Ugqirha wezengqondo uthi abazali benxila abaninzi bahlala bekhula nabo
kwiziselo ezinxilisayo. Siza kubalisa ibali lomfazi, masibize uAlena, owakhulela kwintsapho eyabonwa apho umama, kodwa yena wakwazi ukuyeka umkhwa wakhe wokwenza usapho.
I-Alena yobuntwana
Ngobuntwana andifuni ukukhumbula. Yayilixesha elibi. Thina, bantwana, sisoloko silambile, khange sibe neempahla eziqhelekileyo, kodwa ngokubanzi ndizola ngeethoyi. Abazali babenabantwana abathathu, ndingoyena mncinci, kunye nabantakwabo abadala ngakumbi. Umama uhlala esela, ndiphantse ndayikhumbula ifom yakhe enobukhulu. Xa wayenesidima, wayenomsindo omkhulu, wasibetha, kubonakala ukuba umzimba waqhekeka umnqweno wokusela. Utata weba into kwivenkile yasemaphandleni, wavalelwa. Ndiyakhumbula, besifuna ukutya nabazalwana ukuba sabaleka esiya kumyezo ukuya kumyezo kwaye ngqo kwiibhedi satya ikherothi emdaka. Emva koko umama wahluthwa amalungelo obuzali, kwaye sasiwa kwisikolo sokubhoda. Uyazi, apho ndaba ngcono. Sasondla, sinxibe, kwaye andizange ndiwazi uthando lwabazali, ngenxa yoko andizange ndimkhumbule kakhulu.
Emva koko ndangena esikolweni, saxhasa ubudlelwane kunye nabazalwana. Kwindawo yokuhlala, amantombazana am ezihlanjini anokuba nephakheji ye wayini yokuphumla. Embise ngelo xesha yayingacingi ukuba ndingaguqukela kutywala ofanayo nomama. Cinga, ulitha yewayini kumantombazana amane, akukho nto. Ndifunde kakuhle, ndafumana iDiploma, ndiye emsebenzini. Rhoqo ngokuhlwa, emva komsebenzi, wasela iwayini encinci yokulala nokulala kakuhle. Naxa kwaqala ukusela ibhotile, andizange ndicinge ukuba ndiqengqeleka ndithambekele njengomama.
Usapho lwakho
Xa ndadibana noFerto, yayikukuxhomekeka kakhulu kutywala. Kodwa satshata, unyana wethu wazalwa. Unyaka ndawondla isifuba sakhe, ngelixa ndinokuba neglasi yebhiya okanye iwayini, emva koko ndakhwela ubisi kwaye ndondla unyana ngomxube. Xa ndigqibile ukondla, ndaphuma, ndikhulelwe kwakhona. Mna nomyeni wam savuya, nangona umntwana wesibini engekacwangcisi. Ngeli xesha, kwakungekho sotywala ebomini bam.Ndifuna ukunyamezela kwaye ndibenzele umntwana osempilweni, kuba eyokuqala yayiyimibuzo. Kunyaka wokuqala nonyana wakhe behlala belele ezibhedlele, kodwa andizange ndinxibelelane nempilo yakhe yempilo nomkhwa wakhe. Intombi yazalelwa ngexesha, kodwa kususela kumhla wokuqala walala ebusuku. Ndandityhutyha kakhulu, ubisi lwaluphosile, kwaye ndayeka ukondla ngesifuba. Ngeengokuhlwa, xa abantwana balala, ndangena ekhitshini, ndayibona wayini. Indinceda ubuncinci ndiphumle kancinci. Emva koko kwazalwa umntwana wesithathu, ndandihleli ekhaya nabantwana ngalo lonke ixesha, kuye kwathi kusengozini. Ngamanye amaxesha intombi ezenza kum, kwaye sinokuthumela abantwana ukuba badlale, kwaye babona iwayini okanye i-champagne.
"Mama, musa ukusela"
Ngenye imini, unyana omncinci wawa kwaye wabetha kakhulu de ndamlahlile emva kotyelelo lweNdwendwe. Unyana omkhulu wabiza i-ambulensi, kwaye xa oogqirha beza, babona umama nabantwana abanikwa bona. Kungekudala abasebenzi boqwalaselo lwentlalo bacinezelwa. Sabhaliswa, sele sipho, nangona ndingasaseli.
Emva kwetyala, andiyekanga utywala. Indoda isebenza ilori, iyanyamalala kwiinqwelomoya, ngenxa yoko ndanikwa nam. Ngandlel 'ithile abantwana babona indlela endiyifumana ngayo ibhotile kwifriji kwaye ndigalele kwiglasi. "Mama, musa ukusela, nceda," wakhala intombi. Kwaye emva koko ndangenelwa ngaphakathi. Ndithulule iziqulatho zebhotile kunye neglasi kwi-sink, hugcled abantwana kwaye wathembisa ukuba andisayi kuphinda ndisele.
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Ukulwa nokuxhomekeka
Ndaye ndafumanisa ukuba ngenxa yabantwana kunye nekamva labo kufuneka sibophelelene nomkhwa wakho otshabalalisayo. Khange ndifune ukuba baphinde ikamva lam. Okokuqala, ndaguqukela kwikliniki eyodwa, ngokuhambelana ndahamba ngokuhlwa kwindibano elunxwemeni lotywala ongaziwayo. Yonke le nto yandinceda ndingaphumi. Ingcali yengqondo eyayisebenza nam, yathi ezi meko zihlala zizinto ezinxilisayo xa zixhomekeke kwiziselo ezinxilisayo.
Abasebenzi bogada boyika, obuya kuthatha abantwana ukuba andikhathazeki. Esi sisinyanzelo esinamandla sokuqalisa ngomkhwa ombi, kuba abantwana bubomi bam. Ukuba bebengekho, ngendingalala ixesha elide. Ngoku indlu yethu ilawula uxolo noxolo. Ngeengokuhlwa, silungiselela iti ukusela ekhaya, kunye ne "esrietes zakho "-andikaze ndihlangane nale. Ndizama ukugcina izindlu zendlu, zenze izithethe nabantwana, umzekelo, siya kwi-cafe ngeempelaveki. Soloko ulinde utata wethu kwindiza, silungiselela isidlo esimnandi. Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba utshatelelene nolonwabo loSapho, uthando, intuthuzelo yokuthanda kotywala?
Ndiza kunika ibalulekile kwiintsapho zasekhaya, isidlo sasemini kunye nezidlo. Ndikhumbula ubuntwana bam olambileyo, kwaye andifuni ukuba abantwana bam babulawe. Kwifriji, sihlala sinazo zonke iimveliso eziyimfuneko: inyama entsha, amaqanda, ubisi, ii-yoghurt, intlanzi, iziqhamo kunye nemifuno. Ndiyamthanda kakhulu, kwaye intombi yam yaya kum, ihlala indinceda.
Ithini iphupha lika-Alena
Onke amaphupha am kunye nezicwangciso zexesha elizayo zinxulunyaniswa nosapho. Mna nomyeni wam sifuna ukwakha indlu enkulu kwaye uthathe abanye abantwana abavela kwikhaya leenkedama. Ndicinga ukuba ungonwaba njani kunye nolonwabo esiya kuba nalo! Ebudala, abantwana kunye nabazukulwana baya kuza kuthi, baphumle egadini, bakhuphe i-berry bush, iFry iKebab, ihlambe kwigumbi lokuhlambela. Ndifuna ukwahlula igadi, ifama yam, ukuze abantwana batye iimveliso ezintsha nezisekhaya.
Ngeeholide, ngoku sisela ijusi okanye i-qunter. Umyeni wam ngumqhubi, ngenxa yoko akasebenzisi utywala konke konke, kuba indlela yokuhlala ngasemva kwevili? Ndaye ndabona ukuba awuphulanga kuphela ngoncedo lwe wayini. Ngaphambi kokuba ibhedi ndingayisela iti kwi-herbs, ukuphefumla umoya, ivuselela ilanga elangeni. Uvuyo oluninzi ebomini, kwaye akufuneki lukhangele indlela yokuthanda izinto. Ndiyathemba ukuba abantwana bam abayi kuhamba emanyathelweni kakhulu bakho kwaye ndizama ukukhuthaza utywala kunye ne-nicotine bububi. Apha baqala ukuhamba ngeCawa ukuya ecaweni, apho umphefumlo uba lula, kubonakala ngathi kuyacaca. Ndiqinisekile ukuba yonke into iza kuba mnandi kusapho lwethu, kuba sithanda abantwana kwaye sifuna ikamva elihle kubo. Kwaye siya kwenza yonke into kangangokuba yayinjalo.