Kutheni ndingaziva ngaphambili?
Isibakala sokuba abanye abantwana banovelwano kakhulu, namhlanje bathetha kakhulu. Isibakala sokuba le asiyongxaki, hayi ubugqwetha, hayi iphosakele ngabazali, kodwa yinto nje yomntwana ekufuneka bafunde ukuba baphile. Akulula, kwaye neempawu zethu zenze uhlengahlengiso lwazo. Ugqirha wezengqondo wabantwana kunye noMama Leli Tarasevich unoluhlu olupheleleyo lwamanqaku kwesi sihloko. Namhlanje siphinda inqaku elivela kum kumjikelo, apho uLelia achaze indlela yokujongana nale nto siyasebenza naphantsi kohlobo olubuthathaka kakhulu abantu.
Xa ndafumanisa ukuba unyana wam unovelwano kakhulu, ixesha elide kutyeshelwa ngokucinga, kutheni ndingaziva ngaphambili? Khange ndiqonde, ayizange ifundwe, izame ukubeka uxinzelelo ... Kutheni le nto ndingenalo olo nyani lo? Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kufuneka kubekho imfuza, iiorenji kukho zonke iintlobo, iiorenji ... kodwa hayi. Sahlukile, kwaye mhlawumbi sinombulelo kuThixo.
Kumanqaku alandelayo, siza kuthetha malunga nento inzondelelo kunye nemimandla emngcipheko enezinto ezibuthathaka kakhulu abazali, kwaye ezibuthathaka kakhulu. Ndikholelwe, kwimeko nganye kukho izibonelelo. Ndikucebisa ukuba ufunde malunga nezo kwaye abanye bafumane umahluko ongakumbi wokukhuliswa komntwana wakho.
Ukuqala, ndicebisa ukuba uthathe isigqibo sokuba yeyiphi inkampu yokujoyina. Ke, uvavanyo lombhali ofanayo uElaine Airon kubantu abadala. Ukuba ubuncinci ewe, emva koko sibeka i-dibanisa. Kwaye kuphela ukuba ayingebi, nxiba.
-Ndiphawula utshintsho olwenziweyo kwindawo yam. -Imozulu yabanye abantu iyandichaphazela. -Ndinobuthathaka kakhulu kwintlungu. - Emva kosuku olunzima, kufuneka ndilale ebhedini, kwigumbi elimnyama, apho ndinokuba ndedwa kwaye ndibuyisele imikhosi. -Ndinobuthathaka kakhulu kwi-caffeine. -Ndikhawuleza ndadinwa izibane eziqaqambileyo, ivumba eliqinileyo, amalaphu amagqabi okanye izandi ezinkulu. -Ndinobomi obunzulu kakhulu nogxunyeneyo. -Ndiziva ndingakhululekanga kwindawo enengxolo. -Ndibuyela ngokunzulu i-ART, kuMculo othile. -Ndingumntu onesazela. -Kulula ukoyikisa. -Ndinexhala lokuba ndifuna ukwenza okuninzi ngexesha elifutshane. Xa abantu bengakhululekanga, bahlala ndisazi ukuba mandenze ntoni ukunciphisa ukungasebenzi kwabo (umzekelo, ukutshintsha ukukhanya okanye ukutshintshwa). -Ndicaphukisiwe xa abantu bezama ukuxhoma izinto ezininzi kum ngexesha elinye. -Ndizama kakhulu ukuphepha iimpazamo kwaye ungakulibali nantoni na. - Ndizama ukuphepha ukuphepha iifilimu zefilimu kunye neenkqubo zikamabonwakude. -Ndididekile kakhulu xa kukho izinto ezininzi. -Ndicaphuka ngotshintsho ebomini. -Ndiqaphela kwaye ndonwabela ivumba elicekeceke kwaye linencasa, izandi, izinto zobugcisa. - Phakathi kwezinto zam zokuphambili yintlangano yobomi, ethintela ukonakalisa kunye nezizathu. -Ke kufuneka ndenze into, kwaye umntu undijongile, ndisoyika kakhulu kwaye ndinexhala lokuba ndenze into ebi kakhulu kunokuba iyenza kwezinye iimeko. "Xa ndandisengumntwana, abazali bam bakatitshala bandigqala kum okanye ndithobekile."
Ukuba uphendule "ewe" okanye ngaphezulu amaxesha, sibhekisa kubantu abanobuthathaka kakhulu.
Ukuba kancinane, ke kum, kum, ityholo elingacocekanga, 8.
Ewe, bangakanani amanqaku?