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Njengengcali yeminyaka emininzi, i-Psychologist inokuthi ngokuzithemba kwamawaka angama-99% athe kum ngokubonisana, kwaye abelane ngeempazamo zabo, azibophelela kuzo zonke.
Ngapha koko, ayinamsebenzi ukuba loluphi uhlobo lweengxaki - ukusondela, kunye neengxabano, nabantwana, ngemali ... ingcambu isenjenjalo.
Umzekelo, thatha izikhalazo ezithile.
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Xa ndicela umbuzo ocacisa ", ukuba umfazi wakho wayehleli apha, ngewayengakholiswa nguwe, okanye kusekho izilonda ecaleni kwakho." Apha kufuneka sihlawule irhafu, amadoda anyaniseke kwaye batsho ukuba azifezekanga.
Okulandelayo, kuyavela:
: Indoda ayithandi ukumamela izikhalazo zomfazi wayo, azihoyi, ke iyakukhokelela, emva koko iqale ikhwaza okanye iqengqele i-shosteria
: Indoda ithanda ukubeka izithembiso, kwaye ilibele ukuba uzenze, kwaye umfazi uqala ukuyalela nzima, kuba Iyanyikima
Indoda yaqhele oko ekuthandeni ukuba ifumane into ayifunayo, kwaye inkosikazi yakhe - ayiqondi, wayengazami ukuthetha, elindele ukuba akatsho.
Ukugxeka omabini amacalaQAPHELA! Andifuni kuthi "Indoda inetyala kwakhona" ayihlekisi. Ewe, umphathi womfazi akalunganga. Ewe, ukukhwaza nokuthuka umfazi wendoda kubi. Ukuthula kumfazi okuqaqambileyo akulunganga!
Zombini zenziwe kakuhle. Kwaye ngoku kwingxaki yengcambu. Nantsi:
Indoda izama ukutshintsha umsebenzi kumfazi, ndilinde amanyathelo okuqala kuye. Okanye wenza imizamo embalwa, emva koko wayiphosa, bathi, "Umfazi akalunganga."
Thelekisa neshishini: Ukuba umrhwebi uphelisa imali, ngubani oza kuqonda? Yakhe. Ukuba abathengi bayaya baniqondayo? Yakhe. Ukuba imveliso imbi, emva koko ingemva kwayo? Yena ngokwakhe.
Ke kutheni, ndicela ingcebiso, ukuba ufuna ukuba yeyona nto iphambili kusapho, ungakuqondi? Kutheni le nto ugxeka umfazi wam kwaye ufuna ukuba aqale ukuyeka ukukhwaza, ukuyalela kwaye akhululwe? Ewe, umfazi wam unengxaki. Kodwa kunye nengxaki yomzalwana wethu. Kwaye uzisombulule kuthi.
Owokuqala ukufumanisa, kwisiseko sokuba umfazi anazo izikhalazo kunye nokungoneliseki. Kuyandikholiswa kukuba kwaneliseka. Okokuqala ukuthi inkosikazi yam "Ndiza kwenza ukuba kuthenjiwe ntoni, kwaye uya kuyeka ukuyalela?" " Eyokuqala ukuqala ukuthetha malunga noko akunjalo kukufuphi nendlela yokulungisa.
Kwaye wenze kwaye wenze kwakhona kwaye uphinde uphinde ude ube sisiphumo. Kuko konke.
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