Ungaba ngumhlobo olungileyo

Abahlobo babaluleke kakhulu ebomini bethu. Abanye babo baya kungena okwethutyana, kwaye emva koko batshabalale, kwaye umntu uza kuhlala echasene nabo bonke ubunzima. Kwaye ukuba ngumhlobo olungileyo kumhlobo wam, oko kuthetha ukuba siyaluhlonipha unxibelelwano kunye nonxibelelwano olwenzileyo ukufaka.

Ungaba ngumhlobo olungileyo womhlobo

Fumana ixesha lomhlobo

Eyona culpirit ephambili yokulahleka kobuhlobo ayikhathali. Umsebenzi omkhulu, imicimbi yosapho ithatha ixesha elininzi. Sisoyikisa ukuba sisuka eMgadi, silibale ukuba inokuba neengxaki, kwaye kufuneka inkxaso ngeli xesha. Makhe ndiqonde kumhlobo osondele osondele kwaye uza kunceda ngalo mzuzu. Kumhlobo, oku kuya kuthetha ukuba awufani, kwaye ubuhlobo buhlala kungekuphela nje kwi-Serene kunye nexesha lokuzonwabisa.

Umfanekiso waseSusann Mielkeke Mamela kwaye uve umhlobo wakho

Omnye umntu uhlala ethanda ukuthetha ngakumbi, kwaye umntu uphazami. Kodwa ukuphazamisa umhlobo, musa ukuva amazwi kunye neemvakalelo zakhe - krwada kakhulu. Tyibilika kulonwabo lwakho xa unengxaki enkulu. Mhlawumbi umhlobo uya kuziva eneentloni kwaye akazukuthetha nto, kodwa uya kucaphuka. Ukuba ngumphulaphuli olungileyo kubalulekile kubuhlobo.

Akukho sidingo sokugweba

Kukho iimeko apho asinakuvumelana nezenzo zomhlobo wakho. Kodwa ukuba akuxelela into, kulinde inkxaso, hayi ukutshayela. Ngaphandle koko, umhlobo uya kuqalisa ukuqiniseka ukuba intembele kuwe, jonga, ufuna ukumka ekugwetyweni.

Kwenzeka ukuba umhlobo uza nesithukuthezi kwaye engazi. Umhlobo akufuneki agwebe, kodwa nokukhuthaza imisebenzi yobudenge nengafanelekanga. Yiba nzulu, mamela, chaza ingqondo yakho ngemeko.

Umfanekiso kaSusann Mielkeke.

Ukubona iintsilelo kwaye uzame ukuthumela umhlobo ngendlela eyiyo - olu luphawu oluhle lobuhlobo. Ukuba usondele kwaye unqwenela umhlobo wakho olungileyo, ungathetha, ngaphandle kokumka kuye kwaye ungagxeki. Ngapha koko, asipheleli kubantu abasondeleyo kumaxesha xa bephosakele, kwaye bazame ukubanceda.

Yitsho ngovuyo

Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, lo mhlobo wokwenene uhlala evuya ekuphumeleleni kunye nolonwabo. Akukho ndawo yomona. Kodwa ukuze umhlobo wakho wayezi kakuhle into oyithandayo, ndixelele ngovuyo nangamazwi.

Nxibelelana

Ubuhlobo bunokulinganiswa kumgama. Ukuba ngamawaka eekhilomitha kwaye unxibelelene, kuhle, kuba uyaqonda ukuba kwenye indawo kukho umntu osondeleyo kakhulu. Ukuba ngabahlobo abalungileyo, akunyanzelekanga ukuba ubone veki nganye. Kwanele ukugcina unxibelelwano, bazi iindaba kunye neemvakalelo zomhlobo.

Ubuhlobo kufuneka bunikwe ixesha

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Ukuhlala ukwala ukudibana ngenxa yenyani yokuba uyathandabuza, unokukhubekisa umhlobo. Ufuna unxibelelwano, ubukho bomzimba. Ewe kunjalo, zikhona iimeko ezinokukuphazamisa. Kwaye nokuba yimeko embi kunye nomnqweno wokuhlala ekhaya kunokuba sisizathu esichanekileyo. Umhlobo wokwenene uya kukuqonda. Kodwa oku akufuneki kube sisizathu sokusilela, kungenjalo umhlobo angabhideka kwaye angasiqondi isizathu sokuba uphephe ukudibana naye.

Ubuhlobo abuphela ixesha elifanelekileyo. Ubuhlobo ngakumbi kukwenza imizamo, ukucombulula ubunzima obuqhelekileyo, inkxaso kumaxesha anzima. Kwaye kwangaxeshanye abantu ababini kufuneka bathathe inxaxheba kunye nomnqweno olinganayo wokuba ngumhlobo osondeleyo nomhlobo wabo osondeleyo kumhlobo wabo.

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