Ixesha elide, ubukho boluntu abathathwe kwizakhono zabazali yayiyimfuneko ukuze baphile kwisizukulwana esilandelayo. Ukufunda ukuzingela, hlakulela umhlaba, ukwakha indawo yokuhlala - yonke le nto yayiphambili ekuqhubekeni. Kwangelo xesha, ezinye izinto zadluliselwa: Iindidi ezahlukeneyo zeendlela, iinkolelo kunye neendlela zokuziphatha ngendlela enye okanye enye.
Namhlanje, isidingo sokwamkela izakhono zokusinda ngokwasemzimbeni, kodwa kwintsapho nganye kukho ufakelo lweendlela ezahlukeneyo eziqhubekayo ezigqitywe kwizizukulwana ngezizukulwana. Le nkqubo yamaxabiso ibizwa ngokuba yi-Psychology yimeko yosapho.
Kwaye enkulu akukho nto iphosakeleyo kubo - de ezi meko ziqala ukuchasana nenkqubo yamaxabiso abucala okanye yengqondo eqhelekileyo.
"Andinayo nayiphi na imeko!" -BANINZI abanokuthi, kodwa kufanelekile ukuba siqwalasele ubomi babo ngakumbi, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kukho ezo zinto zikwenzayo, kuba abazali benjenjalo, besenza iyeza lekhekhe, bephela nge Imiba yokukhulisa abantwana).
Izikripthi zinokuchaphazela ngokupheleleyo indawo yobomi:
Ulawulo loqoqosho
Sisoloko silungiselela umfazi, ukucoceka okunyanzelekileyo ngeMigqibelo, endlwini kufuneka ihlale ingumfuziselo malunga nendawo yokugcina, umgcini wendlu ukwenzelwa kuphela.
Imfundo kunye nomsebenzi
Ngaphandle kwemfundo yamabanga aphakamileyo, ziya kutshabalala, loo msebenzi ufuna ukukhetha into ebalulekileyo, kwaye ayisiyiyo le oyithandayo, kuyimfuneko ukuba ufunde kakuhle, kungenjalo awuyi kufezekisa nantoni na ebomini.
Ezemali
Imali enkulu-iingxaki ezongezelelweyo, ezityebileyo zonke ii-crook (okanye ngokuchaseneyo), Thenga ngezaphulelo.
I-hierarchy yosapho
Ilizwi likatata kwintsapho ngumthetho, bonke abantwana abalungileyo, njengoko umama enze isigqibo, siya kuba.
Isimo sengqondo ngomtshato
Akunakwenzeka ukuqhawula umtshato (kwabasetyhini- umntu onabantwana uyanyamalala; amadoda - kufuneka akhule abantwana) okanye abaya kuqalisa ukuba neqabane elifanelekileyo.
Ngenxa yemeko, abantu bafumana amaqabane afanayo nabazali babo bavelisa ubudlelwane obufanayo kwiintsapho zabo njengoko babekwintsapho yomzali.
Kukho nemeko engafaniyo xa umntu, enobuntwana, enyula indlela yokuziphatha - i-countermenarial. Nangona kunjalo, oku akuthethi ukuba simahla. Ukwakhela ubomi bakhe ngesonka esingapheliyo sephethini embi, ukuzama ukungayiphinde, oko kukuthi, ngokuxhomekeke kwiskripthi.
Yingxabano kwiimeko zamaqabane okanye ukungangqinelani kwabo (kulisiko ukuba kubize izimvo ezahlukeneyo ngobomi) rhoqo zizizathu zeengxabano.
Akunakwenzeka ukuthi le iskripthi ihlala imbi, kukho ezo ziphethe kakuhle. Kodwa ukuba ukukopa indlela yokuziphatha ekuthintela ekwakheni ubomi obonwabisayo okanye uphelelwe lixesha kwaye ungahambelani nenyaniso yale mihla, ke lixesha lokunikela ingqalelo kwihambo yokuziphatha.
Inxalenye yokuqala neyona ibalulekileyo yomsebenzi kunye nemeko-babone kwaye baqonde. Ihlala kungekho lula ukuyenza ngokwakho, kuya kuba yimfuneko ukunceda ingcali. Kuyimfuneko ukuhlalutya indlela yokuziphatha kwayo kwaye ubone ukuba yeyiphi imeko engasakwazi ukuzisa iziphumo, kodwa zihlala ziphindaphindwa. Iluncedo ekufundeni usapho lwakho kwizizukulwana ezikufutshane.
Indlela elungileyo yesi sifundo, umzekelo, ukwenza iGeneogram (umfanekiso ogcweleyo wosapho ubuncinci kwizizukulwana ezi-3). Injongo kukufumana la malungu osapho aziphatha ngendlela efanayo, kwaye ukuba kunokwenzeka, acazulule ukuba kutheni le nto ilunge ngakumbi.
Umzekelo, uqaphele ukuba kunzima kuwe ukwakha ubudlelwane namadoda. Kungekudala, loo mzuzu uza xa ucinga: "Kutheni le nto ndifuna olu lwalamano ngokubanzi, mna andikwazi kakuhle wonke umntu."
Ubomi bukaMama buhlalutya kwaye baqonde ukuba ukhe wahlangabezana nayo yonke into ngokwakhe, kwaye ngeyona ndlela, wayesoloko enomtsalane "ocoliweyo", kwaye amanxuwa akazange alibalisile ebomini bakhe.
Rhoqo lelo bali linjalo, isiphelo esinzima soomakhulu-ootatathathu, nto leyo eyayihlala emfazweni enabantwana ngaphandle kwamadoda. Akukho nto ishiyekileyo, indlela yokuqokelela iya kuba senqindi kwaye ihlangabezana nayo yonke into ngokwakho. Ayikho enye indlela yokuphuma. Kwaye le meko iyadluliselwa "Abafazi kwihashe kwizizukulwana ngezizukulwana.
Kuphela kobomi obutshintshileyo, iimeko zitshintshile, kule meko akusekho mfuneko, kwaye bambalwa abantu abacinga ukuba ivelisa imbali yookhokho.
Kwaye kukho imilinganiselo yemizekelo enje: Inzala yobutshinga awazi ukuba ihlehlise njani imali, inzala yabasebenzi ihlala iqinisekile ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba kubekho umvuzo onzima, abo basemfazini babandezeleka Ukusuka kwigazi labacinezeli bakhe, baphila ngokuthi gadalala, ngaphandle kokubona ithuba lokushiya ubudlelwane.
Ukuba ukwazile ukubona imeko ephindaphindayo, cinga ukuba wenza umsebenzi omninzi. Emva koko, kubalulekile ukuba uhlule kweli bali. Ukubona ukuba kule meko isekhona imfuneko, apho ukhusela khona okanye zeziphi iingxaki ezinceda ekusombululeni.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba ukubaluleka kwephethini ephindaphindiweyo kuyilahlekile kwaye kuyakuthintela. Zisombule ngokwakho ukuba leliphi icandelo leScript ofuna ukuqhubeka nokuphumeza ebomini bakho. Yintoni onokuyibuyisela kwipatheni yendlela. Yeyiphi indlela yokuziphatha ekufuneka ifundile okanye ukuba zezakufuneka ziphuhliswe.
Ukusebenza ngescript kufuna ixesha. Musa ukulindela iziphumo ezikhawulezayo - le ndlela yokuziphatha isebenzela iminyaka emininzi okanye ingekokwenye inkulungwane. Guqula ngeentsuku ezimbalwa akuyi kusebenza. Kodwa ukuba uzibeka wena usukelo oluthile kwaye uye naye, uya kukwazi ukwahlula kwimbali ephelelwe lixesha kwaye uqalise ukuphila ubomi bakho.