Kwiminyaka eliqela eyadlulayo, umama ongatshatanga ovela eRussia uChristina Ghagakina waphumla eAtumia, apho wadibana khona ne-Georman Storiaman Golipa Ozzyk. Kungekudala batshata bagqiba kwelokuba baqalise abantwana, kodwa hayi ngendlela esemgangathweni, kodwa ngoncedo lokumkani omama. Kwiinyanga ezili-10, intombazana eneminyaka engama-23 ubudala yaba ngumama wabantwana abayi-10, kwaye esi sibini asicwangcisi ukuyeka.
UChristina wazala intombi yakhe yokuqala, eneminyaka eli-17 ubudala, kodwa ulwalamano notata womntwana aluzange lusebenze. Kwiminyaka emibini kamva, kwiholide, wadibana neGallip eneminyaka engama-52. Ngaphandle komahluko omkhulu kubudala, bathandana, ubudlelwane baqala, babhala iRefenook.by.
Ngokwentombazana, ekuqaleni babefuna ukuba nomntwana ngendlela eqhelekileyo: "Yonke into yayifanelwe ngabantu: Ukucwangciswa, ukukhulelwa, ngokuzalwa komntwana. Kodwa i-Gillip ibanjwe umlilo umbono wokuba nabantwana abaninzi ngokukhawuleza, "uChristina ubhala kwibhlog yakhe. Wanika umfazi wakhe oselula ukuba asebenzise iinkonzo zoomama abaninzi. Emva kokuba intombazana ende ende evunyiweyo.
Kunyaka ophelileyo, amakhwenkwe ama-5 kunye namantombazana ama-5 avele kwisibini, kukho amawele phakathi kwabo. Umntwana wokuqala ogama linguManafa wazalwa ngoMatshi wama-2020, kunye nentombazana yokugqibela uOlivia - ngoJanuwari 2021.
Ukwenza usapho olukhulu kangangexesha elifutshane, amaqabane ahlawule imali eqaqambileyo: "Ngokomyinge, umama ophambili waseGeorgia ufumana amawaka ama-8 amawaka e-euro. Ukongeza kule mali, esi sibini sihlawula zonke iindleko zonyango. Ixabiso lenkqubo yobunye ubuye kwasekuqaleni ukuba kugqitywe, kubandakanya zonke iinkqubo ezifanelekileyo, i-iltra. Ukuvuselela amawaka angama-28 amawaka eedola.
"Umama wakho uzala, eze emntwaneni"
Ukuze uChristina athathe amaqanda aliqela ukuze achume ngaxeshanye, wayephindaphindwe kane. Ngokutsho kukaMama, ukulungiselela le nkqubo kwakungekho lula: "Kwafuneka ndigqithe inani lophando kunye nohlalutyo, ukumelana nenaliti ezininzi esiswini. Kwinqanaba lamalungiselelo e-Eco ukuya emzimbeni, inani elikhulu leehomera liziswa emzimbeni, yiyo loo nto ndineentsilelo ezichaphazela imvakalelo. Khawufane ucinge: I-phms syndrome, engayi ndawo, kwaye ihlala ihlala ihamba-hamba, emva koko ke nimtshabalalise emhlabeni, "ixesha likaChristina ukhumbula.
Emva koko, ukulungiselela ubujoliso kuChristina kwaphela. Unokulinda umnxeba esibhedlele. Kwakufika nje ukuba kwaziwa ukuba umama othethelwa ngumama olwenziweyo kukuzala, uChristina waqokelela iingxowa waqhubela esibhedlele ukuze athathe umntwana olandelayo.
Umfazi waseRussia uthi ekuqaleni wayengekho lula kuye ukuba akwazi ukujamelana nenani elikhulu labantwana, ubuncinci balahlwa lonke ilizwe le-nanny kunye neeNdibano: "Ngokuhamba kwexesha ebelilali, i-colicss , omnye ulele, esinye isikhalo, emva koko - ngokuchaseneyo. Andinxibanga izandla, ngaphandle kwento yokuba ndinabancedi. "
Ngokutsho kukaChristina, bonke abantwana baphila ngokungqinelana nolawulo olungqongqo, kwaye i-nanny ikhokelela kwiidayari ezikhethekileyo apho zibhala zonke iinkcukacha ezinxulumene nabantwana: xa ndidle kangakanani Amaxesha amaninzi aya kwindlu yangasese. Enkosi kule diary, umama uhlala eqonda ukuba abantwana bakhe bakhuliswa njani.
Xa iBlogger ibuzwa ukuba inaye ixesha lokunikela ingqalelo kubo bonke abantwana, uChristina uphendula athi: "Njengazo zonke ii-moms. Ngobuninzi babantwana kunzima ngakumbi ukuyenza, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba akunakwenzeka. " Ngokungqinisisa ngamazwi akhe, umama omkhulu rhoqo kwiifoto zebhlogi kunye nabantwana kwaye uxela indlela abakhathalela ngayo.
Ababhalisi bacela uChristine ngempendulo yentombazana endalizi emlizeni ngembonakalo yabantwana, apho i-vaka yaseRussia yaphendula isithi: pheka zonke iintlobo zobumnandi kumhla wokuzalwa wonke umntu, wakhetha iingubo zam kunye nezinto ezahlukeneyo zoodade nabantakwabo. "
Ngaba yinyani ukuba isibini sifuna abantwana abayi-105?
Amajelo eendaba abhale ukuba uChristina nomyeni wakhe bafuna abantwana kwixesha elizayo. Umama uyayitshintsha kwibhlog yakhe. Xa waqalisa ukubandakanyeka kwi-Instagram, wayenabantwana aba-5. Inombolo ye-105 yayinesingqisho kwaye yabamba ingqalelo kwinto ebhaliweyo yeprofayili. "Oku akuthethi ukuba siceba ukuba nabantwana abayi-105," ababhali-bhalisa ababhalisileyo baqinisekiswa ngabantwana abayi-11.
Kodwa alikahlali sihlala kwesi sibini sifezekisiwe. UChristina akayibali le nto kwixa elizayo azenzele umntwana ngokwakhe, nangona olu khetho alugqali ukhetho olunjalo. Kwakhona, iBlogiger yaphendula abo banexhala malunga nentlalo-ntle yentsapho. UChristina wathi bona kunye nomyeni wakhe bacinga lo mbuzo, kwaye banesitokhwe semali iminyaka emininzi ngaphambili.