Ngokunjalo, xa umntwana ezimeleyo. Ungazinika ixesha elingakumbi lwakho, shiya umntwana iiyure ezininzi ekhaya okanye ngokulala ngokuzolileyo ekuseni kwaye ungoyiki ukuba umntwana uyalila, uyalamba okanye adle ipipi kuphela.
Rhoqo imiqobo ekukhuliseni umntwana ozimeleyo yoloyiko lwabazali okanye ukungafuni ukwamkela ukuba umntwana uyakhula kwaye sele efuna ubukho bemisebenzi rhoqo. Kodwa le ndawo kufuneka idlulise kwaye abazali, kwaye umntwana akhule ukuzimela, ukuzithemba kunye nokuzimela okukhoyo. Ezi zakhono ziya kulungela ukuba zimdala, kodwa kufuneka zizenzele ebuntwaneni.
Iindlela zokufundisa umntwana ozimeleyo
Ungafumanisa njani ukuba umntwana angayenzaUmntwana ngamnye ngumntu ngamnye. Ke ngoko, ubudala xa abantwana benokwenza imicimbi ethile ingahluka. Nikela ingqalelo kwinto elula ukuba ilula ukuba ingenzi ntoni ngezenzo zakho zedwa. Umzekelo, ukuba umntwana unokuhambisa ipipi, ke lixesha lokuba ufundise ukubopha izinqe, uncamathele i-velcro yempahla kunye nezihlangu, ukuba azinxibe.
Funda umntwana, kodwa ungayenzi
Wonke umntwana unomnqweno wokwenza into kakhulu. Kwaye nokuba akasebenzi, kufuneka uthathe umonde kwaye uyinike ukuba uyenze ngokwakho. Unokubonisa umntwana umzekelo, ukuphakamisa okwesihlandlo sokuqala ukwenza kunye, kodwa ungayenzi. Shiya indawo yokugcina ixesha kunye nomonde ukuze umntwana afunde ukwenza isenzo sodwa.
Phuhlisa uxanduva lomntuAbantwana besikolo saseTychool kunye nobudala besikolo abancinci ngamanqanaba ahlukeneyo oxanduva. Sele kubudala bokuhlala, kufuneka ufundise umntwana ukuba enze umsebenzi wasekhaya ngaphandle kokukhumbuza izikhumbuzo. Kwiminyaka yobudala besikolo idinga ukufundisa umntwana ukuba enze umsebenzi wasekhaya ngaphandle koncedo nolawulo lwakho. Ungajonga umsebenzi ngexesha elithile, kodwa ungahlali lonke ngokuhlwa, echaza umsebenzi ngamnye kunye nokulawula inkqubo yokwenza. Uncedo lwakho lunokubakho kuphela xa umntwana esenza kube nzima ukusombulula umsebenzi othile. Kuyafana nangokuqokelelwa kwengqokelela yengxowa yosuku lwesikolo esilandelayo. Umntwana ufanele uqhubele phambili izinto eziyimfuneko zokufunda kwaye uyazi ukuba uyalibala into, oko luxanduva lwakhe, hayi yeyakho.
Nika umntwana ukhethoUmfanekiso u-André Santana.Umntwana kufuneka anike ithuba lokukhetha iimpahla ahambe kuyo. Kuphela kunika eli thuba lokunyaniseka. Ukuba uvumelekile ukwenza le nto, emva koko musa ukuhlelwa ngokhetho akukhethayo. Chaza ngaphambi kokukhethwa kwemozulu, ukubanda okanye kushushu esitratweni. Ndikuxelele kwangaphambili into oceba ukuya kuthi ga kwaye kutheni. Iya kuba yingcebiso ekukhetheni iimpahla.
Amalungelo akhoUmntwana kufuneka azi ukuba ufuna ixesha lesimahla, phumla, ubomi bomntu okanye ungaxakeka yinto ebalulekileyo. Umntwana kufuneka aqonde ukuba ixesha lakho kufuneka lihlonelwe kwaye linyamezele. Kodwa kufuneka wenze oku ukudibanisa ukuqonda. Ukuba umntwana uxakekile kubalulekile kuye, lawula imfuneko kwaye unike ixesha lokubulawa kwalo. Umzekelo, ukuba uyatsala, cela ukuba ugqibile kwaye undixelele into ekufuneka incedwe okanye incediswe ntoni. Kodwa musa uku-oda ukuhlehlisa iipensile kwaye ulandele ngokungxamisekileyo.
Ukudibana kunye nokucwangciswaUkuba ucwangcisiwe ukuya kwenye indawo nomntwana, kufuneka uchaze kwangaphambili ukuba ngexesha elithile kufanele ukuba lilungile. Mkhumbuze xa kuziwa nini. Nokuba kukhumbuza ixesha xa elinde umsebenzi wasekhaya. Emva koko umntwana kufuneka ahlehlise imicimbi yakhe yangoku kwaye athabathe imisebenzi ecwangcisiweyo.
Ukuphuhliswa kwenkululeko ngowona msebenzi ubalulekileyo wabazali. Kuya kufuneka unike umntwana ithuba lokubonisa ukusondela, ulwazi kunye nentshukumo. Vumela umntwana avakalise uthando, musa ukuyityeshela imibuzo yakhe kwaye ungayikhathaleli into, ungayigxeki ngendlela umntwana ayisebenzisa ngayo umbono wakhe, ukuva, izwi kunye nenye yeentshukumo zakhe zihlekisa ngayo. Ukuba isenzo saBantwana saphula imithetho, ngoko nika umzekelo kwaye uchaze ngaphandle kokugxeka isizathu sokuba ufuna ukwenza njengoko ubonakalisa.
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