Ukukhathalela impilo kunye nenkxaso omnye komnye
Xa intombi eneminyaka emithandathu ubudala yabuza uShangell's Shangell yase-Atlanta malunga nokuthiya ukuya esikhathini, ubuntshatsheli ekuqaleni yayididekile. Ngaba kufanelekile ukuba uqale ngentombazana "ebaluleke kakhulu" ngalo mxholo okanye kwangcono ukudibana nje? Wakhetha ukhetho lokuqala.
"Okwalo mzuzu ndaye ndaqonda ukuba asazi ukuba singathetha njani nabantwana malunga nomjikelo wokuya esikhathini. Sisaya kwivenkile ethengisa ukutya ukuze sithenge i-tampons kunye neegesi, kwaye ibhokisi ene-gasket ithemba, "watsho lo mfazi ngodliwanondlebe namhla.
Ewe, uninzi luneentloni zokuthetha ngokuvakalayo malunga nokuya esikhathini, kuba le nkqubo yemilingo iye yahlulwa kwinkulungwane. Kwiinkcubeko ezahlukeneyo, izithintelo ezithile zamiswa ngabafazi ngexesha "imihla ebalulekileyo" - umzekelo, kwakunqatshelwe ukuya kwicawe ngeli xesha.
Abafazi abaninzi bafumana amava amabi kakhulu kumjikelo wokuqala wokuya esikhathini kuba akukho mntu wayethetha ukuya esikhathini ngaphambili. Babezazi nantoni na ngomzimba wabo.
Ke ngoko, wagqiba kwelokuba athathe inyathelo lokuqala ezandleni zabo kwaye alungelelanise umsitho wonyaka obizwa ngokuba "yiholide yokuya esikhathini", apho oogqirha kunye noogqirha bezengqondo bathetha ukuya esikhathini kunye nempilo yamantombazana. Enye yeebhloko, njengommiselo, ibhekiswe ngqo kumantombazana ngokwawo, kwaye omnye ngabazali babo.
Nge-28 kaFebruwari 2021, uKisell uza kubamba "iholide yokuya esikhathini" kwifomathi ye-intanethi ngenxa yobhubhane. Ukongeza kwiNkqubo yeNgxoxo, ikwacwangcise ingxowa-mali eyodwa yamantombazana kunye nabasetyhini abangenamali kwiimveliso zempilo. Ngenxa yokunqongophala kwemali kwi-tampons, i-gamplet kunye nezitya zokuya esikhathini, abanye abafundi kufuneka baphoswe esikolweni kwezi ntsuku. Ngexesha lobhubhane, imeko iye yaba mandundu kuphela. Ngokutsho kophando olwenziwe ngamaxesha onke, usapho lwesithathu lwe-AMERICA luloyika ukuba akasayi kuba nemali eyaneleyo kwiimveliso ezicocekileyo zeentombi.
Kulo nyaka, u-Hausewell wafumana iminikelo engaphezulu kunale minyaka mibini idlulileyo. "Kwiveki yokuqala, ukutshintshwa kwemali kwathunyelwa kuthi, kunye neepasile, ezazipakisha iipads kunye neetampokolo, utshilo. Ngenxa yoko, kwakunzima kakhulu ukufumana inani elaneleyo lemibutho e-Atlanta, eyayiza kukulungele ukwamkela inani le-hyjine kunye nokusasaza iimfuno. Ke i-Hausewell kwafuneka ithumele iipasile kwimibutho eqhutywa ngamanye amazwe - eTexas naseCarfornia.
I-Bousell inethemba lokuba "iholide yokuya esikhathini" iya kuba ngabazali indawo yokuqala yencoko yabantwana malunga nokuya esikhathini, ukuvuthwa ngokwesondo, impilo, ucoceko. Iintombi zakhe i-Comarin ngoku ineminyaka eli-8 ubudala, kwaye ngelixa ingekaqali ukuya esikhathini. Kodwa uyayazi ngqo ukuba yintoni, kwaye ukuba unokusoloko exoxa nonina nonina.
Ewe kunjalo, eli asiloxesha elinye, kukubuyela rhoqo kwincoko nomntwana wakho malunga nokuya esikhathini kule minyaka ilishumi izayo. Amantombazana amaninzi afunda ukusebenzisa ii-tampons ngomyalelo omncinci ngaphakathi kwebhokisi kwaye aneentloni. Andifuni ukuba intombi yam iqhubeke kule ndlela.
Imbali yeBoswell yaphinda ikhumbuza indlela ukuba ngumzali etshintsha ngayo kwihlabathi lanamhlanje. Kwaye ukuba incoko evulekileyo nentombi evulekileyo malunga nokuya esikhathini kuyimfuneko ukuze abalungiselele ngokwaneleyo ukuze bakwazi ukuzitshintsha, kuya kufuneka baphile kwimizimba yabo.
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