Ndahamba ezantsi esitratweni ndinenqwelana, apho unyana wam walala ngoxolo. Ukudinwa, ukuhlala phantsi ukuze uphumle kwivenkile epakini. Kufutshane nebhinqa elinobuhlobo lamashumi amathandathu. Sathetha. Kunye nemizuzu embalwa unyana. Kwakufuneka atshintshe i-diaper endigqibe kwelokuba ndenze kwangoko. Imozulu ngoJulayi yayishushu, ishushu.
- Kutheni ungambeka engca? -Umnxibelelanisi weqhinga ngequbuliso.
Ndaye ndahleka ukuba yingca, "yahleka, igqiba kwelokuba iyahlekisa. - Uneenyanga ezintathu kuphela ubudala, akasahleli. Kwaye ke-ngequbuliso ikhreyithi?
"Ziyadanisa kwi-piss kwibhulukhwe ngenene," watsho lo mfazi. -Unqongopheleyo ngokukhawuleza!
-Uxolo, unabo abantwana bakho?
-Hayi, kodwa ukuba bekukho, ngewayeye ndafunda ukuba ndiye embizeni.
Ndikhawuleze ndizolile kwaye ndishiywe.
Yitsho ukusuka ekuzalweni-ngonyaka uyakuya embizeni
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Sele iinyanga ezimbalwa emva kwale ncoko epakini, ndafumanisa ukuba ukufundisa ngempumelelo kwimbiza luphawu lomama onengqiqweni ukuba ungakhathali ngendumiso. Inyani yile yokuba okokuqala emva kokuzalwa komzukulwana watyelela umkhwekazi. Kwaye into yokuqala ayithethayo ihlamba izandla zakhe kwindlela, yayiyiyo:
- Thwala i-mug okanye isosi enzulu, sibhala kuyo!
Uxolo, mama, kodwa ndinyanzelekile ukuba ndicacisa-ukuqokelele ukubhala kwinkonzo yethu? -Ucela umyeni wakhe edlula.
- Wena, utshatile, ungaqondi! -U-In-i-i-in-in-in-in-in-in-in-in-in-in-in-in-in-in. -Uwe, zonke iidiliya zenziwe! Ndikunye nawe, ngendlela, le ndlela yasebenza, sakubeka endaweni ye-mug de ndihlale, kwaye kwiinyanga ezilishumi sele sele usandazile imbiza!
Emva koko sakwazi ukulwa. Kodwa ngengomso umakhulu wahlasela hlaselo lwabantwana, exhobile ngenxa yesizathu esithile yimug yam ethandekayo.
- Suku! -Ndikhetha kakhulu indebe yam.
- Funda ngoku. Ethewa into ethile emva kokulala nganye kwaye utye ukutya ukuze wenze izinto ezinkulu nezincinci. Kwaye kuya kuba njengomzukulwana womhlobo wam, ukuya kwiminyaka emibini kwibhulukhwe yakhe ukuhamba!
Khange ndiyibone intlekele kule. Kodwa xa umkhwekazi eshiywe, etshayelwe ngokukhululeka. Bendingazi ukuba le ncoko iya kuhlala ihleli kule minyaka imbalwa izayo.
Iminyaka emihlanu-akukho mbiza
Bona: "Ukulwa imiqobo" - amava akho omntu oselulaUnyana wam akazange ajikeleze ukukhula, kodwa ngoku, kwiminyaka yakhe emihlanu, usalala kwi-diaper. Ngenxa yokulala kanzima kakhulu akunakuphakama kwaye uye kwindlu yangasese. Kwaye imini yonke into ilungile. Iipeleys zamanzi azinkqonkqoza phantsi imilenze yakhe ibe liqela. Thenga umatrasi womatrasi, kuba le iyoyikisa ngeentsuku ezintathu, ngandlela thile andazi. Asisoloko sinokwazi ukuvuka kwaye sitsala umntwana oleleyo kwindlu yangasese. Ke ngoko bagqiba kwelokuba balale kwiidayisi.
Mhlawumbi, wonke umntu uyacaca ukuba uNyana akayi kugogo wakhe ngobusuku. Kwaye ngokubanzi, umxholo wembiza kwiminyaka yakutshanje uye waba ngumntwana wam.
Ndisebenza njani kwisayensi
Kuyinyani ukuba akangomkhwekazi, kodwa yi-Intanethi. Amanqaku amanye amanqaku aluncedo ngokusekwa kwengqondo yabantwana kunye nokunxibelelana kwale nkqubo ngamaphulo akwayeleyo kwindlu yangasese. Ndigqibe kwelokuba-ngonyaka onesiqingatha ndiza kuqala ukufundisa kwaye ngonyaka siza kulibala malunga needrain.
Lungiselela kuqala. Ndithenge imbiza, ndibeka. Yaqala nje ukuba utyale umntwana omangalisayo. Ndimfundele iincwadi ngesihloko kwaye ndangenisa iikhathuni. Ngendlela, le yeyona ndlela imangalisayo - kwi-intanethi igcwele ividiyo epholileyo. Unyana wagqiba kwelokuba alahle imbiza kwinkunkuma, kangangokuba waye emva kwakhe ngale nto ingathandekiyo.
Ngokubanzi, bendilinde ukungaphumeleli ngokupheleleyo, kodwa andizange ndinikende.
- Funda! -Ndivakalise ngogonyamelo kwangomakhulu kwifowuni. -Angasakhululekanga kakhulu kuye.
Kwaye wacinga ukuba - mhlawumbi, kwakuyimfuneko ukumfundisa ukuba ahlangabezana ne-mug.
Kwakhona malunga nendlela umntwana ngamnye
Bona: Ingakanani iminyaka onokuthi uyive ngayo amagama omntwana
Ndinonyaka wonke. Ngaphandle kwenkqubela phambili enkulu. Ngamaxesha athile, ndanikezela. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha uNyana unikelwa kwaye enenyembezi yemfuneko endifunwayo kum ukuqhekeza kwam kwiidayari - nxiba kwaye undishiye!
Kwizinto ezimanzi anokuzola ngokuhamba ngesiqingatha ngosuku, enganikeli ngqalelo kwingxaki. Sebenzisa ngenkani okwaliwe. Sele bendicinga ukuba nditshicela kwaye ekugqibeleni ndibuyele kwiidayiri xa umntwana eza kwindlu yangasese. Unyana wabahlobo wayemdala kwaye enokuba yindawo ekhethekileyo kwitrone emhlophe emhlophe. Kwaye mna nembiza yam ngaphambi kokuba nje ndingacingi.
Ke kwi-2,5 ubudala, umntwana waphinda wandazisa kum indlela ekunzima ngayo ukuhlalutya ubuntu. Ndaphinda ndayiqonda ukuba bangaphi abantwana awahlukileyo kwaye bekunzima kangakanani ukuyifanekisela phantsi kwezinye izikhombisi. Umntu kwiinyanga ezili-10 uye kwimbiza, ukuze awele ngasemva isangqa, umntu oneminyaka eyi-2,5 ngesazela esifuna ukuphinda ngaphezulu kwabantu abadala abasebenzisa ezinye izixhobo ngeemfuno zakhe.
Impumelelo ayiqwalaselwa ukuba akukho mbiza
Umntwana unokungqina i-theorem iminyaka emithathu, kodwa ukuba uyayibhatala i-disbape, ootatomkhulu baya kumjonga umva. Yayingathandeki kakhulu.
Ekugqibeleni, bonke abantwana baqala ukuhamba embizeni, akukho nto imangalisayo koku. Kwaye amandla okwenza izigqibo ezinokubakho, olwasolisa unyana esonwabisayo, kwaye kukho isalathiso sophuhliso lokwenene. Nangona kunjalo, i-stereotypes entloko yomelele kakhulu. Nam nam. Kuba lonke eli xesha ndizisole ngokunyaniseka ukuba umkhwe wam akazange athobele, kwaye umntwana wam akazange ahambe emanyathelweni kayise, enonyaka.