Mamela abadala! Abantu abadala bazi ngcono! "
Into ofuna ukuyithetha: Ndinayo (Pope, ootitshala, ootitshala) amava obukhulu ngakumbi kulo mbandela, ndifuna ukunciphisa iimpazamo kwaye ndisindisa kwiimpazamo.
Umntwana awuvayo: umntu omdala uhlala elungile, nokuba ufuna ntoni okanye enze ntoni, ondenza ukuba ndingonwabi. Nabantu abadala akunakwenzeka ukuba baphikise, kodwa unokuthobela kuphela.
Uyasiqonda isizathu sokuba yonke ingaba? Umntwana, awayefundisa kuphela ukuba enze imiyalelo kwaye angamthobelanga kuphela umama onqwenelayo okuhle, kwaye nabani na omdala, oya kubonisa ithoni enamandla kwaye nenza njani ithoni enamandla kunye nendlela yokwenza.
Kwenziwe ntoni? Susa amagqabantshintshi okugqiba. Abantu abadala kude nabo bonke bayazi ngcono kwaye akusoloko kulungile. Uyakhumbula ukuba akusoloko kusoloko bubulumko buyeza. Ngamanye amaxesha ubusuku buza enye. Zive ukhululekile ukuvuma okungalunganga kwaye ucele uxolo ukuba ndilahlekile. Kwaye ucacisa izicelo zakho kunye nezigqibo zakho. Hayi "cima iikhathuni, kuba benditshilo", kwaye "namhlanje sele zanele ukuba zijonge esikrinini, ziyingozi emehlweni, masijonge ngomso?"
"Ndibubeke ubomi bam bonke, kwaye awumameli!"Into ofuna ukuyithetha: Ndenza yonke into emandleni am ukuze wonwabe. Ndizama kakhulu, kodwa andisoloko ndijongana kwaye ndidanile kakhulu, ndiziva ndingevamentswa nomama ombi.
Umntwana uyasiva: ngenxa yakho, ubomi bam buhamba kakuhle, njengoko ndingathanda. Ngenxa yoku kufuneka undibhatale ukuze ndithobele kwaye ndivumelane nam.
Umyalezo onjalo ucalucalulo kwityala emntwaneni. Akazange akucele ukuba uyeke umsebenzi kwaye uzale. Okanye ngokuchaseneyo-ukuthatha umsebenzi wesibini, wesithathu ukumnika ubomi obunesidima. Uyayenza ngenxa yakhe, kodwa olu lukhetho lwakho olukhethekileyo.
Kwenziwe ntoni? Ngokunyaniseka Thetha malunga neemvakalelo zakho kunye neemvakalelo zakho, ukungatyholuki mntu kuzo. Ukuze ndikuxelele ukuba udiniwe, cela uncedo, kuquka nomntwana.
Ufuna ukuthini: Ndifuna ukuba neqhayiya lakho! Ndiyazi ukuba ungangcono!
Umntwana awuvayo: awundithandi. Awukhe ulunge ngokwaneleyo ukuba uneqhayiya ngalo. Ndingathanda ukukutshintsha wena kuVasya.
Ke umntwana uqhelisela ukuhlala ezithelekisa nabanye, zivakalelwa kukubaluleka kwakhe kuphela xa ungcono kunaye nabani na. Kwaye ukusukela "ngcono" ekubanjeni - umxholo wesihlobo. Isipho esimangalisayo.
Kwenziwe ntoni? Ukulibala ngokubanzi malunga nokuthelekisa. Sukuthelekisa umntwana wakho nge-Odnoklassniki, okanye nabantakwabo dade, okanye ebuntwaneni. Uthando kunye nokuxabisa ngento ayiyo, phawula imisebenzi yakhe. Mayibe linyathelo elincinci loluntu, kodwa yintoni enkulu ngokwakhe!
Akukho nto yakho! Ngoku ukhula, uyakufumana kwaye uza kufaka ii-odolo zakho! "Into ofuna ukuyithetha: Andivumelani nokhetho lwakho, izenzo zakho, ndibajonga abangamkeleki, bakhutyekisiwe mna.
OKO KUFUNA UMNTWANA: AKUKHO MALUNGA. Ngelixa ungafezekisi into ebomini, awuyondoda, awunalungelo lokuziva neemvakalelo zakho, awuzixabisekanga ngokwakho, kuphela izinto, imali kunye namathuba, imali kunye namathuba, kuphela, amathuba kunye namathuba axabisekile.
Amabinzana anjalo achaphazeleka kakhulu kukuzithemba. Umntwana uyeka ukuzixabisa njengomntu kwaye ucinga ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuthanda kwaye uyixabise ngento, kwaye ayinjalo.
Kwenziwe ntoni? Musa ukuchulumancisa umntwana kwinto angayi kuyitshintsha. Kwisi-5, 10, eli-10, eli-15, akakwazi ukwenza imali eflethini okanye kwigumbi ukuba ahlale kuyo njengoko ethanda. Phantse ayinakwenzeka. Umntwana ufuna ukukhula kwakhona nokwamkelwa, ngaphandle kweemeko zangaphandle. Kwaye umsebenzi wabazali kukumnika yonke le nto.
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