Intembelo sisiseko sobudlelwane obubalulekileyo. Kodwa xa ukuthembela ukungcatsha, emva koko baphuphuma isiseko. Sinika uloyiko kumntu wokuthemba kwaye siphinde sifumane imvakalelo yentlungu enokufika ukuba kuya kuthembela. Kwaye usondele umntu entliziyweni, owomeleleyo kwintlungu yokungcatshwa kwakhe.
Ungaphinda uyithembe. Kodwa intembeko iya kuba sisisombululo sakho esiya kufuneka sithathe eyakho. Kwaye kwangaxeshanye, akukho siqinisekiso. Ukufunda nje ukubathemba abantu emva kokungcatshwa, kuya kufuneka buthathaka. Akulula, kodwa mhlawumbi.
Yintoni onokuyinikela ingqalelo ekufundeni ukubathemba abantu kwakhona
Yakha iindonga ezikhuselayo - ayilunganga kwaye ayilunganga. Kodwa iindonga ezikhuselayo emva kokuba uzifihle nantoni na, ungahluleli iimvakalelo ezintle nezingahambi kakuhle. Iindonga zingaqinisekiswa ngokungcatshwa okutsha. Kodwa noza kutshaya kude nothando kunye nonxibelelwano. Thetha nabantu onokuthi uthembele ngokwenyani. Ke uya kuphinda uvakalelwe kukuba kukho ukuthembela ebomini.
Funda ukuthemba uluvo lwakho. Into yokuba uthembele umntu, kodwa lo mntu wangcatsa kwaye wabangela ukuba ubume okanye ubukhole isigqibo sokumthemba. Ngokusekwe kwenye okanye kwanovavanyo olubi kakhulu, akufuneki ukuba uthandabuze bonke abantu okanye kwizisombululo zakho.
Ngobomi bakho, ngokungathandabuzekiyo, kuninzi okulungileyo. Ke wenze unyulo oluhle kakhulu obazise iziphumo ezintle. Jonga ukuba bangaphi abantu abaqhelekileyo. Unokubakho, uninzi lwazo lwalugweba ukuthembana kwakho, kwaye, oko kuthetha ukuba uyithembile ngaphandle kwalilize.
Inzulu. Kodwa uzenzelisekise izibophelelo zethu. Awunoxanduva lokungcatsha komnye umntu. Ewe, ezona njongo zakho zintle. Makufane nokuba yimfuneko.
Inkqubo yentlungu kufuneka isindile. Makuyeke iinyembezi, umsindo, idini, kodwa le mvakalelo kufuneka iphoswe ngokwayo. Kulusizi kukho rhoqo amanqanaba amahlanu: ukukhanyela, ingqumbo, ukuxoxa, uxinzelelo nokwamkelwa komntwana abengowomnye umntu. Kwaye kuya kufuneka bahambe. Kwaye kuphela ogqibayo ukuba lingakanani ixesha eliza kuthatha.
Indima yexhoba inobuqili. Kufanelekile ukuba uqalise ukuziva kunjalo, ngokungathi ungasafuni ukuthetha naye. Ukuze ungathatheli indima yexhoba, kufuneka uyiqwalasele imeko kumacala omabini, kwaye ungabi natyala kuphela umntu okunike yona. Mhlawumbi kwenye indawo obuthathaka okanye yayivulekile kakhulu, eyakhokelela ekungcatsha. Qhelana zonke iindlela onokukhetha kuzo.
Ukuba umnike umntu, akufuneki unciphise ulindelo lwakho. Sukukhuthaza ukukhohlisa kwangaphambili okanye ukunganyaniseki kumntu omtsha. Nawuphi na umhlobo omtsha unokuyichola imida yayo yokuthembana kunye nokungcatsha. Mazise ukuba awuyinyamezeli imiphefumlo yabo. Ke umhlobo wakho uya kuyiqonda imida yokuvumela, kwaye uya kwazi ukuba iimeko zakho zokuzithemba zicacile.
Cinga malunga nokuba buza kubakho ubomi ngaphandle kokuthemba. Ayiyi kuba yindawo yokuzola, unxibelelwano nothando. Mhlawumbi esona sizathu sibalaseleyo sokuqalisa ukuthembana kwakhona yile ndlela.
Ngaphandle kobunzima, asinakuze siwahlonele amaxesha amnandi. Ke ngoko, kungcono ukuhlala uvulekile kwaye uthembele kwanaphambi kokuba ungcatshwe. Yiba nje uzolile kancinci kwiTrust. Kungcono ukufunda ukuthemba umntu omtsha ngokuthe ngcembe.
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