Ixesha libhabha ngesantya sokukhanya. Kubonakala ngathi sisanda kudlale kwintendelezo kunye nabahlobo, njengoko sadlulana noAunts kunye nolume. Ngokuqinisekileyo, uninzi lwenu ebuntwaneni lwalucinga malunga nabantu abaneminyaka engama-40 ubudala njengamanye amadoda amadala abantu abadala, kodwa sisondela kwi-40. unyaka nonyaka, siqala ukuqonda ukuba kuphela umzobo kuphela kwipasipoti onayo itshintshiwe, kwaye umnqweno wokuzonwabisa, dibana nabahlobo kwaye wonwabe ebomini kuphela.
Sikwi-Adme.ru rhoqo sicinga malunga nobudala kwaye, sibona ibali lombhali weDesis Desis Soby, alikwazanga ukwabelana nabafundi bethu.
Olu suku lwafika ngawo endandicinga ngaphezu kweminyaka engama-30 eyadlulayo. Kwaye kwiminyaka engama-20 eyadlulayo, ndaphinda ndacinga. Iminyaka eli-10 eyadlulayo ayisacingi. Eyoyikisayo. Kungenxa yengqiqo ethile, kwiminyaka eli-10 ndicinga ukuba i-40 yayiyesinye isiphelo sendalo, apho amawakawaka eendaba, kwaye ngokubanzi akwenzeki. Abantu abaneminyaka engama-40 ubudala babonakala ngathi bayandithanda kwaye banzima, abayazi indlela yokuhlekisa, ubomi obuthwesiweyo kunye nomgaqo wokukhupha imikhosi yokugqibela. 40 yinto engekhoyo engekhoyo ubudala, amathambo abuhlungu kunye ne-napkin kwiTV. Ndacinga ngayo kwaye ndinomsindo. Ngoba baphi i-10 nelama-40? Ewe ndiza kuba yiminyaka engama-40 ubudala!
Ngo-15, ukujonga abantwana abaneminyaka engama-40 kwaye baphulaphule ukucaciswa kwabo, ngokucinga ukuba: "Ewe, kunjalo, yitsho. Usasebenza kangakanani kwi-40 yakho? " Bangandifundisa ntoni ukuba ngohlobo lwekhompyuter kunye bawa batyholwa? Ukuba uninzi lwamagama avela kunxibelelwano lwethu kunye namakhwenkwe yayiyimfihlakalo kubo? Ewe, sele bethanda into, mhlawumbi abayazi indlela. Enoba sinjalo, oneminyaka eli-15 ubudala, fervoy, inkanuko, iintloko ezishushu! Hayi, andithethi ngawo. Ngo-20 ndinothusayo kwisandla kunye noogxa babo oneminyaka engama-40, ndiphawula ngam ukuba abamdala kakhulu. Ndincoma ngokunyaniseka kwaye ukumangalisa kuphawule ubuhle obuqaqambileyo bamabhinqa aneminyaka engama-40. Phantse bonke abantu abadala abajikeleze kum babeneminyaka engama-40 ubudala. Khange ndifune ukuziva umntu omdala kwaphela. Ngo-20 ndaqokelela ibhegi kwaye ndafudukela eNovosibirsk. Inye kuphela into eyandinika ilungelo lokujonga kuwo wonke umntu oneminyaka engama-40 ubudala kwidolophu yakowethu, ezantsi. Kuba ndenze e-20 abangazange badanise ukuba ndingu-40: ndabutshintsha ubomi bam bupholile. Ngo-25, ekugqibeleni nditshatile intanda yam, apho bendiphila ngalo iminyaka emi-5. Khange ndizise kwi-40, nangona ndindijonga ngokusesikweni kwiqela labantu abadala.
Kwintombazana yam yazalwa, kwaye ndaphula. Hayi malunga nengqondo "Ndingene ngosuku olunye," inoxanduva nje kangangesihlandlo eziliwaka. Kwaye ngoku abantu abaneminyaka engama-40 bayeka mna njengabaphambukeli. Ndiqale ukuziva usongezelekayo obungenakufikelelwa 40, ndaye ndacheba ngokukhululeka. Ukuya kuthi ga kwi-40 ka-10! Kwaye ayisiyo joke, usafuna ishumi elinambini. Zonke iingcinga malunga nonyaka wama-40 ozayo uqinile entloko. Ubomi babubila nge-verev epholileyo, xa kwakuza kucinga malunga ne-trifles. Izinto ezininzi zenzekile ngezi zi-10, ndakwazi ukuba ngumbhali! Ngoku ufunda amabali am kwaye uyazi ukuba awazi ukuba zeziphi iziphithiphithi ezikuyo kule ngoku umzimba oneminyaka engama-40 ubudala. Khange ndicinge malunga ne-40 de kube izolo. Kwaye izolo iqondile ngesiquphe ukuba ndineminyaka engama-40 ngomso. Kwaye ayisiyongxaki, musa ukudluliselwa, musa ukubhala amanani.
40. Ezona zinto zininzi, apho i-100 yezigidi zezigidi. Ndijonge ngaye nangemimangaliso ndiqaphele ukuba oogxa bonyaka abangama-40 baluphazisile ukuba abafazi abaneminyaka engama-40 baqaqambile, ubuhle obutsha, bububudenge kunye nothando ngakumbi kwaye uthuli kune-15. Ukuqhekeza ibinzana "kwi-40 yonke into iqala nje" akubangakho ngqiqweni kum. Khange ndiphelise nantoni na ukuqala. Ndiyanda ngoku. Uthando, amandla okuvuya kumaqulane, amandla okuthi cwaka ngexesha (bendilele, andikaze ndibazi, kodwa ndiyabazi abo baziyo), kwaye umhlaba ngokwawo uqaqambile . Ndacinga ukuba yayikutshabalalisa iziphumo eziphakathi. NJENGOKO, NDINGAYIPHI I-40? Yonke into yenziwe kakhulu. Ewe, mawenze, andifuni. Ndiza kuzisa iziphumo zam ekupheleni kwendlela, kwaye ngoku ndiyifumene nje indlela yokuya ngokuchanekileyo. Ke, ukuba ungaqhubekanga kwaye ungabanini nomntu wonke endleleni. Ke ngoku, ngelixa ufunda yonke le nto, ndineminyaka engama-40 ubudala, ndisisela impilo yam into elungileyo, ndinqwenela into oyifunayo. Kodwa khumbula, ndiza kuba ngumdala oneminyaka engama-40.
Ngaba ukhe wazibona kwibali lombhali? Uyoyika isikhumbuzo seminyaka engama-40 okanye ungacingi ngayo?