Ukhulule i-cartoon entsha yekhathuni Uyikhetha njani imixholo yekhathuni? Yintoni elandelayo?
Izihloko zeekhathuni Sikhetha, Ukufunda Inethiwekhi yoLuntu. Kwi-Intanethi ngoku kukho iingxoxo ezininzi malunga nendlela yokufundisa abantwana, ebaluleke kakhulu kwimfundo kwaye yeyiphi imbambano phakathi kwezemfundo yase-US e-Soviet kunye nokukhuliswa okutsha. Kwaye ukubona eyona mixholo inengxaki, sikhetha imixholo yekhathuni.
I-cartoon "ipayi yekhathuni" enikezwe ukwenza i-masha kardiedov, umbhali we-App kaMariya app kunye neencwadi "isuphu yokuqala, emva koko." Yayingumbono wakhe - ukwenza ikhathuni kwisihloko sokutya okusempilweni, wanceda ekuqokelele imali kuye. Ndihambile iNgxaki yesimo sengqondo esingalunganga sokutya kwaye kutshanje siyikhuphele le ngxaki. Ndiyayibona indlela ezenzeka ngayo le nkqubo kwiintsapho ezininzi, ngoko ke kwakubonakala ngathi kuya kusichukumisa ngokuchanekileyo esi sihloko, nangona kunjalo, umzekelo, isimo sengqondo sabantwana abakhubazekileyo.
Emva koko sifuna ukwenza iikhathuni ezimbini ngokuhambelana. Inye kuphela indlela malunga nendlela yokujamelana nomsindo wakho, kwaye owesibini kukuba amakhwenkwe akhale. Kubonakala kum ukuba kubaluleke kakhulu kumakhwenkwe. Ngakumbi eRussia nakwilizwe lendawo yasePosiet.
Hayi. Ndikulungele ukuthatha nasiphi na isihloko. Kwezinye izihloko andithathi, kuba imarike yaseRussia ayikakulungelanga kubo, kwaye i-cartoon iya kufikelela kubuhlungu. Umzekelo, umxholo wokufa. Ndiqinisekile ukuba akukho jelo uza kukhupha ikhathuni kwesi sihloko. Nangona ndikholelwa ukuba, ukuba abantwana bathethwa ngokufa hayi emva kokuba umntu endibathandayo kubo bafa, kodwa kwangaphambi koko, isimo sengqondo sokufa siya kumiselwa ngenye indlela. Kule meko, bekungayi kuphinda bathethe ngobomi emva kobomi, ukuze bave isiphoso, kuya kuba yincoko ngenkqubo yendalo. Kwaye i-cartoon inokwenziwa okufanayo. Njengathi, umzekelo, "i-mystery coco". Umalunga nokufa, kodwa upholile kwaye awuyobi. Kodwa, ngelishwa, esi sihloko asizukuthandwa. Kwaye zininzi izihloko ezinjalo ezizezinye eRussia.
Ucinga ukuba zithini iincwadi, iikhathuni, izinto ezenziwayo - kufuneka zifunde into umntwana, abe luhlobo lwesikhokelo sokuziphatha?Ndingathanda ewe. Ubuncinci, ukuze akukho mxholo, onokuba yinto echasene nemithetho-siseko yendalo iphela. Ndibona uluhlu oluninzi oluninzi kunye nesigama esingenamsindo, sithembekile. Andifuni kubonisa abantwana bakho kumntwana wakho. Kuba umntwana emva koko uqengqeleka ngamehlo ngendlela efanayo, smacks, pods, iipods macala onke. Oku akuthethi. Kule meko, oopopayi beSoviet babenobubele kakhulu, benyanisekile kwaye benyanisekile. Kwinto engaqhelekanga, kodwa kulunge ngakumbi kunokuba ugwebe ubundlongondlongo. Oku kuyasebenza nakwiincwadi kunye neMidlalo. Sihlala sinyamezela into ngaphandle kobugcisa. Ukuba umntwana uza kukhupha encwadini, i-cartoon, ukusebenza kuya kuxhomekeka ekubeni yeyiphi ingcinga esisiseko esekwe kulo msebenzi. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba kukho amaxabiso abantu, ubuntu, uvelwano.
Kukholelwa ukuba kwihlabathi langoku liba ngumzali kunzima kakhulu. Nathi, ngokungafaniyo nabazali bethu noomakhulu, akukho msebenzi wokusinda apho bawushiye khona onke amandla, ngoko sinexesha lokubonakalisa, sebenzani ngokwakho. Kodwa zininzi izinto ezenzakeleyo zangaphakathi ezishiyiweyo zizizukulwana zangaphambili ezingekho lula ukufezekisa kunye nokunyanga. Kwaye uninzi lolwazi olwahlukileyo malunga nendlela yokwenza. Njani kuyo yonke le nto ingalahleki, fumana uyiva umntwana wakho?Kubaluleke kakhulu ukufumanisa ngokwakho - yintoni umzali wam? Abazalwana noodade abasuka kwenye intsapho babenokuba ngabazali abahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo. Kubalulekile ukufumana ulwazi, lentonga engaphakathi. Ukwenza oku, kuya kufuneka uphendule uninzi lwabazali bakho. Umzekelo, ndinika umntwana iswekile okanye akunjalo? Ngoba? Kwaye ukuze uhlale uthembekile kule ntetho ndide ndiphinde ndiphile. Kwaye xa ujonga, nyaniseka utsho ngokunyaniseka ngale nto emntwaneni. Uyazi, ndiphumelele uphando kwaye ndaqonda ukuba ukudemon kweswekile ayisiyonto inempilo ngokupheleleyo. Khange ndiziphathe kakuhle. Masizame ngokwahlukileyo? " Ke kuzo zonke ezinye. Ngaba ukohlwaya umntwana okanye akunjalo? Yintoni isohlwayo? Kwintombi yam, ukuba ndimjonge ngokungqongqo, isohlwayo. Uthi "Amehlo ayonayo." Kwaye ngenxa yomntu, qhubela umntwana egumbini kwaye uyenze iyure yonke, kuba wayecaphukile ngenxa yenqaba eyaphukileyo, kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Kum, le yindlela engamkelekanga ngokupheleleyo - umntwana kwaye imbi kangaka, kwaye umnyanzela ukuba angaphili kuphela kwentlungu yakho, kodwa ukhathazekile kuwe. Kubonakala kum ukuba eyona nto ibonisa ukuba siyiqonde indlela esimele siziphathe ngayo kwizinto zonke. Ezi meko ziyisixa esingenasiphelo, kwaye zonke ezintsha zihlala zibonakala. Kodwa kunye nomntwana ngamnye, into iya kucaca. Okanye, mhlawumbi wena, ngokuchasene noko, zonke uphononongo. Ukuba uthelekisa, njengakwintsapho yethu, umntwana wokuqala waphakamisa nendlela esinyusa ngayo osesine, esi sibhakabhaka nomhlaba.
Ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukumisela amanqaku akho okubonisa. Kwaye oku kufuneka ufunde kakhulu kwaye ucinga: Ewe, ndikweli cala, ndicinga njalo, le ntanda-bulumko isondele kum. Umzekelo, uAlfi Kona, obhale incwadi ethi "imfundo ngentliziyo." Kwaye umntu uphulaphula i-petranolovskaya kwaye uyavumelana nemigaqo ethile.
Malunga nendlela yokumva umntwana. Kubalulekile nakulo naluphi na ugqatso-esikolweni ukuya esikolweni, egadini, ezweni, isidlo sangokuhlwa-isidlo sangokuhlwa-siyeke kwaye sizama ukuva ukuba umntwana uthini. Kum, kutsha nje ukufumanisa kwakukufumanisa ukuba abantwana banesigama esincinci kakhulu, kwaye bahlala bengakwazi nje ukuchaza iikhonsepthi ezinzima. Oko kukuthi, umntwana uziva ngathi ngokunxulumene nayo kukungaqondakali, kodwa ukuyicacisa, ayinakuchazwa ngamazwi. Kwaye thina, bazali, ukuba awufumani mpendulo icacileyo, idla ngokutyumza. Okwangoku, sihlise umntwana wethuba yokutsho, kwaye ngokwakho - ukuqonda ukuba uva kwaye kwenzeka ntoni kwaphela. Ke ngoko, endaweni yokutyumza, kungcono ukuqhubela phambili, banike amagama anokuthatha umntwana anokusebenzisa ithuba ukucacisa iingcinga neemvakalelo zakhe.
Kunzima ukuthetha nomntwana, ukuba awuyazi indlela. Apha unokunceda iincwadi. Xa sifunda umntwana othile, ihlala ibeka iqela lemibuzo. Ngokwesiqhelo sikhawuleze kakhulu ukuqhubeka nokufunda. Kodwa ukuba uyaziyeka kwaye umamele, unokufumana into ethethwa ngumntwana kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uza kuyifunda.
Enye indlela-qala ubuza imibuzo ngokwakho. Kwaye kutheni le nkqo le iphumelele kanjalo? Unokwenza ntoni endaweni yakhe? Izolo sifunda "uRoni, intombi ka-Bhing." URolini wasinda endlwini, ndabuza intombi yakhe, kwaye ubuya kwenza ntoni ukuba ndibalekile? Kwaye ke kwabakho i-monologue yamashumi amabini ananye malunga nazo zonke iintlobo zokhetho lokubaleka. Ndifunde lukhulu ngomntwana wam! Ibonelela, uhlengahlengisiwe ebomini ehlathini!
Ezi ndlela zinceda ekuqaliseni incoko kwaye ufunde izinto ezininzi ezinomdla. Ndifundile ukuba intombi yam ayizukuba ukutya, kuba ubusela ayilunganga. Wayeza kucela umntu. Kwaye ukuba andikwazanga ukuphuma, ngewayebuyile kunina noTata, beza nabo, kwaye babeya kuhlala ixesha elide kwaye bonwabile. Yonke le nto ndinomdla kakhulu ukuva kumntwana wam. Ke ngoko, iincwadi, iikhathuni, izinto ezenziwayo - inketho entle!
Kwixesha leenethiwekhi zentlalo, abazali abaninzi babeka iifoto zabantwana babo, bathethe ngawo amanye amabali, rhoqo ubuqu. Ungayiqhekezi njani imida yomntwana ngaxeshanye? Uwusombulula njani lo mbuzo ngokwakho - Ngaba uhlala ubhala malunga nabantwana bakho kwaye ubabonise?Ngapha koko, le yingxabano yam yangaphakathi yomdla. Ndiye ndayeka ukubeka intombi eneminyaka emihlanu kwinethiwekhi. Ukuba ndizokufota, emva koko - ecaleni, ngasemva, ngesandla, umlenze. Kuba akaqondi ukuba ngubani ombona ngaxeshanye. Uyazi ukuba umama nomntu othile uthetha apho kukho uhlobo oluthile lwehlabathi. Uhlala ethetha nefowuni: "Molo, ndicela uxolo, intombazana yaseAmsterdam," ngaphandle kokuqonda. Kum, le yinkohliso, umntwana akazazi, kwaye ndiyisebenzisa.
Ndisabalazela intombi encinci eneminyaka emibini ubudala, kuba kubonakala kum ukuba ayinakuphikisana, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyakufikelela.
Xa ndabelana ngamabali, ndiva ubunzima ngalo lonke umbuzo: Ngaba ndinelungelo okanye hayi. Mhlawumbi akafuni, kwiminyaka elishumi umntu othile wadibana naye esitratweni wathi: "Ndiyazi ukuba uxabana njani nodadewethu!" Ke ngoko, andixeleli nangaliphi na ixesha lentlungu.
Kulula kakhulu kum ukubeka into malunga nabantwana abadala, kuba banokuhlala besithi: "Musa! Yithathe! " Kodwa oku kwenzeka kakhulu kunqabile.
Kunzima kakhulu umbuzo. Andazi ukuba bakhulisa ntoni aba bantwana. Mhlawumbi, iya kuba ngabantu abavulekileyo behlabathi kunathi. Kodwa koku kwaye sengozini ngakumbi. Ndingathanda ukuqwalasela iminyaka eli-10 ukuya kweli-15 ngaphambili kwaye ndifumanise ukuba baya kuba yintoni.
Ungavumela ukuba umntwana avumele umntwana ukuba enze iiakhawunti zakho kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo? Ngaba kufanelekile ukuyilawula ngenye indawo? Ukuba kunjalo, njani?Kuxhomekeka kusapho ngalunye oluthile. Kodwa ngelixa abantwana bam bengayi kulumangalela eli thuba kum, andizukuqalisa iiakhawunti zobalo. Mhlawumbi xa zonke iintombi ziya kuba nazo iiakhawunti zazo, kuya kufuneka uqale. Kodwa ndiza kuzama ukwakha ubudlelwane ukuze ndifunde okwenzekayo apho, yazi ukuba ngubani ongezelelweyo kubahlobo. Kuba ndiyazi ukuba kuyingozi kangakanani. Sasazi kancinci malunga nokhuseleko, kwaye abantwana bancinci. Ndiyathemba ukuba ngelixesha abantwana bam abancinci bakhula kwiiakhawunti zabo, kuya kubakho imithetho ecacileyo neyiqondayo yokhuseleko kwi-Intanethi.
Ucinga ntoni nge-intekis entsha ye-interence - iimvavanyo zesini, xa umntwana uyazigqala emva koko inkwenkwe, ke intombazana leyo, xa abazali befumana ukhetho? Uphi umgca phakathi kwenkangeleko efanelekileyo ne-zashkvar?Andivumelani negama lombuzo. Ndihlala ndiphulaphula incoko esuka eRussia ukuba imigaqo yokuziphatha entsha ikuvumela ukuba ube yinkwenkwe, ke intombazana. Andazi ibali lenene. Inkwenkwe inokuziva ngathi yintombazana, oyinkwenkwe. Kodwa ukuze umntwana atsile apha apha - hayi.
Isibakala sokuba umntwana avakalelwe njengendoda yesibini esiyinyani. Oku kuyenzeka, kodwa kungenxa yokuba umntu uza esikolweni kwaye uthi: Ngaba bathatha isigqibo, ngaba nina makhwenkwe okanye amantombazana? Eli liqela lenkqubo yomzimba, ibuhlungu kakhulu, okokuqala, kuba engumntwana ngokwakhe.
Ndifunde udliwanondlebe noNatasha Maximova (umculi waseUkraine otshintshe umgangatho - umhleli we-Emine). Uxelela njani ngesizathu esithile ukunyanzelwa ukuba aye kwigumbi lokunxiba amadoda, ukudubula izaphetha, babengavumelekanga ukuba basebenzise fan xa wayefuna. Kwaye ekupheleni kwesicatshulwa uya kwazi ukuba eneneni wazalwa yinkwenkwe. Kwaye uziva ntlungu.
Andazi ukuba ndiza kwenza ntoni kwimeko enjalo. Ngekuya kuchitha bonke ubuchule obunokubakho kwaye ndifunde kakhulu ukuba ndiqonde ukuba wenzeni emva koko. Ewe kunjalo, ukuvumela umntwana oneminyaka emihlanu ukuba atshintshe umgangatho - oku akulunganga. Kodwa naphi na asenzeki. Ndiva amagama ukuba yonke into iziswa bubudenge, kodwa ayinjalo.
Kodwa ukuba intombi yam yokugqibela ithi akafuni ukukhulisa iinwele kwaye anxibe iimpahla, andizukwenza. Ukuba ubuza ukubiza kwakhe uVanya, ndiza kuzama ukuyenza. Andiyi kumyeka nangayiphi na indlela. Ndiqinisekile ukuba eli lithuba elidlulayo xa umntu evuya okanye sele etshintshe inqanaba lembonakalo yembonakalo ebubudenge. Nangona uthatha oko unike intombazana, kwaye uthi "ndiyinkwenkwe, igama lam linguVoya," kunzima.
Uneeprojekthi ezininzi ezahlukeneyo, abantwana abane kunye ne-Instagram edumileyo. Uthatha phi izixhobo ukwenza yonke into kwaye ungayitshisi njani (ukuba iyaphuma)?Ndichitha ixesha elininzi nam. Phantse Funda, kwaye incinci ukusuka nge-9 ukuya kwi-5 ukuya kwi-5 pm nanny. Ke ngoko, ndinexesha lokusebenza ndenza le nto ndiyifunayo. NdinoShedyuli wasimahla, ke mna phakathi kwemini, ukuba ndifuna, ndingahamba esitratweni, ndithathe ikhefu ekhaya ndisebenze. Kodwa kwangaxeshanye, andinaso imeko yokuphila. Singatsho ukuba ndikwindawo yokunxila, nangona ndingayiqondi indlela endiza ngayo kule nto. Ndiyawuthanda kakhulu umsebenzi wam kakhulu, ikhaya lam, usapho lwam, kodwa, ngokucacileyo, ibhungane kunye nezinye izinto ezahlukileyo ezikhokelela ekunyamezeleni. Ndizakusinda ngantoni? Ndizama ukuhamba kangangoko kunokwenzeka, khwela ibhayisekile kwaye uchithe ixesha nabantwana. Kodwa hayi indlela ocinga ngayo malunga nento ekufuneka uyitye, emva koko uhlambe, emva koko enye into. Kwaye uzibuze nje wena: Yintoni esiya kuyithanda ukuyenza ngoku? Ngaba ulele kwisofa? Ngokugqibeleleyo! Ukutsiba ebhedini ngaphandle kweedadain? Kuhle! Oko kukuthi, ukunciphisa zonke iintlobo "eziyimfuneko" ukuze uxinzelelo luncinci kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
