngokuqinisekileyo uziphinde ngokuphindaphindiweyo kubantu abazama ukufihla isiphithiphithi kunye nokungaqiniseki. Ngamanye amaxesha baziva bengakhululekanga kangangokuba banokuthi bakhuphe kuwe ngamagqabantshintshi anobukrakra kwisitayile "Yintoni elumkileyo?" Ingxaki kukuba ezo ndlela zisoyikisa abantu abanokukunceda ukuba basetyenziswe kwindawo engaqhelekanga kwaye baxelele into eluncedo kwaye inomdla.
9. Blaw abanye kwiingxaki zabo
Ngamnye wethu uthi: "Ewe, kwafuneka ndibe nzima kule minyaka inje." Kodwa abanye bayakwazi ukuba ngokulula kwaye batshintshele kuxanduva 'ngesabelo sabo' esikrakra 'komnye umntu - iqabane langaphambili, inkosi yakho engendawo okanye imbizelelekileyo okanye onomona. Kodwa izikhalazo zabanye abantu zikhawuleza ngokukhawuleza kwaye abantu ababephulaphule ngenyameko baya kuqalisa ukuqokelela kwaye bafumane umgxeki emnandi ngakumbi.
8. Ungaqondi ukuba abantu abancinci kakhulu
Ngoku kwanabantu abancinci abahlali benalo ixesha lokulandela i-novelties, mazithini ngabantu besikolo esidala. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka baxele rhoqo ukuba amalahle amaqashi akafundiswanga. Kule mihla, oogxa abancinci abaselula bahlala bethatha inxaxheba yabacebisi besizukulwana esidala kwaye bancede kubugcisa obutsha bobugcisa kunye nobuchwephesha bale mihla.
7. Ukuvumela uthuli olujikelezileyo emehlweni
Kwenzeka ukuba abanye abantu baphulukane ngokupheleleyo nobuso phakathi kobomi bokwenyani kunye nomfanekiso obonakalayo kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo. Badala ngovuyo umfazi owonwabileyo kunye nonina, kodwa kwangaxeshanye bakulibala ngokupheleleyo ukuzicofa enyanisweni, bafumana ubunzima ngexesha lonxibelelwano oluhlala kwaye babone (kwaye kwangaxeshanye) Impumelelo yokuthandwa kunye nababhalisi.
6. Gcina yonke into ephantsi kolawulo olungelulo
Umntu onazo zonke izinto ezijikelezileyo ngokoqobo uqhubeka ubethwe, akukho lula ukuvumela abenzi beBhodi. Ngalo lonke ixesha kubonakala ngathi ngaphandle kolawulo oluqhubekayo lwezihlobo zakhe, izihlobo okanye oogxa bakho ziya kuguqulwa yonke into, ziya kugxininiswa kwaye zibubi bobomi babo kwindlu yangasese. Kodwa mhlawumbi ngamanye amaxesha kuseyimfuneko ukuphelisa kwaye uphumle?
5. Qokelela i-gossip kwaye impompo onke amathambo
Ngexesha lonxibelelwano nabantu abathile oziva ngathi yi-scout kumhlaba wotshaba kwaye uzama ukungaphumi nantoni na ebalaseleyo. Kungenxa yokuba naliphi na igama elingakhathaliyo liya kusetyenziswa ngoko nangoko kuwe, kwaye ingxoxo ye "ziphefe" zakho ziya kuqala nangaphambi kocango. Mhlawumbi kungenxa yoko le nto uninzi lwethu luzame ukuphepha ukuhleba kakhulu.
4. Ngokuqinileyo ngokuqinileyo, nto leyo eya kuthi ilunge ngakumbi
Ewe kunjalo, unokuncwina kwexesha apho ingca yayiluhlaza, kwaye abakwishumi elivisayo babevile abadala kwaye banceda ukuba baguqulele ootagoni kwindlela. Kodwa abantwana abakhoyo ngoku abanambi ngakumbi kunabo bazalwa kwiminyaka engama-20 ukuya kweyo. Bangabantu nje abancinci. Kodwa basafuna ingqalelo kunye nokukhathalela, kwaye bangabi namanzi.
3. Ukunamathela kwisitayile esifanayo
Ewe, ixesha ngalinye linefashoni yayo, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha imvakalelo kukuba umntu uyabanjwa okanye kwi-80s, okanye kwi-90s. Ndilapha iGaday, nokuba yindawo yezulu, nokuba yoyike intsha, nokuba yoyika i-terry yolondolozo. Ngokuqinisekileyo uyazazi isibini sabantu abafuna ukunika isigqibo malunga novavanyo oluncinci ngenkangeleko.
2. Ukuya kwi-stereotypes
Ngoncedo lweenethiwekhi zentlalo, kwalulula ukuxhoma zonke iilebheli. Mhlawumbi ezona zikhubekisayo zayo namhlanje yayiyinto yesidlaliso "Yazim". Ngenxa yoko, abafazi abanabantwana bahlala beyinto ye-oblique ijongeka kwaye bagculele. Vumela uMama kwangaxeshanye aphembelele kwaye umntwana aziphathe ngokugqibeleleyo.
1. Ukubonisa umqeshwa we "Bureau on-United Sormets"
Vumelani, akukho namnye kuthi othanda ukuba abantu abangqongileyo baqala ukwenza into 'ukuze sibenzele izinto. " Ngokuqinisekileyo, abaninzi banesibini sabantu, baya kumamela icebiso lakhe kwaye babone njengesikhokelo sesenzo. Kodwa xa abasemzini benyuka ebomini bethu - ijongeka imbi.
Ndiyazibuza ukuba yeyiphi na into ecaphukisayo inokukukhuthaza kude nomntu osondeleyo?