Emva kokukhutshwa kwezinto ezibonakalayo kwi-Disney Quoons (kwaye kukho imibutho yabasebenzi engasebenziyo, ukuba ujonga iiplothi ze-dissic, ukuba ujonga iiplothi ze-dissic, ukuba ujonga iiplothi ze-dissic, ukuba ujonga iiplothi ze-dissic, ukuba uqala ukubuza imibuzo: "Kulungile, kwaye njani Kulungile? Ngaba zikho iikhathuni ezinemizekelo yobudlelwane obunempilo? " Ewe, kunjalo,
Ukuze siwuqonde umbuzo, sisebenzise uncedo lwePodcast The Disney Therapist (Gcingeka, kukho i-podcaperapist, apho abagqirha base-psychotherapist bahlasela khona iikhathuni ze-Dischothecy-Inyaniso ngesiNgesi) - babenolwalamano olukhulu lweqela elinempilo Iikhathuni zeDisney. Kwaye yile nto sikwazi ukuyifumana.
Buyintoni ubudlelwane obunempilo?Okokuqala, masithi isigama ukuze siqonde into esithetha ngayo kwinto enye. Enye yePodcast ekhokelayo, i-therapist yeklinikhi ye-Alan Yger, iphawula ubudlelwane obunempilo ngolu hlobo: "Ubudlelwane obunempilo ngabo sinokuba nenkululeko yethu yokuba sinayo ukuba neentsilelo kunye nokugxeka. Kubudlelwane obunempilo, abantu baziva bekhuselekile - kwaye yeyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu. "
Ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu (kwaye kule meko-phakathi kwabalinganiswa bekhathuni) bunokwahluka-kunganyanzelekanga ukuba bathandane. Ubudlelwane bubekwe phakathi kwamalungu osapho olunye, phakathi kwabahlobo, phakathi komfundi kunye nomcebisi, phakathi kwabasebenzi, phakathi kwabangaphantsi nabaphantsi. KwiPodcast yakhe, ii-psychotherapists ziqwalasele iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zobudlelwane obunempilo ezifumaneka kwiikhathuni zeDisney.
ubuhlobo"Kubonakala kum ukuba ubuhlobo kwiikhathuni zeDisney bubonakaliswa kuye, kwaye asinakuvuma kuye.
"Ingonyama yenkosi"Iqela lokuqala labahlobo, apho kuluncedo kwaye kuhle ukubukela ngabafana abavela kwiNgonyama yasekumkanini: ITimon, Pumba noSimba. Yonke iqala ngokwazi-xa intlanganiso kunye ne-vermota), iTimot encinci kunye nePumba ayizami ukubaleka kwaphela kuye (nangona le yinto yokuqala enikezela ukwenza i-timoson), zikhokelele kwiimvakalelo, Kwaye emva koko zama ukuvuyela, ukufumana loo ywhenok ngenxa yento ebuhlungu.
Ngokuhamba kwexesha, uqhagamshelo olunzulu luyenziwa, olubandakanya ukunamathiselwa kunye nokwamkelwa komntwana, nto leyo ebamanyanisa ukuba ityhutyha engagunyaziswanga engagunyaziswanga kwixhoba kunye nezilwanyana ezinokubakho. I-Simba iyoyisa indalo yayo ukuze ihlale izalamano nabahlobo bakhe - ngokunyaniseka ukuba ingahambi kakuhle ngokwemvelo, kwaye ixabiseke kakhulu.
"I-Zverstolilis"Okulandelayo kwi-Line - I-Kanedon "i-Zverod" Malunga nobudlelwane phakathi koGqirha - Zhenichi Judy Hopps kunye ne-fox nick wickp, enokusetyenziswa njengomzekelo oqaqambileyo wobudlelwane.
Apho, ngokwe-podcast yesibini ekhokelayo, i-therapist yosapho i-tyler richa, umbono ohlangabezana neefilimu ezininzi zeDisney ulandelwa: Ubuhlobo lulucelomngeni olunzima.
"Ukuba siyabuxabisa ubudlelwane, kufuneka sityala imali kubo, kwaye le galelo lifanele lilingane nawo omabini amaqela. Uyayichaza. Uyacacisa: "Akunakwenzeka ukuba uqwalasele ubuhlobo kwangoku ukuba kuphela iqabane elityalelweyo kuyo."I-Zverodow" kule meko nguMzekelo obalaseleyo: Abalinganiswa bekhathuni baqala ubudlelwane babo, kodwa ke, njengoko befumana amava adibeneyo, kodwa basondela phambili kwaye bakhangelene ukuba baguquke kubahlobo. Ubutyebi bhuti: "Ndicinga ukuba singabahlobo njani. Ngaphandle kwento yokuba amaqhawekazi ethun ahlukile kakhulu kubalinganiswa kunye neenkolelo, ngenxa yoko, bayayiqonda indlela yokuxhasana kwaye baqhubeke nonxibelelwano.
"Ukutyhoboza kubonisa ukuba ubuhlobo abuqala ngonxibelelwano lwangoko 'ndiyayithanda" - "kwaye ndiyayithanda, sibona ukuba [umzekelo ka Yintoni esinokuyinxalenye yehlabathi eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo, kodwa kwangaxeshanye sinokuqondana, kwaye sinombulelo kule nto yokuqonda sinokungena kubudlelwane, 'sicinga ukuba, "ucinga ukuba," ucacisa uJager.
"Idolophu yamagorha"Ngokutsho kwe-Yum, le thsoon ibonisa ngokucacileyo abaphulaphuli njengento ebaluleke kwaye iluncedo ukuba neqela lenkxaso, "indawo" yabo "yabantu abathandanayo abakulungele ukunceda nangaliphi na ixesha.
"Kwidolophu yamagorha" Sibona ukuba uluntu luyanceda, kwaye xa silusizi kwaye sifuna uncedo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha sisibonisa - - - yena ithi.Isityebi sitsala ingqalelo kubahlobo ngamanye amaxesha abahlobo abalungileyo bavela xa kufuneka - awukwazi ukuzibuza ngalo, kodwa banako ukubuza ukuba unengxaki - yile nto uyenza ngayo nabahlobo Hiro, Emva kokuba ii-baimas zithumela isaziso semo yakhe ihlwempu.
Usapho "xa utyeshelwa eRobinsons"Isityebi sithi: "Lo ngomnye wabathandekayo bam kunye nenye yezona zizisityebi. Nangona kunjalo, ngokutsho kwe-psychotherapist, le khartoon ka-2007 kufuneka ikhunjulwe kwaye ibone - kwaye yiyo loo nto. "Le cartoon ibonisa ukuba zonke iintsapho zahlukile, kodwa kwiintsapho zonke zixhasana, zithathe omnye komnye kwaye wonke umntu uyanxibelelana kwinqanaba elinzulu," uyaphila.
UJager wongeza ukuba elinye lexabiso eliphambili lolu lusapho lekhathuni kukuba ilungu ngalinye linendawo eyaneleyo kunye nenkululeko, kwangaxeshanye, ngamnye kubo bonke abaphathwayo.Kwenye yeziqendu, iqhawe eliyintloko lekhathuni - i-levenver lewis inkwenkwe izama ukulungisa ngequbuliso kwimveliso yebhotolo yamandongomane kunye nejam. Emva kwenzame zikaLewis zikhokelela ekungathobeni (iyunithi zinxiba nje zonke abo baqokelela ibhotolo yamandongomane kunye noJam), kwaye uqala ukuzikhupha, kwaye upholile! Kuyamangalisa! Ngokungafaniyo! "," Kwimpazamo osifundayo, kwaye kwimpumelelo- hayi ikakhulu. " I-Robinsons ichaza ngovuyo kwi-lewis ukuba akukho nto imbi kakhulu kwintsilelo, kodwa impazamo yenye inyathelo lokuphumelela.
"Moana"Enye ikhathuni apho, ngokutsho kwe-psychotherapists, isithethi sosapho esisempilweni. Iimbambano kunye nokungavisisani zenzeka kwintsapho egudileyo, kodwa zisonjululwe, kwaye amalungu osapho akakuphulukani nokunye.
Ngokweyelo, u-Moana ushiya usapho ukuba anyamekele isizwe sakhe: Kwaye le ngxabano ilele apho abantu abaninzi abakwishumi elivisayo bahamba khona, kodwa kwangaxeshanye besenza ukubandakanyeka kweyakho usapho.Emva kokuba u-moana ebuyela ekhaya, abazali bakhe bamkele ngovuyo kwaye - bangabalulekanga- mamela amava akhe awafumanayo ngexesha lokuhamba kwakhe. Kule, ngokutsho kweJagger, kwaye kukho amandla osapho-amandla okuvumela "amantshontsho" kwinkululeko xa zilungele oku, emva koko zibuyise ngamava abo , izimvo kunye nezimvo.
"LILO NOBUCHULE"Kule cartoon, ungazijonga izinto ezinamandla kubudlelwane obungafumani kwiipropu eziphindiweyo-ubudlelwane apho i-Miberlimenti ePhakamileyo inyamekela abancinci (kuba abazali beLilo noNathayi babhubha). UDade Dristi Lilo kufuneka amkhathalele-oku kunikwa intombazana ayilula, ayisebenzi ngaphandle kwezikrelemnqa, nangona kunjalo, ngaphandle kosapho, uNanya ahlala enosapho.
Amanqaku atyebileyo alungile ngenxa yokuba ihamba nomfanekiso we "yehlabathi elifanelekileyo" kunye "nosapho olufanelekileyo.""Ngamanye amaxesha, xa kubonakala ngathi kwinto engalunganga" hayi ", kodwa enyanisweni, yonke into". " Amatyala anokungakhathali, kwaye kufuneka sithathe lo ntzuzo yobomi kwaye siqhubeke siyonwabele - kubonakala ngathi ukuba le yeyona ndlela isempilweni.
Ubudlelwane bothandoNgaphandle kwento yokuba ubudlelwane obuninzi kwiikhathuni ze-disney zibonakala zisikwe kwinyani kwaye zakhiwe kwii-stereotypes ze-hyperblids, uthando kunye nothando "), kwaye zonwabile" Umzekelo. (Ndingathanda ukuqaphela okusesikweni ukuba isihloko sobudlelwane bothando i-podcal ekhokelayo ichukumiseke kakhulu kwaye ayichazi ngayo yonke imizekelo elungileyo).
"VAR-i"Ubudlelwane obuphakathi phakathi kweVord-kwaye kwaye uEva kuyabonakala ukuba ikwisine-finema kuye - ukudala ulwalamano lwabo, amaqhawe angasebenzisi amagama, iintshukumo kunye nezenzo.
Ikwanomdla malunga nobudlelwane phakathi kwala magorha, ngenxa yokuba bengamahlabathi ahluke ngokupheleleyo - ivall-in cwaka inxulumene nomsindo kunye nenkunkuma, kwaye irobhothi ye-robhothi yokwenyani. Imbali yabo, nangona kunjalo, ayiyenzi ngaphandle kweFlichés zothando - kukho uthando ekuqaleni, kunye nosindiso olumangalisayo.
Nangona kunjalo, abagqirha bezikhohlakali apha baphawula apha, kodwa uthando lwerobhothi encinci, unyamezelo, ingqalelo kunye neenzame zokugqibela zicima ukuphindaphindwa. "Oku kuhambelana nento endiyithethileyo ngayo namhlanje - amanqaku eJager. "Sibona unxibelelwano, ngaphandle kwendlela esahluke ngayo, siyayazi indlela yokuqonda ukuba ngamnye kuthi unokunikela ngantoni, kwaye siyalihlonipha unxibelelwano oluphakathi kwethu."
Nangona kunjalo, isityebi siphendula kuye ukuba ingxaki yolwalamano phakathi kweVor-kunye no-Eva kukuba yakhiwe kwintshutshiso - ibali eliqhelekileyo elinqabileyo, abathandi bamadoda ngokungafanelekanga baqonde ukuba ubuso bokuvuselelwa kunye nokwamkeleka.
"Nangona kunjalo, kubonakala kum ukuba kwimeko yeVord - kwaye yonke into ihlukile, - yongeza ugqirha. -Ukuqonda iingcebiso. " Ubuye athi kwikhathuni i-Kall-kwaye usukele u-Eva ukuba angayimoyisi, kodwa ngenxa yokuba ethanda ukuba, aze afune ukuba ayokufumanayo, iqala ukuphinda iphendule irobhothi .
"Tazan"Amadoda afanayo anokuqwalaselwa kubudlelwane phakathi kweTarzan noJane - akanakuthetha, kwaye ke kunyanzelekile ukuba abonise ivelwano ngezinye iindlela ezinokufikeleleka kuyo. "Apha abantu ababini abavela kwihlabathi elahlukileyo, abathandanayo ngokunyaniseka, utsho uJager. "Kwaye oku kuyamkeleka, kwaye ixesha abalichitha kunye liyabavumela ukuba bazane ngakumbi, kwaye ngalo - ukuba uyafuna, unokufumana uthando."
Ukongeza, kubudlelwane phakathi kweTarzan noJane, kukho imfihlakalo, uhlobo oluthile lwemfihlakalo oluvuselela umdla kubo omnye komnye nomnqweno wokufunda omnye komnye kwinqanaba elibulalayo nelinzima.
Kungatsho ukuba ubudlelwane obunempilo-nokuba bubudlelwane phakathi kwabahlobo, izihlobo okanye iqabane lakho-zakhiwe ekuqeshweni (kwaye hayi kwi-interder), ukulunga kunye nokulungela umdla kunye nokufuna ukwazi Bazazi abanye abantu (hayi kwiinzame zokuzibandakanya phantsi kwe-stereotypes ethile kunye nolindelo lwabo).
Iikhathuni zeDisney kunzima ukufowunela imodeli egqibeleleyo yobudlelwane obunobuhlobo bokusingqongileyo, kodwa bakwazi ukufumana iiperile zokwenyani ezifanelwe ziqwalasele kwaye zihlaziywe ngokunzulu. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, iingcali ze-psychotherapists ekupheleni kwe-podcast yazo ziphawulwe ekupheleni kwe podcast, emva koko le nto siyikhethayo, kwaye sithetha ngantoni thina, izinto esizithandayo, izinto esizithandayo.
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