Kwinkulungwane yamashumi amabini, eyona nkalo ilungele ngokungqongqo yi "imigangatho yobuhle" kunye nohlobo "lomsebenzi wokuba mhle" kumfazi wonke. Olu hlobo lobukhali lwebhayoloji lomntu: Ubudala bendalo, imfuza kunye neenguqu zendalo ezenzekayo kwinkqubo yobomi.
Kwakukho imbono ephosakeleyo edumileyo ukuba inokwenzeka ukufumana uthando ngomzimba wakho kuphela ngenxa yokuphuculwa kwayo okungapheliyo. Kodwa imbonakalo, njengento yokwenyani, ayinakuze ibonakaliswe ngokuzinza, ngoko kungcono ukutshintsha indawo "yokuhlambela imbumbulu" ukulungelelanisa isimo sengqondo ngakuwe.
Indlela yokuphila eyazibhengeza kuthi kumabonwakude inento encinci kakhulu ngento ethathwa njengento ethathwa njengento enomdla kwaye yenzeka kwindawo yethu. Ngendlela, ayizukuba yinto engathethekiyo yokubona okhokelayo ... Ngawaphi amanenekazi athi "Igama" manenekazi "alifanelanga nxamnye nabo!) Kwiziteshi eziphambili! Rhoqo oku ngabalinganiswa becarcicre, abakhohlakeleyo, igrostque, kunye nembonakalo yobuso obungathandekiyo kunye neembeko zobuso. Kubonakala ngathi bamenyiwe kwiTV kwimarike yokukhupha. Kwaye zizo ezi-ziphilile ze-trendy spere kunye nendlela elungileyo?
Abantu kwiifoto kwi-Instagram basigcuma ukuze sizame ukuba njalo kwaye mncinci. Kodwa khumbula, ukuba ngobomi bokwenyani uya kudibana nomntu nge-50 ngaphandle kokunyibilikisela okungatshatanga kobuso, kuya kubonakala ngathi yinto engaqhelekanga kwaye yoyike (ubuso obungaphezulu).
Rhoqo, kanye le nto siyithathela ingqalelo iintsilelo zethu, abanye babonwa njengendawo yemvelaphi, indibaniselwano eyodwa yeempawu ezithile zobuntu. Khumbula abadlali abadumileyo abaneempawu ezingezo meko zebusweni - umhlaba uphela ubajonga. Bakwazile ukuba bayazamkela kunye nomzimba wabo kwaye bafunda indlela yokufumana iimpawu zabo.
Ukuzivocavoca ngokwakho:1. Ukuza esipilini ntsasa nganye kwaye, jonga emehlweni am, yithi: "Ndiyakuthanda. Athini amehlo akho acacileyo, ukuqaqamba okuthambileyo (njl. Njl.)! " QAPHELA NGOKUQINISEKILEYO UKUZE NYENZE KHONA NDLULA OKUTHETHWA LONTO. Nokuba ngaphakathi uya kuziva unganyangeki, qhubeka. Awukafuneki ukuzisikelela, ekuqaleni kubaluleke kakhulu.
2. Thatha i-concoments. Ngenxa yabantu abangaqinisekanga kakhulu. Ingakumbi xa udumisa into oyibonayo ubuyisela ubuyisela. Ke ndifuna ukuchasana nethoni yomntwana okhubekisayo, okanye ndibaleke kwi-gallon toplocutorr. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka ufunde ukuthatha intiyo ngombulelo. Yenza ngokungakhathali, yitsho nje ngoncumo: "Enkosi!" Kwaye emva koko baya kuba ngaphezulu, kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe bakho bakholelwe kuyo.
3. Qala ukubhala idayari. Izenzo ezibhaliweyo ziyasebenza kakhulu, ngakumbi xa kufuneka ufumane indlela yakho. Phawula utshintsho olunxulumene nokuthathwa kwawo kunye nokuchasana ekuqaleni.
4. Iziqinisekiso zokuziqhelanisa ekufuneka ziphindwe kaninzi, kwaye kungcono ukurekhoda, utsho ngokuvakalayo okanye kuthi. Ungaqala ngegama elithi: "Ndiyathanda kwaye ndiyamkele." Ngomhla ungabhengeza kwiziqinisekiso ezili-12 ezahlukeneyo.
5. Zidumise ngawo onke amagumbi amancinci endleleni eya kuzithabatha.
6. Bhala uluhlu lwemisebenzi oyithandayo - ukusuka kwinqanaba lezinto ezilula ukuya kunzima. Vumela wenze kabini ngeveki.
7. Ukuba kukho ingxaki ngobunzima okanye ulusu, nxibelelana nengcali, fumana iingcebiso kwaye ubalandele ngovuyo. Zenzele ngokwakho - impilo yakho, intlalo-ntle yangaphakathi kunye nokwandisa umtsalane wabasetyhini.
8. Nje ukuba utshintsho oluqalileyo luvela, zinike iseshoni yefoto kwikona entle yendalo, ngasemva kwendawo yesixeko, apho umphefumlo wakho uya kutshitshiswa kwaye ukhululekile. Gcina ezi foto kwaye uzihlaziye, ngakumbi ukuba uyafuna ukubuyela kwizinto ezigxekayo.
9. Nyala umkhwa ombi wokuzithelekisa nabantu ongabaziyo, oogxa bakhe okanye abantu abadumileyo. Iyayingozi kwaye ayinantsingiselo, njengoko umntu ngamnye nendlela yakhe yahlukile, kwaye ukuthelekisa okunjalo kutshabalalisa umntu ngamnye.
10. Gxila kubuntu bakho, hlalutya amathuba afumanekayo kuwe, kodwa awuzange ungenelwe ngu nabani na (ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo). Yenza isicwangciso seminyaka emihlanu ezayo.
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