Imbiza yokuqala yentombi yethu yanika izalamane kwisiqingatha sonyaka ...
Ngaba abantwana bafanele bakwazi ukwenza ntoni ngaphandle kwedayili? Kuxhomekeka kwiphi kwaye uyokuthetha ukuba ngubani na lo mbandela, iimpendulo zinokwahluka kakhulu. ERussia, abantwana bathathwa ukuba badlulise embizeni endaweni yoko, kwaye eSpain, umzekelo, kuthathwa ngokubaluleka kokuba abantwana bafundise ukusebenzisa imbiza ekuqaleni kwesikolo (eneminyaka emithathu). Oku kungenxa yokuba kwizikolo ezininzi zikawonke-wonke akukho ndawo ye-nanny, ethetha ukunxiba i-akhawunti yomntwana emanzi ukuba abazali bafuna umsebenzi okanye ekhaya kwiimeko ezinjalo. Kukho amazwe apho iidayinda zingangxami kwaphela. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ufumana amanqaku anokuba "ngelishwa" abantwana baseBritani bahamba kwiidlwana ukuya kwiminyaka emi-6. Iindlela ezahlukeneyo, ulwazi oluphikisanayo, iimbambano ezingapheliyo. Kodwa kuyavakala ngakumbi imbono yokuba bonke abantwana bahlukile, ngamnye unesiphene sophuhliso. Kwaye akukho nye "ilungelo" lesakhono esinye okanye esinye. Iingcali ziyayiqonda le nto, kodwa uMamam kufuneka alwe noluvo loluntu, ucalucalulo kunye noloyiko lwabo. Funda ukukholelwa wena nomntwana wakho. Malunga noku-mdala, kodwa akaphulukane nembonakalo kaJulian Petobyanya.
Uya kwigumbi lokunxiba yeqela le-yaser, kwaye apho kwiminyango yeekhabhathi, ezinje ngeeflegi zokunikezela ngokupheleleyo phambi kwale mdala kunye neendibano ezizeleyo zehlabathi, ezixhonywe tights ze-tight. Kwaye imvakalelo yokudideka ngokupheleleyo, ngokungathi, awunaxesha lokubaleka uye kwimbiza, iphikisana i-zuza evuthayo emilenzeni entloko.
Unyana wam wayewokuqala, kwaye ndandisemncinci kwaye ndinoxanduva kakhulu. Kubonakala ngathi kum qho usuku oluphoselweyo, kodwa yintoni le iyure, iyure okanye umzuzu, engachithiweyo kuphuhliso oluqhubekayo lomntwana lusenokuba njalo.
Ukususela kwiinyanga ezintathu ndaqhubeka nomntwana ngaphezulu kwe-pelvis, ndivelisa i-Ectures yeMeko enyangekiyo kwizandi ze "ISP Pes". Ukususela kwiinyanga ezintandathu, ndayityala kwimbiza kwiwotshi, ndilinde iziphumo ezixabisekileyo kwaye ndineqhayiya njengokuphumelela kwe-Nobel Pauze. Ndothusa ngothuso ndivela kwi-caustic Protes yomkhwekazi-umkhwekazi, ndaprofeta nonyana wam enxibe iidenari ezingaphantsi kweminyaka emihlanu kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kulandelwa ngokungenasifo. Ndazitsalela nomntwana. Andizukulwa, yonke into elahlekileyo ibeka umnqamlezo njengomama.
Kodwa bekukho, kuba kukho iziphumo! Kwiminyaka enesiqingatha, unyana wayesazi ngokugqibeleleyo ukuba yayiyimbiza kwaye uyisebenzisa njani ngenjongo yayo. Kwiminyaka emibini, umanzi omanzi ngendlela yebhulukhwe emanzi wayesiba ngaphantsi kwaye engaphantsi. Zimbini kwaye zimbini. Iminyaka yobugqi. Kwezi zinto, unyana wagqibela ecwangciswe ebusuku ngokubhukuda, nendlela yokuchitha - emva kosuku kwakungekho mfuneko yokuba ndincwine kwaye ndingenelele kwi-insulvevecy yam.
Kwiminyaka elishumi kamva, intombi yam izalwe. Ndaba mdala, ndicocekile kwaye ndonwabile. Ndifundile ukuphendula ekugqibeleni kunye nemibuzo malunga nokuba intombazana yam iceba ukunxiba i-diaper.
Ndikwibali lomyeni malunga nabanye abantu abaqhelekileyo abathandana nabo esikolweni ukucela imbiza, banokuncuma nje ukuba uLogaritism ubala, andizivezi.
Imbiza yokuqala enentombi yam yazisa izalamane kwisiqingatha sonyaka. Obudala, baxela ngesipho sabo, intombazana eyenzekileyo kufuneka ihlale embizeni! Iingcinga malunga nokuba yintoni na le ntombazana yam, andizange ndiyemke, kwaye ndaphosa imbiza kwithontsi, apho wayenza ngokukhuselekileyo kwelomomotive, emva koko inkosazana yenkosazana.
Kwaye ngenye imini, ukuhamba nentombi yetoy yetoy, kwenye yeeracks esayibonayo. Imbiza ebomvu entle, ifana netrone yasebukhosini. Samkhwelisa ngaphandle kokujonga ixabiso, kwaye sathwalwa ekuphunyezweni njengobutyebi, kubonakala ngathi. Ekhaya intombi yaqalisa ukulawula. Kangangonyaka onesiqingatha, wayelungile kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezifundwayo ukuba ithini imbiza efunekayo kunye nendlela yokuyisebenzisa. Kwiminyaka emibini silibale ngokupheleleyo ngeedayinti, kwaye malunga nento yokuba ngamagama abantu ababandezelekileyo babeza kunxiba phambi komtshato. Kwaye enye ingcinga ayizange indinike uxolo- Ngaba yayilula kangako?
Iminyaka elishumi ndidinga ukuthatha iNyaniso elula-yonke into lixesha lakho. Kwaye ndidanile ngonyana ngenxa yomnqweno osisiyatha wokuthimba inqambi. Kwisiqingatha sonyaka kufuneka uhlale phantsi, uye enyakeni, ukuthetha nesiqingatha. Kutheni usiqonda into yokuba umntwana eyindalo yonke ngemithetho yakhe, weza kum kangaka? Kuyabonakala ukuba, ngesizathu esinye. Yonke into inexesha layo.