Imithandazo Yabazali Yabantwana

Eyona nto imbi kakhulu kumzali ngamnye xa umntwana wabo esigula. Umama notata akazifumani, ukhathazekile, ulibale ngokutya kwaye

, Ukuba inye kuphela iququzelele imeko yomntwana. Isondele kakhulu kwintliziyo yonyana kanyana, nentombi yakhe, nokuba yimthabathe umntwana, ngenxa yokuba ekhupha umntwana, iinyanga ezili-9, ngalo lonke ixesha bekufuphi. Kwiminyaka yokuqala, uqhagamshelo lomntwana kunye nomama womelele, ke amakholwa ayakholelwa ukuba

Oomama yindlela engummangaliso kumlo wokulwa nomntwana.

Ifunda njani imithandazo?

Ngokutsho kubabingeleli, ayikabi yinto ebaluleke kangaka indlela ofundwa ngayo umthandazo, into ephambili, kuwo wonke umphefumlo, nxibelelana nenkxaso engcwele ngenkxaso. Kodwa kusekho iingcuka ezithile ezilandela ikholwa. Ekubeni isibheno sibhekiswa kubangcwele, kunyanzelekile ukuba sibize izicelo zabo ngembeko. Ewe kunjalo, kungcono ukuya etempileni, kodwa ekhaya ungafunda, ngakumbi ukuba kukho imifanekiso ebusweni babaNgcwele. Ukuze ungaphazanyiswa kwaye ugxile ekuphathweni kwakho, kuyacetyiswa ukuba uthandaze wedwa. Ke amazwi akho aya kufikelela kubangcwele ngokukhawuleza, kwaye baya kuba nakho ukuva kwaye bakuncede.

Unokukhanyisa ikhandlela, emva koko ume kunye nemifanekiso kwaye uthi umthandazo. Kubalulekile ukuba uthethe ukunyaniseka ukuze amazwi ahambe entliziyweni yakhe. Akunakwenzeka ukuphanga iingcwele, ke abafundanga imithandazo, bangeva kwisofu okanye ukusela ikofu.

Imithetho ebalulekileyo

Ukuze amazwi akho aviwe, kufuneka ulandele imigaqo esisiseko ekufuneka yenziwe bonke abazali.

Ndiyakholelwa ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba umthandazo uza kunceda. Ukuba uthe amazwi, kodwa kwangaxeshanye ubhekisa kumandla omthandazo, isibongozo asisayi kuviwa.
Xa kufikwa emntwaneni ukuya kuthi ga kwiminyaka eyi-7, ebizwa ngokuba ngu "Umntwana kaThixo", 'engamenzeli mkhonzi uThixo ", njengoko iqhelekile' njengoThixo", njengoko idla ngokuthetha.
Abazali kufuneka bathandazele intlalo-ntle kunye nempilo yabantwana engeyiyo kuphela xa ingxaki yafika endlwini. Kuyimfuneko ukuba ufunde rhoqo, kunye nokutyelela itempile, ubudlelane kunye nokuvuma.
Ungathandaza kungekuphela kweentsana ezibhaptiziweyo, kodwa nakwabo bangabinalo ixesha lokwenza.
Xa isifo sibuyisa, kwaye umntwana uza kuqala ukulungisa, qiniseka ukuba uza kubulela abaNgcwele ukuze bancede kunye nenkxaso.

Faka isicelo kuMsindisi, uYesu Krestu

"Nkosi Yesu Krestu, vumela inceba yakho kubantwana bam (biza amagama abantwana). Zigcine phantsi kwezandla zakho, zigawulele bonke ububi, zikude kubo bonke utshaba lwakho, zivule iindlebe zakho, namehlo, nithobeke kubo. Ewe, Ndikhoyo, sizenzela eyakho, Abantwana bam (Balidwelile amagama abantwana), babaguqule baguquke. Sindisa iNkosi, kunye namakhaya oomama (amagama kamama), kwaye ukhanyise ingqondo yakho ngokukhanya kwevangeli yencwadi yakho, kwaye ubafundise, uya kwenza ukuthanda kwakho, Ndiza kutya uThixo wethu. "

Thandazela intombi oyisikelelekileyo

Rhoqo, ooms babhekiswa kweyona ntombi iNgcwele, kuba ikwangunina, ndiyakuqonda ukubandezeleka komfazi kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ndiya kunceda. Umama ngamnye usondela kwintliziyo yesifo nawuphi na umntwana, kwaye uVirgo uMaria uyayazi indlela eyoyikekayo xa inkathazo yenzeka emntwaneni wakhe.

Amagama omthandazo wentombi oyintsikelelo enguMariya:

"Ewe, mama onenceba! Ubona usizi ngenkani Intliziyo yam! Ngenxa yesijwili, egxunyekwe ekreyileni ikrele eliyintsuluka, esemphefumlweni, ngokukrakra, ngokukrakra komntwana wakho. Ukuthanda uThixo nosindiso akungavumi ukwahlulela kunyana uSomandla, ishawari kagqirha kunye ne-teles. Owu, umama onothando! Phonononga, bubuso bomntwana wam, ukuba umzimba wonke utsale njani kunothando, ugungceleze ngawo. Ewe, uya kusindiswa nguThixo, kwaye uya kukhonza ngovuyo lwentliziyo, iNkosi yakho, iNkosi noThixo kuye. Amen! ".

Isibheno kwi-matron ye-moscow

"Owu, abasikelelekileyo Mati Mamano, beva kwaye ngoku sinesono, sithandaza kuwe, sithandaze kuzo zonke izinto ezibandezelekileyo kwaye sizimamele sonke esihlala, ithemba lokuphilisa, ithemba kunye nokuphiliswa okumangalisayo Zonke zikhonza; Ewe, ayijongi inceba yakho kuthi, engafanelekanga, iqengqeleka kwilizwe elinehlabathi elinehlabathi elinesixhenxe noIgiazhni elifumana intuthuzelo yentlungu yokomoya nokunceda kwizifo ezibonakalayo. Izifo zethu ziphilisa, zisindisa kwizilingo kwaye zisilwa uMtyholi, umlo, iPomoon Ukudlulisela umfanekiso wobomi bemihla ngemihla kwaye ungaphumi kakuhle kude kube sekupheleni kwemihla yethu, ithemba kunye nethemba Kuba uThixo unamandla, kwaye ukungathandani kwaphela. Kuba thina, saba nakho ukufezekisa ubukumkani bamazulu kubomi bele nto kuThixo, sikuzukisa ngenceba, nobabalo lukaBawo wethu wamazulu, noNyana, noNyana oyiNgcwele, ngonaphakade. Umnyhasi osikelelekileyo uMasipala thandaza kwiNkosi yethu malunga nokuphilisa ikhoboka likaThixo (biza igama lomntwana). "

Ukuthandaza abantwana ababhekiswa kuMana kaThixo

Lo mthandazo kamama ufanele ukufundwa rhoqo, kungekuphela ngeli xesha lesifo sabantwana."Umama kaThixo, mandikhe ndingomfanekiso wodumo wakho. Vumela umphefumlo kunye namanxeba omnyama abantwana bam (ndidwelise amagama abantwana), izono zam ezisetyenzisiweyo. Ndimnika umntwana wamkela kwiNkosi yam, nditshoyo, Amen ".

Amabali AMAMA

Elizabeth, Mama 6 I-Novel

"Sibe seRoma ngenyanga, kwaye ukusuka ngoku ukuya phambili, sityelela rhoqo icawa. Ndiyakholelwa kwimithandazo yokusindisa imithandazo, xa uNyana egula, ihlala inomdla kwiNtombi Enyulu, uYesu Kristu kunye nolunye unonophele. Ndiyazi ukuba bava kwaye bancede inkwenkwe yam. Ndiyathemba ukuba imithandazo yam iya kuhlala ithethelela uNyana wezifo kunye neengxaki zobomi. "

UCatherine, Umama 3 oneminyaka emi-3 ubudala:

"Intombi yazalwa ngaphambi kwexesha, kwaye amathuba ogqirha akazange anikwe. Kwiveki yokuqala xa uAlenka wayenokuphinda avuseleleke, ndithandaze ngaphandle kwekhefu. Indincedile ukuba ukholelwa ukuba yonke into izakulunga. Yadlula ichukumiso, kwaye safunda ukuba intombi yam iya kuphila, ndaya kumaMatriki kaMationa Moscow ukuba ndimbulele ngoluhlobo olunjalo. Kwaye ngoku andikhathali ngenxa yabo bonke abangcwele ababenceda intombazana yam encinci. "

UJulia, Umama oneminyaka emi-5 ubudala:

Kwiminyaka emi-2, uAnechya ufumene iingxaki zempilo ezinzulu. Kwakusisivusi kuthi, abazali, ngenxa yokuba kwiminyaka yokuqala yonke into ihambe kakuhle. Ubomi bethu buye baba ngumlo osisigxina ngokuchasene nesi sifo. Saqhubeka esiphelweni koogqirha, sibeka isiphoso esitsha, kwaye uphuculo lwenzekile. Emva koko ndaya kwi-matis ye-matrona moscow. Yayilithemba lokugqibela, kwaye apha ndiye ndaqonda ukuba ngumthandazo oza kuba nakho ukunceda. Ngequbuliso, ukwaziwa, kubaluleke kangakanani ukuthandaza kwaye ucele uncedo kubangcwele. Ndinombulelo ongazenzisiyo ngoThixo, i-matina, iingelosi zogada kunye nabo bonke abaphilise intombi yam. Ngoku ulungile, uyakhula aze akhule njengomntwana oqhelekileyo kweli xesha. Rhoqo ngokuhlwa ndiyitshisa ikhandlela kwaye ndifunde umthandazo, nangeeCawa ndiye etempileni kwaye ndibulele ngenxa yoko ndisenzele yonke into abayenzela yona. " Umthandazo kaMama unamandla akhethekileyo, kuba intliziyo yobuntwana iyakwazi ukuthanda ngaphandle kokufuna nantoni na ngembuyekezo. Amagama kanina abhekiswa kuNkosi kunye nabaNgcwele banokwenza ummangaliso wokwenene xa umntwana wakhe esigula. Eyona nto iphambili inyanisekile kwaye isuka emazantsi entliziyo yam ukucela uncedo, kwaye lo mmangaliso uya kwenzeke.