Abantwana abakwindikhulu balityelwe kungekuphela nje kumahlaya, kodwa kubomi bokwenyani. Kwelinye le-channels yandex.dzen, sidibene nesicatshulwa esifanelekileyo apho umhlohli ehlula amabali malunga nabazali abalibele kumava obuqu. Kumagqabantshintshi, oogxa babo uqinisekisa: iimeko ezinjalo aziqhelekanga, rebenook.by.
Ootata osele kunye nootatomkhulu abashiya ilizwe
- Okwesihlandlo sokuqala akazange avele kwiqela lam xa ndandiselula kakhulu. Ngokuhlwa, akukho mntu ngaphandle kwam kunye nenkwenkwe egadini. Iiselfowuni azikaveliswanga. Umlindi woMfazi akazange avume ukuhlala nomntwana, kodwa anike icebiso: "Bhala iadresi yakho kwaye ukhokele iadresi yakho, ndiza kuvela iphepha, wonke umntu owenzayo."Ngemozulu eqhekezwe (umhla uphelile!) Wamkhokela inkwenkwe kwigumbi awayehlala nalo ngunina, uTata nodadewabo. Utata wam wayenoloyiko xa wabona umntwana. Kodwa umama wakhawuleza wangena kule meko: Ndayondla inkwenkwe ngokutyibilika, ndayifunda le ncwadi ndayibeka ebuthongweni ibhedi yam (yile nto iminyaka emininzi yamava ebhongo!). Kwaye kwafuneka ndisayinwe kunye nodadewethu ebhedini yakhe.
Kusasa utata, utata wathi malunga nelixa lesibini ebusuku kwabakho utata osele unxila, wacela ukumnika unyana. Kodwa utata wam ngaphandle kokuphindeka kwe-pedigogical walithoba kwizitepsi. Kwi-kindergarten bendisele ndilindelwe ngumama ngepipi entle kunye nesicelo esingathethi.
Umhla usenzeka ngenye imini, yonke into iphele ngomtshato. Kwaye sele ndikwiinyanga ezimbalwa, ndalibala "olulodwa" kwindlu ye-sveck kunye nomkhwekazi. Abantu balula, iimvakalelo ezihlanganisiweyo azikwazi, ngokuhlwa ndeva emphefumlweni. Kwaye kwakhona emva komntwana beza utata omncinci onxilayo, nangona kunjalo, umntwana wayengekabinalo ixesha lokulala ebhedini.
Ngamaxesha ngamaxesha, imeko yayiphinda kungendim, kodwa nakwabo basebenza nabo. Ezona zinto zikhubekisayo xa umntwana ebala umntwana ngo-Ehloni lweholide ngosuku olufutshane. Ngesinye isihlandlo nge-31 kaDisemba, iqabane lam lakhokelela kwikhaya lakhe. Asingawo wonke umyeni olindelekileyo ukuba uhambo lokutyelela uNyaka oMtsha wonyaka waphukile. Ngethamsanqa, imizuzu nje embalwa ukuya kwii-krats, abathunywa bezalamane zabantwana abanebhotile nokutya kwesidlo kwabaleka kubo. Kuyavela ukuba wonke umntu wayenethemba kwaye, waqokelela nje nje, waqonda ukuba akukho mntu ubathathe abantwana. Emva kokucaciswa ngokukhawuleza kobudlelwane nomyeni wakhe, oogxa bakhe basabekho uxolelwaniso olungaphantsi kwesaqhwithi nomzalwana kunye nokukhala kweeglasi.
Omnye umntu osebenza naye waphinda waphinda wacela umntwana ekhaya kungekuphela nje ebusuku, kodwa nangeempelaveki. Umama nje okhulelweyo okhulelweyo waqhubela phambili kugqirha, ukusuka apho ndandithunyelwa esibhedlele. Kuphela ngoMvulo, wakwazi ukunxibelelana ne-kindergarten, wazise idilesi yezalamane ukuze thina ngokwethu sibathatha (kulungile, kwakungekho selfowuni kule minyaka ithile).
Kodwa kwanokubonakala kweefowuni ezingenayo isiqinisekiso sokuba iimeko ezinjalo aziyi kuphindwa. Omnye umntu osebenza naye wathi akukho mntu ubuze kuba umfundi wakhe, ukuze afumane iifowuni zangokuhlwa kunye neSMS-akukho impendulo. Ekuseni ndisaqhubeka notata wentombazana. Impendulo yayikokwasekuqaleni: "Esi siphoso sakho sokuba awunakudlula! Kwakuyimfuneko ukuqhubeka ngakumbi! " Kwavela ukuba umama wamwise umakhulu wakhe ukuba athathe umntwana, kwaye walibala kwaye washiya i-cottage ngefowuni ngaphandle kokutshaja. Utata wagqiba kwelokuba 'ahambe' kwaye acime ifowuni ngobusuku ukuze angabizi.
Abazali banokucaphuka
-Umntu osebenza naye wathatha umntwana ekhayeni lakhe, kuba andikwazanga kuphinda ndingene kuTata, okanye nditsho noMama-iifowuni ngaphandle kwendawo yenethiwekhi. Wakhokelela kwisidlo sangokuhlwa, wadlala, walala. Emva koko umama wajonga, esithi, "Umrhumo ulinde umnxeba wakho," nakwiyadi - sele iyure esele iyure yeshumi elinanye.
Umntu osebenza naye wabiza umama ochwayileyo womntwana, wachaza imeko, ethuthuzelekile ngendlela awayengena ngayo, bathi, wonke umntu ebomini uyenzeka, ndithabathe into enjalo. Umama Konke kwi-nerves: "Ndingakufumana phi phakathi kobusuku ?! Andazi le ndawo! Ivela endlwini yam kwelinye icala lesixeko! Ndingayifumana njani ?! ".
Umntu osebenza naye emthoba: "Ungafuni ukufuna nantoni na, hlala kwiteksi, siya kudibana nawe ekungeneni kwakho." Umama sele ekwerabi: "Andinamali yeteksi!" Utitshala uyambetha: "Ungakhathazeki, yiya ngokuzola, ndiza kuhlawula iteksi."
I-mommy ibila: "Andinamali kwifowuni yam, andikwazi ukubiza iteksi." Utitshala uyambetha: "Ndinibiza iteksi, niyichaza idilesi." Umama weza, watsiba emotweni kwaye evumela utitshala evumele: "Ndiyintoni, ndihamba nomntwana ebusuku ukuba ndithwele esinye isiphelo ?!". Utitshala uthi: "Thobela, ungakhathazeki! Ndathi ndiza kuhlawula iteksi! " Umama ujonge umntwana okhubekileyo otyhafileyo emotweni kwaye elandela imilebe yakhe, ekhohlo. Kwaye uxolelo kwaye ndiyabulela. Kwaye ngengomso wakhokelela umntwana egadini. Iqela lalivaliwe kwaye lishiywe. Ukhathazekile.
Umlingane usixelele eli bali kwaye wenze isigqibo: "Khange ndiqonde ukuba yintoni. Kubonakala ngathi yisenzo esihle, kwaye imvakalelo yokuba mna, njenge kitten kitten, yayihamba ze kwipiddle. "
Ngaphambili, abantwana bahlala rhoqo bachitha ubusuku bofundisi-ntsapho
Phantse iminyaka engama-30 yomsebenzi egadini, kwakukho amabali amaninzi. Nazi ezinye zamatyala acacileyo. Kwiminyaka engamashumi amabini eyadlulayo, intombazana yaya kwiqela lam. Umama wakhe ulingulo, ekhulile kwikhaya leenkedama. Izihlobo azikho. Ke apha enyakeni ubuncinci iintsuku ezi-3 ngeveki, le ntombazana ichithe kum. Umamazala wam uqhawukile kuqala, emva koko wagula, njengabo bonke abanye. Kwaye wade wacela ukubuza: "Kwaye yintoni le Alice, ixesha elide asichithi ubusuku?".
Elinye icala yayilixesha elide, inkwenkwe ayizange ithathe ngolwesiHlanu. Kwakungekho fowuni emva koko. Ngamafutshane, izalamane zonxibelelwano azizange zisebenze - kwaye ndayithatha nam kwi-cottage ngeempelaveki zonke. Kwaye abazali, ngokungathi akukho nto yenzekileyo, yeza kuthatha ngoMvulo ngokuhlwa. Kuyavela ukuba kwakufuneka athathe impelaveki, kodwa ulibele.
Enye intombazana yayinjalo, umama wakhe wayene-colonel yamapolisa. Kwiiveki ezimbini phambi konyaka omtsha, waqala uhlobo oluthile lokuhlola kuloo mmandla kwaye ngaphambi kwentsimbi yesithoba ngokuhlwa engazange ayithathe intombi yomyezo. Kwaye yonke iminyaka emine! Kuzo zonke izinto eziphazamisayo zethu kukho impendulo enye: "Ndingenza ntoni? Ndiyasebenza!".
Mangaphi amaxesha abantwana ababhubhisa kwaye abalali amakhaya. Kodwa konke oku kuxhomekeke kwimeko enye. Kwiqela elilandelayo alizange lithathe le ntombazana ngexesha. Iifowuni zabazali zikhubazekile. Umhlohli ukhuthaze naye de kube ngu-21,00, emva koko wahamba naye ekhaya. Ndabondla, ndilele ukulala. Ngomhla wama-23.15, amapolisa e-riot aqhekeka aye kwigumbi lakhe, ekhokelwa ngumntu onxilayo, ebhalela uMama okhwaza: "Ebiwe! Uhlasela umntwana wam! " Ndicinge, ewe, kodwa iirments zanyibilika, zisempilweni.
Ngoku siyaliwe ngokweemeko ezinjalo ukuzisa abantwana kwintsimi. Oku akukho semthethweni. Hlala kwaye ulinde xa eziza kwaye zithabathe okanye zibangele amapolisa kunye nabagcini babasebenzi. Njengomthetho, hlala kwaye ulinde. Amapolisa xa sele ebize xa engazange eze kumntwana de kube ngama-22,00.
Kwaye njani kuthi?
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Ngokutsho kolawulo, babengenazityala zokuba abazali balibali abantwana egadini. Ngokwesiqhelo wonke umntu ugoduka kwivaliwe kwi-Kindergarten ngo-19: 00.
Ngootitshala, enye iNyaniso: Ngamanye amaxesha abazali bafika emva kokuvala igadi, kodwa bahlala belumkisa ngokulibaziseka komnxeba. Ke utitshala ulinde abazali babo nomntwana wabo ngomntwana, yiyeke ngogada kwaye uye ekhaya - akunakwenzeka, kuyathintelwa. Ukuba abazali soze bavele kwaye akuyi kubakho uqhagamshelo nabo kwifowuni, kuya kufuneka uye emapoliseni kwaye uthathe isigqibo sombuzo kunye nesithili. Kunokwenzeka ukuba ichonge umntwana kwindawo yonke ye-mnsk.