Ngoku okuninzi kuthiwa malunga nezibonelelo zomzali wendalo, ngakumbi, malunga nezibonelelo zokuncancisa.
Kuyavela ukuba oomakhulu ngoku banomakhulu, kunye 'nabo "sonke siyinto yonke engenabunzi, ezo zihlobo" azilunganga. Kwaye "ihlwempu, ukunqunyanyiswa kunye noogqirha abanomxube wesiqhelo"-nakwi-relic yexesha elidlulileyo. Kwaye ungondla ixesha elingaphezulu konyaka. Iintsomi ezininzi eziye zasiza kuthi zangaphambili, iingcali zanamhlanje ziyaphelisa. Nangona kunjalo, udidi lwabasetyhini lwavela, apho ubunzima bokuncancisa babeneminyaka emininzi yentlungu. Nanga amabali abaliqela abaliqela.
UMargarita: "Ukuphosa ukondla emva kwenyanga yemizamo"
Unyana wam sele eneminyaka emine ubudala, kwaye ndiyazixelela yonke imihla:
-Umgonyi oqhelekileyo. Akahlukile kubantwana abatyelele ibele kangangenye kwiinyanga ezintandathu. Umntwana wam akazange abandezelekile kule nto.
Ukusukela phantse ukungabikho ngokupheleleyo kwe-gW yedwa. Khange ndikhulelwe kum ukuba kwakuyimfuneko ukuba ngandlel 'ithile ilungiselele le nto. Ngesizathu, kukholelwa ukuba indalo yenza yonke into. Ndinebele, kodwa oko kuthetha ukuba ndingaphela naliphi na inani leentsana. Inokwenzeka njani ngenye indlela?Unyana kwiSibhedlele iMagazini akazange athabathe. Wayenobuvila kakhulu ukuba ancame, owayexoka nje kumgama wam, wada walala kwalapho. Ndiyavuza kuloo nto, ukuba ixesha elincinci alifikanga. Umntwana wayebuthathaka emzimbeni. Kwiiveki ezimbini, akazange abuyisele ubunzima nje abalahlekileyo kwiintsuku zokuqala, waqhubeka enciphisa umzimba. Ugqirha kwindawo yokwamkela wandijonga njengokujonga okucekisayo kwaye wathi:
-Ukuyeka umxube.
Ukungadluli ngawo amazwi, oziva umama ombi endandiziva. Waqala ukukhangela umcebisi wokuncancisa. Kodwa ndihlala kwidolophu encinci yephondo, akukho zingcali zilapha. Wajika ngokude. I-Skype Dissastgerical yandixelela nayiphi na imixube yokutya ukuba angangeni, ukondla ngokukodwa ngamabele, hayi ukulala.
"Kwiintsuku ezintathu kamva imeko iya kutshintsha ibe ngcono," wandiphumelela. Ndidlulisele imali yokunxibelelana ndaza ndaqala ukwenza oko bakuthethayo.
Akukho nto itshintshiwe. Umntwana walala esifubeni. Kwanele ngokungokoqobo kwiitshipsi ezimbini, emva koko wawa kwindlala kunye nokudinwa.
Ndiyazibuza: Oomama abaziinkwenkwezi bahlala begxekwa, kodwa abakhathali
Ndize ndanika umxube. Ithemba lokuba umntwana uya kuba nesondlo esixubeneyo, oko kukuthi, izakufumana ubisi oluluncedo oluluncedo. Wakhwela walala ngokugqibeleleyo. Kwakubusuku bokuqala xa i-crumb ayizange ithuthunjiswe ziigesi. Ndiyaqonda, umxube kukutya okunzima ngakumbi, ephupheni kwakulula ukumbamba. Kodwa emva kwesifuba walila ngesifuba, watsala imilenze esiswini kwaye ekhathazekile kakhulu. Ibhotile yomxube - kwaye akukho ngxaki. Yondla amabele akhe, waphinda wafaka into eyoyikekayo kunye nokubandezeleka okukhulu.
Kunyana wam, ndimkholisile, ndawugqiba ukuzama ne-GW, njengoko umyeni wam abizayo. Emva koko, sasingazi iingxaki ngesisu konke konke. Yonke into yamiselwa kwangoko. Kwaye ndaphela kakhulu. Kuyavela ukuba ndiluhlobo lodwa?
UTamara: "Lawula ukondla ngenxa yeziyobisi, emva koko akakwazanga ukubuyisela gw"
Wonke umntu usatsho ukuba umntwana woliwe unyaka. Ngapha koko, ndiyaxoka. Malunga nentombi yeenyanga ezintathu ndagula. Ugqirha wakhupha ii-antibiotics kwaye wa-odotywe ukuba avale ukuncancisa.
-Ungafuni iziyobisi ukuba iphembelele impilo yomntwana wakho?
Ewe, andifuni. Kodwa andicwangcisanga ukondla ukona. Ndiphumelele imbali ye-moms, okwimeko efanayo ekwaziyo ukubuyisela i-GW emva kokuphela kwekhosi yonyango. Ndicwangcise iveki. Oko kukuthi, kwabini bendiya kudla intombi yam.
Ukuncancisa kwam yeyona ndlela ilula. Ngenxa yendlela yakho yokuphila, ndihamba kakhulu kwaye ndibhabhe. Ingcinga yokuba kuya kufuneka athwale ubunzima obukhulu kuyo yonke indawo, ndandicinezelekile. Le yibhanki yomxube, i-bittiles, amanzi, i-thermos enamanzi abilayo - kakhulu kuya kufuneka unakho! Kwaye ke-sifumene isifuba, kwaye umntwana ukondla ukutya okungcono emhlabeni, okukwanobushushu onqwenelekayo. Sukuphilisa nantoni na.
Yifunde: ukukhulelwa okunjalo: njengoko bendiqala ukuswela, ndabaleka okwesibini
Ukubuyisela i-HB, ndacetyiswa, ebizwa ngokuba "yindlela yendlela". Iintsuku ezimbalwa zokulala nentombi yakho, zinxibelelane nolusu, kwaye zinike amabele nganye nganye. Ndilungiselele. Beka yonke into oyifunayo ecaleni kwebhedi. Vuka uye kwindlu yangasese kuphela.
Kodwa nathi le ndlela imangalisayo ayisebenzi. Le ntombi yaqhele umxube ngeyure, ukuba amachiza aphenjelelwa kwiscokuni bam. Ngokubanzi, akazange athathe isifuba esithile, kwaye andinayo ivolumu yobisi. Ngaphandle komxube, sathabatha iintsuku ezine ngendlala, umntwana oshiyekileyo.
Ndinophahla oluncinci kuxinzelelo. Ngoku ndiyaqonda ukuba xa umyeni ophume emsebenzini wawubona lo mfanekiso kwaye wanika intombi ingumxube, usenokuba wasisindisa bobabini. Sele ndivela ekukhokeleni kunye nokuzama ukuzama ukungalingani. Ukususela ngoko, umntwana ukwindawo ngokupheleleyo yokutya okuthile. Dibanisa apho - sinako ngomyeni wakhe sivuke uye kubusuku bakhe sibuyele. Thabatha-imvakalelo yam yetyala kwaye icinezelwe.
UAlina: "Bendihlala ndisazi ukuba andizukuphelisa umntwana"
Kulusapho lwethu, akukho mntu wenzekileyo ekuncancise. Umama wam wahluthwe iinyanga ezintathu. Uye wakwazi ukubamba kunye nomntakwabo - kwaye wakujonga njengethamsanqa elingachazwanga. Ibinzana malunga nento yokuba sonke 'siliza rhabaza ", ndamamela phantse kwasebuntwaneni.
Ukukhulelwa kwakuqhagamshela umkhwe ka mama kunye neengcebiso zayo.
Iinyanga ezine esifubeni - ngaphezulu kwanele, - wabhengezwa kakhulu. -Ngoku basondla iendlo enye iindlovu ezimbini! Kulu lubisi akusekho lusetyenziswa, bonke batya! Kuya kuba ngcono malunga ne-psyche yabantwana yacinga-sele i-mimina titki inokukhumbula!
Ndandikukhulelwa kuqala kungekuphela nje, kodwa ndixakeke kakhulu. Ndidinga ukugqiba iziko. Ke ngoko, bendinethemba lokufumana uncedo bobabini kunye nengcebiso yabo. Ngapha koko, kwanikwa uxanduva kumntwana kwisizukulwana esidala.
Bona kwakhona: Iindlela zengqondo zengqondo ukomeleza unxibelelwano nomntwana
Kwaye ubisi lwam lwafika ngokukhawuleza emva kokuzala. Wanele ukuba abantwana abathathu. Inokusebenza i-throm. Kodwa ekhaya, bendisele ndilinde iitoti ezininzi ngomxube. Waqala ukunika phantse ngokukhawuleza emva kokukhupha.
Ndinoyolo kakhulu ukuncancisa. Nangona bendilindele "ezoyikiso" ezithenjisiweyo ", iintlungu, iintlungu, ama-latostasis. Akukho nto yenzekileyo. Kodwa ukufezekisa ukuba bendim, andikwazanga. Wamnika umntwana kwangotatomkhulu - benza umxube. Emva koko intombi yaye yaqala ukuncama isifuba sakhe. Ukusuka kwibhotile, kufanelekile ukusela. Yathi yakukhulisa into eqikele kakhulu iinyanga ezine.
Hle kakhulu kwi-GW. Ndabonakala ngathi ndikhethe into ebaluleke kakhulu. Andiqondi nje ukuba yintoni. Kwiminyaka embalwa emva koko ndazala okwesibini kwaye ndondla iminyaka emibini. Yayiyi-buzz yemihla ngemihla ekungekho mntu wayekuqondayo kusapho. Kukufuna njani ukondla abantwana bakho? Le yintuthumbo, le yinto ebophelelayo emntwaneni! Ke umakhulu angazithabatha yena, angamelana ebusuku, ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndigqibe. Umama ophambeneyo.
Ndabamba into endandiyonelanga yintombi endala. Ndiyazisola ngokuba bendingenazo iingqondo zaneleyo zokumamela amabhunga kwaye ukondla nje umntwana.
Xa i-GW ayifuneki kuphela komntwana kuphela
Ngoku abacebisi abancamisileyo bahlala becebisa ukuba ayimfuneko kuphela umntwana, kodwa nonina. Ewe kunjalo, ii-artififials ziya kufumana ukutya okusemgangathweni okuphezulu, kunye nengqwalaselo enkulu. Kodwa imizekelo yala mabhinqa iphakamisa ukuba umama unokusola iminyaka. Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka uxolele izinto zakho kwaye uphatha abantwana bakho ngokuzolileyo. Abafazi nale kufuneka bazixhase, kwaye bangagwetywa.