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Wonke umntu wayenemvakalelo yokungoneliseki kubomi bakhe, isikhundla sakhe kuyo kwaye naye. Umntu ngamnye ubeke ixesha elide: "Yonke into, ukusukela ngoMvulo kufuneka uqale ubomi obutsha!" Kodwa ngoMvulo ufike, kwaye akukho bubomi obutsha ...
Ukuba usenezinto zokuba u-"olindile ubomi" akufuneki ukuba aqhubeke - ngokungachanekanga kwaye angonwabi, aphumelele kwaye atshintshe iipeyinti ezintsha, iimpembelelo, ezintlanganisweni kwaye zinomdla Abantu apha ziingcebiso ezilula ngokusekwe kumava akho.
1. Ungacingi malunga nokubi, kulungile kuphela
Ngokuphathelele ukucinga okuqinisekileyo awazi ukuba ixesha lethu kuphela ngamavila, kodwa isebenza ngokwenene! Kwaye ayinamsebenzi, uyakholelwa kuyo okanye hayi - amandla engcinga enjalo ubuncinci inika ithemba, kwaye ithemba linika amandla ukuqhubela phambili. Ngaphandle kokholo, mabangaphumeleli, kodwa ubuncinci ngenxa yempumelelo - akufuneki uqale. Uphinda uqiniseke ukuba akunakwenzeka ukutshintsha nantoni na kwaye kufuneka waneliseke ziyintoni; Ukongeza kwithemba lobomi bakho, ushiya iwindow evulekileyo kummangaliso, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kwenzeke kuwe, kwaye ke ukukhanya kwethemba ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kuqhekeza idangatye eliqaqambileyo - ngokuqinisekileyo yonke into ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuphumelela! Ewe ngoku: "Kufuneka sifunde ukulinda, kufuneka uzole kwaye unenkani ..."2. Susa umxholo "wobuvila" kunye "noloyiko" ebomini bakho
Ivila-kuba akunakwenzeka ukutshintsha ubomi bakho ukuze ube ngcono ngombono wokucinga, kuyacaca! Utshintsho zizenzo, makungasoloko zilungisa, zingasoloko ziphumelela - akukho nto, ibhola yebhola yebhasikithi ikwaninzi malunga nebhasikithi ye-ARC ngaphambi kokuba uwele kuyo. Kodwa indlela eya empumeleni, nokuba yeyiphi na into ocinga ngayo, ihlala ililele kumanyathelo nakwizenzo. Kwaye okuphela komgangatho wokwanela kwezenzo kukungazithandi ukuba ndenze yonke into exhomekeke kum.
Uloyiko. "Indlela emide iqala ngenyathelo elinye elincinci," kodwa eli linyathelo lokuqala kwaye soyika ukwenza. Soyika utshintsho olwaza kubandakanywa, kuba ngamnye kuthi wayenamava angaphumelelanga; Siyoyika ukuphulukana nantoni "umsebenzi onganyamezelekiyo, ngaphandle kwefolda ye-mammy" ...
Ewe, uphose! Ngaba le nto ingaba wonwabile ?! Ngaba kunjalo? Ngokwenene? Ke kutheni uyifunda ?! Ke, ukuba yonke into ejikelezayo i-grey iye yadiliza kwaye inyanzelekile, kwaye itshintshe indlela ofuna ngayo! Kodwa woyikisa, kuba awazi ukuba yintoni eza kuphuma kuyo yonke le nto, kwaye ngequbuliso iya kuba mbi ngakumbi ... kwaye kwinto yokuba kunzima kwaye nokuzithemba, kodwa! Ngokuzola ekucingeni nasekukhawulezeni nasekuthandeni nasekuhlaleni, i-buoy efanayo, njengobomi bemidla-yoyikisa ...
3. "Ukuba akundim, ngubani ?!" "" "
Eli binzana lifutshane sisibhengezo sobomi babo kunye nekamva labo, kuba akukho mntu ngaphandle kwethu uxanduva lwalo. Zonke iimeko, abantu, iziganeko ezenzekayo kuthi zinokusingela nje ukuba samkele izigqibo ezithile, kodwa sihlala sinethuba lokukhetha! Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha iimeko zisetwe phakathi komnyama kwaye zimhlophe, kodwa kukho ubuninzi beminye imibala kunye nemithunzi!Ukukhetha phakathi komnyama nabamhlophe kukukhetha umntu ongenasimahla, kuyabekwa ngaphandle, kukukhetha inkunzi yenkomo, ekhokelele ekubulaweni okufa. Umntu wasimahla ngokwakhe uthatha isigqibo sokuba yeyiphi imibala yokupeyinta ubomi babo, kwaye phakathi komnyama nomhlophe khetha i-purple kumtya obomvu. Kodwa koku kufuneka ube nesibindi ...
Yonke imihla, mhlawumbi iyure nganye ekufuneka siyenzile, kwaye nokuba ziziphi iimeko eziya kuthi zithande, ziluxanduva lwento nganye, kwisigqibo ngasinye, kwaye ekugqibeleni, kwaye ubomi bethu bulele Kuphela kuthi! Mhlawumbi kuvakala izoyikiso, kodwa ukuba ucinga ngayo, kunye noxanduva lomntu wonke, nelona nqanaba lincinci, kuzo zonke izigqibo, likwanika inkululeko enkulu! Le, mhlawumbi inkululeko yokususa kuthi ayinakwenzeka - ukhetho!
Kwaye ukuba awenzi olu khetho, ke yenzelwe wena! Kwaye emva kwayo yonke loo nto, nokuba ukhetho lwenziwe kuwe, oku kukhetho lwakho - ukunika umntu ilungelo lokucombulula ikamva lakho. Kodwa ke ubala ntoni? Yintoni owahluke ngayo kwinkunzi yenkomo, etsalela intambo ekuxhelweni njengoMalume, evumela ngokwakhe izigqibo?
Ukuba ngenye imini uya kungena ngale ngcinga, akukho namnye umntu oya kuze akwazi ukunyanzela ukuthanda kwakho, nakwinkunzi yenkomo ethobelayo uya kujika uMdali wobomi bakho!
4. Ukuba umsebenzi usiwe - kufuneka ugqitywe!
Ukulibaziseka xa umsebenzi ukhokelela ekudalweni kwendlela yokuqala, oya kuyisebenzisa ngakumbi kwaye rhoqo, kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe uzifumanele ukuba uphume kuwo. Ukuhamba ukuya kwinjongo, nokuba yeyiphi na, ngamanyathelo ekhonkrithi kwigumbi elikhethiweyo. Ngaphandle kokubenza, awusoze ufikelele kwinjongo.
Ngapha koko, ayinzima ngakumbi kunokuba, umzekelo, ukuzifundisa ukuhlamba iibhutsi kwikhaya le-Parrish - umkhwa nje. Iiveki ezimbalwa zokuqala kufuneka zilawulwe, zikhumbuze malunga nayo, emva koko uye wenza "kumatshini." Kodwa iziphumo zinokunika okumangalisayo! IMathematics elula: Ukuba yonke imihla yenza ukuba ubomi bakho bube ngcono nge-1%, emva koko emva kweentsuku ezili-100 ...
5. Hayi "kwaye ukuba ..." kwaye "Kuthekani Ukuba ..."
Ukusuka ekuchitheni okokuqala ebuntwaneni, sinomdla wokucinga ngemiphumo yezenzo zabo, kwaye le nto kanye, ihlala ivumela ukuqhubela phambili! Ukuhambisa imifanekiso yeziphumo ezinokubakho, kwisiqingatha samatyala sicinga ngesiphumo esibi, kodwa le yenye yenye yeendlela ezinokwenzeka!
Kuyimfuneko ukuba ufunde ukuba ungabi nakrelekrele njani, oko kukuthi, ngokungakhathali nayiphi na impikiswano yengqondo, kuba "kuphela abo bathatha iinzame ezingekhoyo"! Oku akuthethi ukuba ukuba ufikile umbono wokuvula ishishini lakho, kufuneka uyeke umsebenzi wam, thumela umqeshi kude kwaye ubaleke kwi-IP. Kodwa xa isigqibo samkelwe kwaye isicwangciso sentshukumo sicacile, akunakwenzeka ukuba simamele ingqondo - wawenza umsebenzi wakhe. Ngoku uya kuphazamisa kuphela. Uya kuthi azobe imifanekiso yokusilela kunye nazo zonke iintlobo zeziphumo ezibi, ngoko jonga isiqendu 1.
Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu, yiba nesibindi sokumamela intliziyo yakho, kuba ekugqibeleni yonke into engalulinganisi ebomini, sitshintsha ukuze siziva sonwabile. Kwaye imeko yolonwabo ayisosizathu sesizathu ...
"Cwaka ukuba lula kakhulu. Yonwaba-kunzima kwaye uphelile! " - I-TOR YORK, ENGCINGIN COMULKELANI, I-VACALIST kunye neGuitarist yeqela le-radioad.
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