Iingxabano phakathi kwabazali nabantwana abakwishumi elivisayo ziye zaqulatha phakathi kwamabango kubantwana abanemiboniso engakhathaliyo ngabazali babo kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo ...
Singumntu ohlukileyo kubazali. Sisalawula ubomi boluntu babantwana babo, kodwa namhlanje sinamathuba angaphezu kwa ngaphambili, kwaye kwindawo "yomntwana" waseHollywood ", esimfundela umsindo omkhulu", namhlanje umntwana esiya kuba kude nomsebenzi obalulekileyo.
Iingxabano phakathi kwabazali nabantwana abaselula ziye zaqulatha phakathi kwamabango kubantwana abavela kubazali babo kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo. Kumazwe aseYurophu naseMelika, abantwana abakhulileyo bangeniswa kwinkundla.
Akunakulindeleka ukuba inye i-oms kunye nootata, bathumela ishumi elinambini okanye amakhulu eefoto ze-chad kwi-Intanethi, osoyikisayo ngentsomi. Kodwa kubonakala ngathi iinethiwekhi zentlalo zisibeka phambi kwemicimbi emitsha malunga nokugcinwa kweqhinga, ulondolozo lwabucala nobudlelwane obulungileyo obuhle nomntwana.
Uninzi lwabazali lukhetha kwicala lokwala ukupapasha iifoto zabantwana babo (kunye nezicatshulwa malunga nabo), ngaphandle kobukho babo kwiifoto zosapho eziqhelekileyo. Kodwa ubukho beenethiwekhi zentlalo buye baba yinxalenye yobomi bemihla ngemihla kunye nabantu abadala, nakubantwana abasweleyo kunye nathi ngamanye amaxesha babuze lo mbuzo: ukuba ndibuphinde kangakanani hayi?
Ngapha koko, hlalani ngokupheleleyo abantwana abavela kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo-ukuze kubo kumelwe ukuba zifanekiselwe njani kwiibhlogo zebhlogs aziveli kwaphela. Abantwana babukele iiakhawunti zabanye abantu kwaye bazifumane ezabo ezikolweni ngolwandiso, kuba ukuhamba nokuhamba, ukusebenzisa igajethi yabanye abantwana. Ngamanye amaxesha bathatha iifowuni zabazali babo, benyuka kwi-Intanethi evela kwiikhompyuter zabazali. Ngokubanzi, amathuba omntwana akazukubona iifoto zakhe ekudlule kumama okanye utata, akwanele.
Emva kokuthetha nentombi yakhe, umsitho wakhe, amantombazana aqhelekileyo, ndazimisela imithetho emininzi enokuthathelwa, ibeka imifanekiso kwinethiwekhi yoluntu.
1. Ukuba umntwana sele esazi ngeenethiwekhi zentlalo, ebuza uluhlu lwayo lokwamkela kwiifoto zikawonke-wonke.
Umzekelo, omnye wabaphathi bam abonise ukuba ifoto yakhe ayinakupapashwa ukuba iimpahla zabo bezingaphantsi. Ukuba ndiyakholelwa ukuba iindawo ze-maneclolor okanye umkhondo wokuwa umfanekiso awuyithobanga, kufuneka ndimnike ifoto yengxoxo. Kwaye, ewe, ifoto enezixhobo ezibiweyo ngokungachanekanga, ezaphukileyo, inkqonkqoziweyo akufuneki zihambe kunye "ebuzwe" zibuze "izimvo eziqinisa isiphumo. (Kwisizathu sakhe, ndingatsho ukuba andizithumeli iifoto zesibini, kodwa kulungile ukuba siyithethile). Abanye abantwana abathandi xa bebonisa ifoto apho bakhala khona okanye apho ilungu lifihlakele kwintshukumo yabo. Ngokubanzi, uluhlu luya kuba nalo.
2. Soloko ukhumbula ukuba umntwana ujonge impendulo yoontanga.
Oku kungenxa yenu kunye nomzali wakho. Ifoto yomzali womntwana emfanekisweni kwifilimu "umfazi mhle" kunye neekowuti ezihambelana ne-nostalgia kwimovie endala. Kumntwana ongubongikazi onokufumanisa ukuba umfanekiso kunye neewotshi zithunyelwa kwihenyukazi le-heroine, le joke iguqukele kwintlekele. Ngesizathu esinye, abantwana abakhulayo abayithandi imifanekiso apho baneebhola ezibonisa isifuba okanye ukhulelwe phantsi kwe-T-shirt, apho ifoto edibeneyo kunye nengxoxo eqhelekileyo (icocekile ), kwaye inje. Ngayo nayiphi na ireferensi yobomi besini okanye yothando yabantu abadala kwiifoto zabantwana, abantwana banokufumana uninzi lokugculelwa kumaqabane abo. Oku kuyasebenza kwiifoto ezihlekisayo ngentshabalalo yeentsana ze-versies okanye imifanekiso ngexesha leentlanganiso ezizimbilini nakwizitya zangasese.
3. Kufanelekile ukuzisombulula kangakanani ukuba uza kuthumela kangaphi imifanekiso yabantwana, kwaye ngoba.
Mhlawumbi kanye ngeveki-kwanele ukuze umntwana angawazi "ukungabikho", "angalungelanga" ubomi bomzali, kwaye akunjalo kangangokuba le nto iphazanyiswe yimfihlo yomntwana. Gxila kwindlela ababhalwa ngayo ebonke, kwaye xa umntwana ekhula - kwaye ngokombono wakhe.
4. Musa ukuthatha kwiakhawunti yayo, ivaliwe okanye ivuliwe, ifoto ngaphandle kwemfuno.
Injongo yebhlog yomntwana kunye nabaphulaphuli bakhe zingahluka kweyakho. Xa intombazana okanye inkwenkwe ibeka umzuzu oqinileyo kwiakhawunti, ootatomkhulu bafundayo, abatoli kunye nabazala, oko akuthethi ukubona iifoto zabo zixoxile i-Izen okanye amakhulu abantu, nangaphandle kwesilumkiso. Lo mfanekiso unokuba lusondeleyo kumava abo, okanye ungaphumelelanga (kwaye ke ekhoyo kwiinkumbulo, hayi ukubahlali). Okokugqibela, abantwana xa bethatha imifanekiso eyenziwe ngabo ngaphandle kwesidingo, bayiqonde ukuba babuhlungu ngokungathi bathabatha izinto zabo.
5. Susa isicelo sokuqala!
Nokuba umntwana sele evumile ukupapasha ifoto, kodwa watshintsha ingqondo- akukho mfuneko yokuba amenze ixhala kwaye ayonakalisa ubudlelwane bakho. Cima - kuthetha ukucima. Ukusuka kwindawo yoluntu, ubuncinci.
6. Impumelelo yezemidlalo kunye nexesha lokuhamba ngendlela ehamba phantse wonke umntu.
Ayinamsebenzi apho umntwana enze ukuba umxhuzula omangalisayo, kwibala lemidlalo okanye lendawo yokudlala. Ukuba ujongeka ngathi yimovie, akukho bantwana abaya kuba nxamnye neempapasho zakhe. Okufanayo ngokukhwela inkamela okanye umntu oqhelene neenciniba. Kodwa imithetho 1 ne-5 ayirhoxisi.
7. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba umntwana akafuni ukufotwa, andifuni.
Ngamanye amaxesha umbuzo wokungenisa ifoto kwinethiwekhi yenethiwekhi inyamalala ngokwalo kwinqanaba lokukhokela umntwana womntwana. Uyakhupha, ifuna ukungadubula? Yehlisa ilensi. Vumela umntwana abone ubuso bakho endaweni yoko.