Abo basikelelekileyo bangena kwixesha elidlulileyo xa amaqabane asemva ehlala kunye kwigumbi lokukhula enzulu, edala ulwakhiwo lwabo kunye nabantu abazukulwana kunye nabazukulwana abakhulayo. Ngokongeza, amadoda nabafazi abakhoyo ngoku, ebize imanyano, emva kwethutyana badanile omnye komnye, baziva beziva beziva kwaye bevele ngokukhawuleza.
Umntu uhlala uwedwa iminyaka emininzi, kwaye omnye umntu uhlala eza kufuneka angene embindini weholo ehonjisiweyo phantsi kwesatellite entsha, encumayo phambi kweekhamera.
Ngaba ulumke ngomtshato wesibini, wesithathu? Ewe. Kodwa ayizizo zonke.
IIMPAWU ZOKUGQIBELA ZOKUGQIBELA:1. Isiko lomtshato libonakala ngathi luhlobo olulula, kuba aliqinisekisi amandla omtshato. Ibhinqa elivela kwinkolelo lizabalazela ukunxiba, kunye nezinye iimpawu zangaphandle ezahlukileyo kumnyhadala wokuqala. Umbhiyozo udlulisela ukuthozama ngakumbi kwaye akabangeli ukuba isaqhwithi soyolo.
2. Ukuba umtshato wokuqala wawungonwabanga, kubuhlungu, wazisa usizi olukhulu, nendoda, kwaye umfazi, kwaye umntu obhinqileyo woyika ukuphinda abe nembonakalo efanayo. " Kunokubakho umngxunya, ukungathembani, ukukrokrela. Ithini? Omnye umntu okanye omabini akakulungelanga ubudlelwane obutsha. Kufuneka silinde, sijongane nexesha lakho elidlulileyo, cinga ngeziphoso, uqonde.
3. Thelekisa umkhwa. Ngapha koko, ukuba bobabini iqabane lakho langoku lixhunyiwe ngomtshato ophindaphindiweyo, uthelekiso olwenziwa kumacala omabini. Ukuba omnye wabo unamandla, eqinisekile, eqiniseke ngakumbi ngokwakho, emva koko waqiniseka ngokwakho, emva koko, kwinxalenye yayo yokuthelekisa ayenzeki- ubudlelwane ayo, isiseko seenkolelo zecala eliphambili.
Ukungalingani kwezentlalo kweqabane langaphambili neliqabane / iqabane lakho lithatha imeko. Ndiza kunika umzekelo (ityala lokubonisana). Indoda eneminyaka engama-52, umhlolokazi, yangena kumtshato kwakhona kwisithandwa esikhulu. Inkosikazi yayo yangoku ingumntu wokudala onesifo sokwenza izinto, sonwabile, sihlala, sihle.
Iqabane lomtshato laliyintombazana yomlimi odibeneyo, lahlulwe ngumbala wobubi obungalunganga, kwakuba nzima ngomyalelo, kusasa de kube yinxalenye ye-mop kunye ne-rag, yagxumekisa umyeni wakhe kwinto leyo IIMPAWU ZOKUGQIBELA (KUPHELA KUPHELA Kutheni). Nangona kunjalo, umntu olihlwempu wayeqhele ukuba nobomi bobomi kwaye kwiinyanga zokuqala zomtshato omtsha wathelekiswa nobuhle besixeko kunye nomfazi wasekhaya odlulileyo.
Eli tyala linokuphelela uqhawulo-mtshato (umfazi omtsha, lo thelekiswa nalo lonke ukhuphiswano kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe lwaqiniswa ngokungathandanga kwi-psychotherapist, kwaye imeko yayigwetywa kakhulu. Kwiminyaka emi-6, aba bantu baye bavuya kangangeminyaka emi-6, kunye neenkumbulo okanye iinkumbulo zobomi bakhe obudala "nenenekazi kwiibhutsi zerabha" zibangela ukuba kwenziwe inkxwaleko yenkunkuma.
4. Ubukho babantwana kumtshato wokuqala kwenza kube nzima ukwakha ubudlelwane bosapho obutsha ukuba abantwana abalungisi ngokufanelekileyo.
5. Ukwala izihlobo zomntu omnye okanye omabini amaqabane eqabane elitsha loNyana okanye intombi (ukuba umtshato wokuqala wabonakala kubo). Imele ihoywa. Ngaphandle kokuxabana kunye nokuthuka. Nika ukuqonda umongikazi ocaphukisayo ukuba kungcono ukuxolelanisa nokhetho.
I-Plus yemitshato ephindaphindiweyo:1. Abantu abagqiba kwemanyano yomtshato kwakhona kwakhona sele beyazi ukuba baya. Baphinda baphinda baphinde bangenisa indlela abaziphatha ngayo kumtshato wokuqala, tshintsha iimpazamo zangaphambili ezingenangqondo, zilungisiwe iimpazamo zangaphambili.
2. Ukuziphatha kwawo omabini amaqabane kuyaba bhetyebhetye ngakumbi, ukuphendula kwizinto ezicaphukisayo - ngokweemvakalelo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, i-maximentes yobutsha sele isemva.
3. Indoda kunye nebhinqa elinengxaki yokutsha, njengomthetho, lalisele likwisicwangciso sobuchule. Baphucula njengabanye njengangaphambili njengeengcali kwishishini labo. Akukho mfuneko yokuba babekhathazekile malunga nokuba ubomi babo bexesha elizayo luya kuba njani kulo msebenzi. Kukho ithuba lokuhlawula ixesha kuphuhliso lobudlelwane.
4. Zizimele kwezemali. Kwaye oku kunika zonke ezinye iintlobo zenkululeko, zenza isibini sikhululeke eminye imicimbi.
5. Amava esini (kunjalo, oku kuyasebenza, ngaphezu kwayo yonke loo nto, umfazi wakhe) wenza ubomi obusondeleyo kumtshato omtsha oguquguqukayo.
Rhoqo umtshato wesibini uvisisane, uzinzile kwaye unamandla kunangaphambili. YIBA NOBULUMKWANO WAKHO NGOKUGQIBELELEYO, Musa ukuvumela kwihlabathi lakho langaphandle, Yonwabele ulonwabo ngokupheleleyo!
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