Ungayihlula kanjani ukungaqiniseki kunye nokungazithembi: yonke into oyifunayo

Inxalenye yokuqala: Olona lungelo lokuvela kokungaqiniseki kunye nokungazithembi.

Ungayihlula njani ukungaqiniseki kwaye kungakhuselekanga

Iingcinga zakho zine-tuess yakho

Kuya kuba lula ukulawula le mvakalelo xa ulumkisa ukuba ingqondo yakho ikulahlekisile. Izimvo kunye namabinzana abantu bomntu wesithathu kwaye iingcinga zakho azisiqinisekisi ukuba ubuthathaka kwaye ungafanelekanga. Uqhele ukucinga njalo kwaye wonke umntu ukhangela isiqinisekiso ngeenkolelo zakho kunye noloyiko. Okanye uyakhuthaza ngenkuthalo iingcinga ezinjalo ukuze azincede.

Izimvo zokucoca

Jonga abantu macala onke. Bonke baphila ngokuchanekileyo? Bonke bathi kwaye yenza izinto ezifanelekileyo? Ngaba bayakugweba kuphela? Mhlawumbi ezi zizikhuselo zabo, kwaye zingeyiyo kwaphela.

Isicwangciso sokungaqiniseki

Zama ukufumana ixesha ebomini xa uqala ukuvela le mvakalelo. Yazisa ngokubhekisele kule mvakalelo.

• Chaza yonke into endiyifunayo. Ukuba kukho ithuba okanye umnqweno, thetha nomntu ngokuthe ngqo malunga nefuthe lalinempembelelo. Kodwa ungabhala nje ngokweenkcukacha kwisiqwengana sephepha malunga nesokisi. Bhala ngazo zonke iimvakalelo kunye namagama ongathanda ukuba uthi, kodwa ungatsho. Eli phepha alidingi kuthunyelwa, ungaliphosa, kodwa ndibhale, uyakuphosela uninzi lwentlungu onayo.

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• Iphepha okanye idayari yempumelelo. Bhala yonke into ophumeleleyo. Mhlawumbi kwimizuzu yokuqala uya kufika engqondweni enye okanye imisitho emibini kwaye uthatha isigqibo sokuba ayinangqondo yokuba ubhale, uyawakhumbula ngabo. Kodwa ukuqala ukubhala, ukhumbule ngaphezulu. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, siyalibala ngempumelelo yethu kwaye siqala ukuzibona njengoko kufanelekile. Ke ngoko, kubaluleke kakhulu ukubhala kwaye ubone ukuba awungomntu obuthathaka.

Umahluko wakho wangaphandle

Ngaba uyabona kwinkangeleko yakho? Ngaba umntu othile ucebisile okanye uthathe isigqibo sodwa? Cinga. Mhlawumbi awuboni zimpazamo, kodwa izinto? Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, bakwenza wahlukile. Imigangatho yobuhle iyatshintsha minyaka le, kodwa abantu abanemida yangaphandle abakhethekileyo bahlala bephumile ngexesha. Musa ukuzifihla amanqaku akho, kodwa, ngokuchasene noko, gxininisa kuzo. Sele unayo into enkulu kunabantu abaninzi.

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Wonke umntu. Kwaye wena. Akukho namnye unjengawe kweli lizwe. Beka iphepha lodonga kwiscreen sefowuni esiya kukukhumbuza ngokwakho. Musa ukuzithelekisa nomntu, kuba awufuni ukuba ngomnye umntu.

Funda ngakumbi eli nqaku. Uya kukunceda ukuba uqonde ukuba kutheni wena kunye nabanye abantu nize ngandlela-thile.

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