"Uzinyule mna! Nantsi i-terpi ngoku!
Umfanekiso wehlabathi womama wakho usesenokwenzeka: usapho kufuneka lusindise nangayiphi na indleko, ngakumbi abantwana. Izizathu zeCawa zoqhawulo-mtshato zisetyenziselwa ukunxila okanye ubundlobongela kwiqabane. Ukungcatsa, okanye isimo sengqondo sokuqina malunga nemisebenzi yabazali, okanye ukungabikho kokuhloniphana ngokudibeneyo kuye kumilo kwi-tunsions yoluntu.
Intsapho ipho apho onke-amaqabane, abantwana - kufuneka bakhululeke. Ewe kunjalo, kukho amaxesha anzima ebomini bosapho, kodwa ukuba le nto ihleli ihleli, umonde wandisa ukuqaqanjelwa.
"Ndimdala, ndiyazi ngcono!""Ubulumko abusoloko bubudala, ngamanye amaxesha omnye uza enye. Kuhlala kukhona umntu omdala wokufundisa ubomi.
Ngapha koko, ekusombululeni omnye okanye omnye umbuzo, eyona ndima iphambili ayidlalanga, kodwa amava - izakhono kunye nolwazi. Ngapha koko, abazali baphila nobomi obunjalo njengawe (banayo imikhwa yabo, inkqubo).
Umama wakho usenokuba unexhala ngawe. Ucinga ukuba indoda yakho ayizivanga ngawe, kuba ayiboneleli ukuya kwi-ofisi yerejista, kwaye ngalo naliphi na ithuba, yenza isiphatho. Mcacisele ukuba imeko yemicimbi ilungele wena nobabini. Olo lo mfazi wale mihla akanzima ukufumana isiqingatha sesibini. Ukuba ixhalabile ngombuzo wezinto ezibonakalayo, ke kunokwenzeka ukuba uzole umzali, uxelele ubunini belinganayo.
"Uthule, kodwa uyenze ngendlela yakho!"NgokukaMama, umhlaba onqabileyo ungcono kunengxabano elungileyo. Ke ngoko, ucebisa ukuba "ubonise ubulumko bamabhinqa kunye nokunganyanzeli ukuxabana ngentanda yakho." Ngapha koko, xa iba kukuchasana, kungcono ukungathethi cwaka kwaye ungalilindeli indawo yokubila xa imbambano inokukhula ibe sisikhubekiso kwaye sifumane ubudlelwane.
Kwelinye icala, cwaka kwaye wenze ngendlela yayo-sisisenzo esihle kakhulu. Akunakwenzeka ukuba iqabane lakho liya kuthanda ukuba uthatha isigqibo malunga nemibuzo yosapho malunga nomqolo wakhe. Umtshato okanye ulwalamano olusisigxina luhlala lusebenzisana, apho wonke umsebenzi odibeneyo uhlala uxoxa kwaye wenza isigqibo kunye.
Imeko yobomi babazali bakho ijongeka ngolu hlobo: Ukufumana imfundo ephezulu, fumana umsebenzi kwi-intanethi (apho usebenzele umhlala-phantsi), utshatele wazala abantwana (ngokukhethekileyo ezimbini). Nayiphi na inkululeko ithathwa njengendawo yokungangqinelani phakathi kwemigangatho eyamkelekileyo yeSoviet. Kwakukho irhafu yokufumana umntwana njengesigculelo sokuba ummi uhlala ngolonwabo, kwaye akafuni ukwakha ibutho loluntu njengento yonke.
Emhlabeni wanamhlanje, ngethamsanqa, yaba sisiko ukucinga ngolonwabo lobuqu. Kwaye ukuba wanelisekile ukuba akanamntwana, ungabinayo isitampu kwincwadana yokundwendwela, wakhe umsebenzi kwaye uthenge ukhenketho lwehlabathi-yehlabathi endaweni yendawo yokuhlala.