Makhe sithethe malunga neempawu ezisi-7, kutheni ungakwazi ukufumana ubutyebi. Isenokungabi mnandi, kodwa kunjalo. Wonke umntu unemibuzo: "Ndingaphumelela njani," ndingayenza njani imali eninzi, "" ukuguqula ubomi ibe yinto emangalisayo. " Ndiza kukuxelela malunga neempawu ezisi-7 ezithintela ekufumaneni isityebi, ke ndikucebisa ukuba ususe ezi zenzo okanye imikhwa yokufezekisa injongo yakho.
Cinga ukuba ufanele ubutyebi nempumelelo. Ucinga ukuba usebenza kakhulu, chitha amandla amaninzi kunye nexesha kwaye ke kufanelekile ukuba ungaphezulu kunangoku. Ubona abantu abasebenza kancinci, kodwa bafumana ngakumbi kwaye uziva ngathi kufanelekile. Ukuba ucinga njalo-uyakuphulukana. Le yenye yeentlobo zokunciphisa ukucinga, okuthintela ngeenjongo ezinkulu.Xa ucinga ukuba ufanele into elungileyo, ngaphezulu kunokuba unayo ngoku luphawu lokuba kakhulu awuyi kushukuma kwindawo engekabikho. Ufanelwe kukuphumelela kakhulu, imali eninzi njengoko unayo ngoku. Ukuba uzalelwe kwintsapho engamahlwempu, okanye ingekho kwilo lizwe hayi, ngenxa yelo xesha, uthini ngalo? Kungcono ukuthatha nokwenza into, kunokuba uhlale kwaye ukhalaze ngekamva.
Ukuba ucinga: "Ndikufanele ukuba yonke into ebomini bam, kokulungileyo nokubi," le yindlela elungileyo eya kukunceda ukuqala indlela yakho yobutyebi. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, isiphumo sokufana kwethu, kwezi senzo sizenzileyo okanye esingazange sizenze ngaphambili.
Uthethelela ukuba kutheni ungaphumelelanga kutheni ungazityebi. Usola omnye umntu: abazali, inkqubo yemfundo, urhulumente okanye ezinye iimeko. Kuhlala kukho isizathu sokuba ungakwazi ukusebenza. Ngalo lonke ixesha ugxeka umntu okanye into ethile ezilalini zakho, awuzukuphumelela.
Ukuba ujonga ubomi bakho kwaye ubuze umbuzo-"endinqekezayo," uxanduva lwakho. Obona bantu baphumeleleyo bathatha imbopheleleko enkulu ukuba benze impazamo - ke le yimpazamo yabo, nokuba ayikho ngokuchanekileyo. Ukwazi ukuba andiphumelelanga okanye andizityebi kuphela ngenxa yam ngcono kunokuba ndibeke ityala omnye umntu. Ngapha koko, awunakubachaphazela abazali, urhulumente okanye eminye imicimbi, kodwa unokuziphembelela. Ungayitshintsha izenzo zakho, imikhwa kwaye oku kuya kukukhokelela kwisiphumo esifunekayo.
Abantu abazizityebi bafunda kubo bonke ubomi. Bafunda okona kulungileyo kwaye besoloko beziphucula. Ukuba ucinga: "Ndilungile kakhulu," ulwazi lwam, izakhono zanele. "Uya kuphulukana. Ulwazi lwakho kunye nezakhono zakho zikukhokelele kwinqanaba apho ukhoyo ngoku, kodwa ukuba ufuna ukuya phambili- kuya kufuneka ufunde umntu omtsha, kuya kufuneka utshintshe ukufezekisa iinjongo ezintsha, ezinkulu.Uninzi lwabantu aluzibekeli iinjongo ezimbini okanye lubeke ezinjalo ukuba azibanzi ngezenzo. Ukuba kuphela kwenjongo yakho kukufumana ubutyebi, oku kuyakwenzekanga. Ngenxa yokuba zizityebi, unokunceda kuphela abanye abantu. Ungajonga abantu abatyebileyo, babenento ebaluleke ngakumbi kunemali, kuba imali sisiphumo secala. Ukuba imali yeyona njongo yakho, uya kuzinikezela. Kodwa ukuba unenjongo yokwenza into entsha okanye ekufezekiseni iziphumo ezithile-kuya kukunceda woyise imiqobo kumkhondo wakho. Ke jonga iinjongo zakho, kufuneka zikhuthaze kwaye zikushukumisele phambili.
Ekuqaleni komendo wayo, phantse wonke umntu wenza yedwa kwaye kuthatha ixesha elininzi namandla. Kodwa ukuba ufuna ukuba sisityebi, ukufezekisa iinjongo ezinkulu - kuya kufuneka usebenze kwiqela, kuba awukwazi ukwenza yonke into ngokwakho. Ukuba awufundi ukumisela ubudlelwane nabantu, ungafundi ukuba yinkokeli, uya kuhlala ungusomashishini omnye kwaye ungaze ube sisityebi. Kuba abantu abazizityebi benza iqela kwaye kufuneka ufunde oku.Ucinga ukuba ufuna isicwangciso esifanelekileyo. Uyakoyika ukwenza impazamo kwaye ke uhleli cwangcisa indlela yokwenza ngcono, kodwa akukho zicwangciso zigqibeleleyo. Ewe kunjalo, kuya kufuneka ube nesicwangciso, kuya kuba sisidenge ukukholelwa ukuba uza kuphumelela. Kodwa uninzi lwabantu lucwangcisa kakhulu kwaye lwenza kancinci. Dacote yesicwangciso sethutyana, emva koko uqale ukwenza, uvavanyo kunye novavanyo kunye nempazamo uyakuqonda ukuba yintoni engcono kuwe.
Hayi ukuzithemba - utshaba lwakho olubi. Baninzi kakhulu abantu abanetalente, ngeengcinga ezilungileyo, kodwa abakholelwa kuzo, ngamandla abo, bacinga ukuba abayi kuphumelela. Ngenxa yokuba imeko yabo kunye noluntu ithi-kuya kufuneka ujongane nabanye. Ndiyacinga, abantu abaninzi babona abantu abazizityebi kwaye bephumelela bathetha kubo: "NDINGAQHELEKILEYO." Kodwa xa bekwinyani yokwenyani, bayaphoxeka kwaye becinga ukuba "andilunganga ngokwaneleyo." Kuya kufuneka ufumane ukuzithemba ngamandla ethu. Ndicinga ukuba eyona ndlela yokufumana ukholo kuwe kukunxibelelana nabantu abazithembileyo kwaye uhlale kude nabo bahlala bekhalaza. Ukuba awuzizo zininzi zabantu abazithembileyo kwisangqa, emva koko unokufunda iincwadi zokukhuthaza, amanqaku okanye ukubukela iividiyo eziza kukunceda ukhulelwe kuwe.