Ehlabathini, apho babini kuphela, kweso sithuba, apho siphefumlela ngokulula, ukuhlala ngokuzolileyo, khona, apho yonke into isebenza khona, kukho izitshixo zegolide-izitshixo kunye namagama athambileyo.
Ukukhetha amagama akho kunye nabathandekayo babo, sihlala sityala kakhulu kubo, nokuba silula kakhulu, lonke uthando nokuzinikela kwethu kuzinikelo ngqo kulowo singabathandekayo kuthi.
Iingcali zengqondo zixoxa ukuba amagama athambileyo ayakwazi ukwenza indawo eninzi ebizwa ngokuba "siyinyibilikisile le nguqulelo ivela" kuwe ".
Owu, ukuba besiyazi nje amandla okwenyani lwamagama athanda kakhulu! Mhlawumbi, siya kubasebenzisa rhoqo. Kutheni unganikezeli kwakhona imvakalelo yokhuseleko kunye nothando olungenamiqathango nomntu ofanele?
Amagama entiyo, abhengezwe ngamadoda, ayahlukile kumazwi anyuliweyo ngabafazi kumadoda. Ngaba abafazi bathetha rhoqo? Kunokwenzeka ukuba akukho ngu-ewe. Abasetyhini kube lula ukuthatha igama elinye kuphela ukusuka kuluhlu olukhulu kwaye bakhokelwa ngabo, bahlukane nendoda okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, ukulila, kuxhomekeka kwimeko. Kuxhomekeka kwimeko.
Kukho amagama anqatshelweyo engafanele axelele umntu ukuba awufuni kuphulukana nayo.
- Umzekelo, akufanele ube mbi kwimvakalelo yayo kwaye uyahluka.
- Inkangeleko yamagqabantshintshi kufuneka ilumkele kakhulu. Nangona ukukhula nobunzima kunokutshiwo (phezulu, kunomtsalane, ekubhekiswa).
Iya kuthathelwa ingqalelo ngokungachanekanga kwaye i-Coarde icekeceke, ifuduse inomdla kwintambo ezahlukileyo. Esebenzisa "Uthando lwam, ulonwabo lwam, ubomi bam, ufanele ukukhunjulwa ukuba amabinza azinzileyo angenzi iimvakalelo ezinokubakho kwisini esahlukileyo.
Kukho neenkcazo ezibizwa ngokuba "zithambile". Kunye nezo kufuneka nicoceke ngakumbi, azisoloko zamkelekile, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha zenza (kodwa ngamanye amaxesha zenza (zihamba, zipholile, zinengqondo, zipholile, zibuthathaka, zibuthathaka, zibuthathaka, zibuthathaka).
Ndinokufuna ukuthetha ngantoni?
I-nevers ngala manenekazi akholelwa ukuba isisa ngokunxulumene nomgangatho oqinileyo ayifanelekanga. Ichazwe ngamagama, iya kuba yeyedwa. Indoda iva ukuba unjani na umntu ofanelekileyo. Amagama akamameli nje nje, ehlengahlengiswa ngokuzinzileyo kwaye wakhiwa kwakhona.
Unokuthetha ngokukhuselekileyo malunga nohlobo lwakho onyuliweyo kunye nokuziphatha, ugxininisa ukubakho kokuziphatha, ubukho bengcambu kunye nendlela yokuphila elungileyo (inkanuko, ukungazi, ukungakwazi, ukungaseli).
Ukongeza i-epitohets yeminyaka yobudala (eqinile, kwiminyaka).
Kuya kuba mnandi ukuva amehlo abantu ancoma (i-DEURE, ikhule, inomdla, inomtsalane, ihleli, ingalibalekiyo, engalibalekiyo, engalibalekiyo, engalibalekiyo, engalibalekiyo, engalibalekiyo, engalibalekiyo.
Kumntu opheleleyo, kunokutshiwo ukuba yinto eninzi, ezemidlalo, intle, intle, engenasimo, engenasimo. Kwaye nganye iphawulwa ngokukodwa , i-elastic, iqiniswe), izandla kunye neminwe (igolide, eyomeleleyo, ethambileyo), imilenze (ichanekile, i-Elastic), i-elastic).
Umntu ufanele ingqalelo ekhethekileyo. Yinto oyithandayo, inkalipho, intle, inobubele kwaye ingalibaleki i-orlin, iprofayili yaseRoma. Ungatsho ngolusu kangangokuba lucocekile, olugudileyo kwaye lunyikima. Ukupheka, ewe, iHollywood, engalibalekiyo, echwayitileyo, enomtsalane, omangalisayo kunye noncumo.
I-Velvet, ingene, ichithwe, ichithwe, ilizwi elifudumeleyo, eyodwa kwaye iphumle, ihamba neengcinga zakho. Nemilebe! Bakhaba ntoni kwaye kwaye ngemvakalelo! Uyathanda iShebkt icocekile, igudileyo, i-wavy kwaye iyonwabele into ebalaseleyo, enqwenelekayo, eyonwabisayo nengaziwayo.
Andifuni ukuthetha ngamanani ophindayo. Akukho mithetho icacileyo nayo yonke. Eyona nto iphambili kukunika uthando ngala magama.
Ibhinqa ngalinye limenza umntu wakhe ngokwakhe - okokuqala kwiingcinga zakhe nentliziyo yakhe, aze aqhubeke ebomini, enyanisweni.
Umbhali-Asya Novikova
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