Ukwenza njani ukuze umntwana angafungi nge-Mat?
Iphendulwe apha kubabhalisi abanomdla kwiStorsith. Umxholo yi-mat yabantwana. Sele siyithethile ithiyori, wonke umntu waphulaphula iintetho, yiya kwiisemina ezisebenzayo, kwaye emva koko imibuzo iqale, imisebenzi ineemasters kwaye isebenza ngokubanzi kubantwana ababhalwayo kwincwadi yesikhokelo. Ndacinga, ndacinga ndagqiba kwelokuba ndiluthathe olu candelo kwisithuba esahlukileyo.
1. Ungamenza njani umthe umntwana ongafungiyo, ukuba uTata ufike nayo?
Kuvakala ngathi "yindoda yam ihlala inkcenkceshela umntwana ngamanzi abilayo, indlela yokutshisa ukuvutha?" Kunokwenzeka ixesha elide kwaye inyibilikiswe ngamakhrethi ebizayo, kunjalo, kodwa izilonda ezintsha ziya kuvela. Ukhetho olulula kakhulu lubonakala ngathi luphelisa unobangela wetshiphu - yeka ukuthulula amanzi abilayo emntwaneni. Ke ngoko, sixoxa ngale meko notata wakho, zisa iimpikiswano, sikhangela izisombululo. Ithebhulethi yomlingo, enceda abazali bakhathaze abazali abangabizwa ngokuba bangenelele, ngelishwa, hayi.
2. Kuthekani ukuba umntwana ufunde uMata kuMama? Umama uthandane ...
Masinyaniseke kuwe, okokuqala. Ukuba uMama ube kanye, ngequbuliso, ngequbuliso wagawula emntwaneni, wayesoyika kwaye engasena, umntwana akanakwenzeka kwangoko ukuba abe yi-Martrt ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba le nto "yavuya" yenzekile, sinokuthetha nomntwana, ukuba sithi "Ewe, imeko sele yenzekile," Ndizichaza kakuhle izicwangciso zexesha elizayo. " Ndiza kwenza yonke imigudu yokwandisa oku ngaphezulu, kuba kusapho lwethu akwamkelekanga. " Ukuba kwi-mat yentsapho ayisiyonto eqhelekileyo, ke entsatsheni umntwana akasayi kumzisela yena. Kwinkampani - mhlawumbi, kodwa ikakhulu abazali abamase imithetho baze babambe iziseko zabo, uguquko olunqabileyo luya kuba nakho.
3. Ngaba amagqabaza abantwana abangaphezulu? Zeziphi iimeko ezingakwenziyo oku?
Nangona siqonda ukuba kuyabonakala ngathi, abantu abadala, bafanele banefuthe kwisizukulwana esincinci, impendulo enye, umthetho, andinayo imithetho. Ukuba ubuyela kwisitrato esimnyama ebusuku nasekungenisweni, inkampani yabantu abakwishumi elivisayo inyibilika ibhiya kwaye ifanelekile, ke ukuba i-Aya-Yai ibiza kakhulu. Ukuba uyajikeleza isixeko kwaye uhamba nge-guys, ukuba weva i-mat enye, ukuba awukabikho mntwana, kunokwenzeka ukuba uqhube iindlebe-ekugqibeleni, awuyi kubambisa wonke umntu kwaye ungayi kubamba wonke umntu kwaye ungayi kubamba wonke umntu kwaye ungayi kubamba wonke umntu kwaye ungayi kubamba wonke umntu kwaye ungayi kubamba wonke umntu kwaye ungayi kubamba wonke umntu kwaye ungayi kubamba wonke umntu kwaye akayi kuba nakho Hlamba iilwimi zakho. Nangona kunjalo, kwindawo yokudlala, ingaba ngamakhwenkwe ahamba ngokukhethekileyo kunye ne-Devams enokwenziwa. Ngentlonelo. Kwisikhundla esidala. Ungayigxeki kwaye ungafundi, kodwa ukhumbuze imithetho. "LABASELULA, Ukwindawo yokudlala ejikeleze abantwana abaninzi, fumana elinye ixesha kunye nendawo yonxibelelwano oluthile. Ngoku kubalulekile ukutshintsha i-lexicon yakho. " Kumava am, ndinamava abantwana abakwishumi elivisayo, amazwi aqingqiweyo akaqondi, kodwa eyona nto ibalulekileyo ithintela umgca wokuziphatha okanye indawo.
4. Kwenzeka njani ukuba umhlobo wendoda yakhe ayinazintloni ekubonakaleni kwabantwana, akanakuxhathisa?
Ayinakubanjwa-le nto ukuba ineebhasi kunye ne-boss okanye iyenza ukuba ifuneke ibhulukhwe. Ndicinga ukuba umhlobo womyeni wakhe uhlangabezana nezi meko zilula, okuthetha ukuba ulungile, akazigqali kunyanzelekile ukuba ifuneke. Kwaye ke umbuzo wemida yakho kunye nemida yakho yekhaya lakho. Singayithetha le mithetho kwaye silindele ukugcinwa kwabo. Vumelani ukuba umntu uza kuthi kwaye aphose iisokisi zokuncwina kwitafile yokutyela, siya kufumana amandla okwenza intetho kuye. Kwaye ukuba uyijonga njengesiqhelo eKakon embindini wegumbi ukuya kwisofa lethu eliqaqambileyo, emva koko ndichitha ucango. Ngokuqinisekileyo, sinokwenza nabo balahlwa nabantwana bethu, kwaye badibana nabahlobo abanjalo kwintsimi engathathi hlangothi ngaphandle kwabantwana. Zonke iinkolelo zabo "zihle, aziqondi kwanto, engavani ezintlanu," mabave inzala yabo, "mabayenze inzala yabo kwaye achaze ootitshala kwigadi nootitshala esikolweni. Ikhaya lakho yimithetho yakho.
5. Ungadlulisela njani kumntwana opholileyo?
Kungekudala, ubudala buza kuza xa umntwana engayi kubuza uluvo lwakho, elipholile, kwaye elingalunganga, liya kugqiba iVaska engummelwane iya kucebisa. UVaska unemithwalo yobomi enzulu kangangeminyaka eli-16, kwaye abazali abayonto kwinyaniso yethu yale mihla. Kwaye oku kuyinto eqhelekileyo, ke ngoko ubunjani bancedwa. Ngelixa le mzuzu ibuhlungu ayizanga, sinokuzama ukutyibilika kwenye indlela yethu ye-choi - inkampani apho iya kuphola khona. Umzekelo, kwinkampani yesokhwe upholile-ukusuka kwindlela enkulu emnyama, hayi ngenyameko etafileni. Kodwa! Siza kuqhuba ezinye iindlela, kodwa umntwana unokuthatha, aze ashiye ezabo, akukho mda wewotshi kunye nemfezeko. Ke ngoko, phefumla uphela kwaye ulinde xa ushukunyiswa. Ekugqibeleni, andizange ndibone abantu abadala abanekhonkrithi yekhonkrithi ngenxa yesi sizathu, ukuba bayazi.
6. Abantwana babuza ukuba kutheni i-mat.
Umama wachaza ukuba babizwa njalo. Abantwana Babenemibuzo - kutheni kungenamanye amagama? Kutheni le nto aba bantu benziwe?
Ndingacacisa ngenye indlela, kuba i-mat ayisoloko ingumnxeba. Xa sixela i-anecdote, asizami ukukhubekisa nabani na. Xa isando sibethe umnwe, nathi, hayi isiqwenga sentsimbi okanye siphathe ngokobuqu. I-mat yeyona ibaluleke kakhulu kwiimvakalelo zabantu. Kukho abantu abangaziyo kwaye bengakwazi ukuba "ndibuhlungu", "owonwabileyo", "woyika." Abazange bafundise ezo zinto, ngoko basebenzisa oko banako. Unokukhetha, umntwana, kwaye ndingathanda ukuba ufunde ngakumbi ukhetho olululo.
7. Mat inokuchazwa kuphela ngokusebenzisa i-mat. Kwaye andinxibi phantsi kwabantwana. Unjani?
Andivumi. Ewe, umntwana weza kuwe wathi, Batsho ke, ke, mama, ndifunde igama elitsha lama-manayaya apha, kwaye ayayazi. ILizwi liqala eBuku X. Well, Ngaba akuthethi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ufunde ntoni apho? Kwaye sele uphonononge, unokuchaza ngokukhuselekileyo ukuba kunokwenzeka malunga negunya lesondo elibizwa ngokuba yiPensis. Ngokubanzi, amagama okuba lolo mzimba zininzi kakhulu: I-penis, amagama abantwana yasekhaya "ipisyun" njalo njalo. Kunye ne-manternoe, inkungu-yile.
8. Ke ukuchaza njani ilizwi kumntwana kwileta B?
Jonga, umntwana, eli gama lisibiyo sele lineentsingiselo ezintathu.
Eyokuqala kukusebenza, isetyenziswa njengegama elithi "Damn".
Okwesibini yimbonakaliso yeemvakalelo eziqaqambileyo, uninzi luhlala lusizi okanye lucaphuke.
Okwesithathu ngumfazi onesondo onesini, iintlobano zesini ngaphandle kweemvakalelo, intlonipho, uthando, ngamanye amaxesha ngemali.
Ngokubanzi, ukuchitha ngokukhululekileyo nomntwana ophantsi kweMata, kuya kuqala kufuneka uqiniseke ngesihloko semfundo yesondo, xoxa ngokufunda, ukwabelana ngesondo, ukwabelana ngesondo, njl njl. Kuba uya kuzisa amazwi ahlukileyo.
9. Kwaye ukuba igama elididayo lithe tye?
Ngemikhombisi kunye nezixhobo, yintoni ongayi kuqaphela kwileta yokuqala?
Kule meko, ndicela ukuba umntwana axelele ngengqondo yeli gama. Ewe, ewe, ndingcungcuthekiswa kokungabi nakuphikiswa kwalo mzuzu, kwaye sobabini siyayiqonda into eyenzekayo ngaphandle kolawulo. Kodwa ngokubanzi, andiboni kwanto imbi kakhulu kwimeko: Ukwanda, kwaye akufundisi kuphela iJografi kunye nembali ye-ART yamandulo yamaGrike). Sixoxa, siya kuhlalutya kwaye sihlehlise njengokungafuneki. Kodwa inzala egqithisileyo iya kususa kwigama elithile kunye nomxholo we-mata konke konke. Ndingathanda ukubeka enye into yeshumi yeakhawunti, kodwa imibuzo iphele. Bhala, kwaye ndiza kuphendula kude kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
Kwinkalo yokuqala, ndincamathisela iposti yam yokuqala kumxholo we-mat ye-mat-iziseko, ukuze ndithethe, eyona ngxolo inyanzelekileyo kwisifundo esingaqhelekanga. Ndicebisa wonke umntu ukuba afunde, kubonakala kum ukuba kuluncedo.