Ngoku hlaba sele idlulileyo iminyaka emithathu ubudala. Wayesele ekwazi ukwenza amanyathelo okuqala, hayi ngokugqibeleleyo, kodwa uqinile kakhulu. Into ephambili kukuba intombazana ingenise yedwa. I-TASI abadala baqatshelwe nguMdala kunye nokujonga okunentsingiselo. Intombazana yazalwa ngaphambi kwexesha ngobunzima malunga ne-600 yeegram. Iinyanga ezimbini ezinesiqingatha emva kokuzalwa, wayengakwazi ukuphefumla ngokuzimeleyo. Ukondliwa kwaqhutywa ngokulandelelana. UCasya wayephakathi kobomi nokufa malunga neenyanga ezintandathu zokuqala zobomi bakhe. Oogqirha khange bathobe izandla zabo kwaye bazabalaza ngalo lonke ixesha, babuyisa yonke intombazana ukuba babe ebomini ngamaxesha angama-70.
Umama wentombazana wagqiba kwelokuba abelane ngembali yakhe enzima.
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"Andizange ndikrokrela ukuba ndingomelele"
Amaqabane athile ayeka ukukholelwa ukuba iphinde ibe ngabazali. Unyana wabo olizibulo sele eneminyaka eli-15 ubudala. Ngamaxesha athile, baqala ukuzilungiselela ukuba babe ngogogo kunye notat'omkhulu. Kwakungekho ngxaki kubomi bemihla ngemihla, umsebenzi wawungaphazanyiswa.
Ewe kunjalo, amaqabane acwangcise ezinye ukukhulelwa. Ukulungiselela bekuhamba kunye nogqirha abatyeleleyo kunye noviwo. Iingcali ezifanelekileyo ziyakhuthazwa ngokubangwa ukuba zombini zazingenangxaki. Kodwa lo mfazi ukhulelwe ixesha elide.
Eli bhinqa lifuna ngokwenene omnye umntwana. Ngasihlandlo sithile, waqala wacinga ukuba athathe umntwana wakhe. Indoda yayingazi ngayo, akazange ayixhase umbono onjalo. Ukufumanisa abantwana kwiintsana zokwamkelwa komntwana abengowomnye umntu okanye abantu, njengoko wayengaqinisekanga ukuba uza kujamelana noxanduva. Akazange akrokre ukuba angomelele.
Ngamaxesha athile, umfazi wayekhathaza izifo, ukunxila kunye nokungakhathali ngokupheleleyo kwiiklasi ezithandwayo. Waziva enenkalipho eqinileyo, umnqweno wavuka ukuba ulale ulala imini yonke.
Uvavanyo lokukhulelwa lwaluphawulwe ukuba luqinisekise okanye ekugqibeleni bhala uguqulelo olunjalo. Inani elikhulu lokuxilongoza ngokuzenzekelayo kwintloko yomfazi.
Xa yayivela kamva, yayikukukhulelwa ngokuthe ngqo, apho ukungabi namonde kwakulinde ixesha elide. Umyeni wazama ukwenza yonke into ejikeleze inkosikazi yakhe ekhulelwe.Iziphumo zohlalutyo lokuqala zibonakalise ukuba i-hemoglobin iphantsi yingxaki kuphela. Umfazi wayecaphukile kukubetha, waphantse wayeka ukupheka. Indoda inokupheka inyama kuphela xa yayingekho ekhaya.
I-trimester yesibini yokukhulelwa iqhume lula. Ibhinqa lakhathazeka ngokuthe ngcembe lakhula kancinci uxinzelelo lwangaphakathi.
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"Oogqirha kufutshane nam baninzi kakhulu kangangokuba babengabekwa kwiwadi"
Isini esabelana ngesondo sahlala singaziwa de kube lolo mzuzu wokuzalwa. Kwi-ultrasound ukubona umgangatho womntwana awusebenzi. Ukukhetha kwegama kubangele iimbambano ezininzi ezivela kumaqabane, kodwa emva kwexesha bakwazile ukuza kwisisombululo esinye. Baqonda ukuba babeza kuyibiza ngokuba yiTeisia.
Phantse kwinyanga yesihlanu yokukhulelwa, umfazi watsiba iswekile egazini. Oogqirha beza kwisigqibo sokuba kubangelwa kukutyeba kakhulu. I-Oktulast yafumana i-atigmatism kwaye icetyiswe ngamandla ukuchitha ixesha elincinci kwikhompyuter. Ukukhulelwa kwaqala ukudlula ngokulula. Ingabonakala ngathi inokwenzeka, kodwa umyeni wayenengxaki ye-hypertertee.
Kwiveki elandelayo, ibhinqa liqhuba umyeni wakhe ukuya kwi-Pidiopist, emva koko waya kwi-cardiologist, emva koko ke kuphando. Oogqirha bayisebenzisa imeko yakhe kwaye bathabatha iziyobisi ukuze basebenzise ubomi bonke.
Emva kokuhlalulwa luhlalutyo olulandelayo, eli bhinqa lafunyaniswa lineprotein kumchamo kunye ne-Loureland. Wathunyelwa kwiziko le-perinatal, esoyika ukufumana.
Lo mfazi wayenethemba lokuba kuphela eza kuhlolwa, kodwa uxinzelelo lwenyuka. Wanyanzelwa ukuba axoke. Uphando olwahlukileyo oluninzi lwenziwe, bonke bahlalutyo olunokwenzeka ludluliselwe. Oogqirha baqokelelana kwiwadi yomfazi, bexoxa ngesifo sakhe. Kwabonakala ngathi uziva kamnandi, kodwa emgceni bekukho ukwala amathambo kunye nokudumba kwengqondo.
Oogqirha bagqiba kwelokuba bandise ukukhulelwa kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Emva kwexesha elithile, lo mfazi wayeka ukuva umntwana wakhe. Kwakuyimfuneko ukuba benze umsebenzi kangangexesha elide iiveki ezingama-29 kunye neentsuku ezi-2, kuba umntwana ebesifa.
Intombazana yazalwa inobunzima beegram ezingama-600.Bona kwakhona: Ibali lendlela yamawele e-surrogate ahlukane ngayo
Thetha intombi yam, ukuba yomelele, iphumeze "
Emva kotyando, lo mfazi wabekwa kwiwadi eyahlukileyo. Kwakunzima ukuva ukukhalela abantwana kumagumbi angabamelwane. Uye wakwazi ukubona intombi yakhe kuphela ngomhla wesithathu. Ukuhlaziywa malunga neenyanga ezintlanu endaweni yentombazana encinci. Wayekwimeko enkulu kakhulu, ogqirha babengenakuzinika iziqinisekiso.
Ukuva izinto ezininzi zonyango kunye nokuchongwa, umfazi wawa kwisityholo. Uye waqonda ukuba le meko yayinzima kakhulu. Ngethamsanqa, umfazi wavunyelwa ukuba abone umntwana. Intombazana ibonakala incinci kakhulu, kwaye izibambo zayo kunye nemilenze yayibonakala ngokucacileyo. Ngokwenyani nganye inqanawa yayibonakala, ulusu lwalusisitya esibomvu. Wayigubungela iwebhu.
U-Neonatologist, ukuzama ukuxhasa uMama ovayo ngandlela zonke, ucebise ukuba athethe intombazana eyomeleleyo, loo mntwana uya kujamelana nayo yonke into, njengoko abantwana beziva benemeko kamama. La magama ngokoqobo waba nguMantra kumfazi.U-Tasya wayekwi-frequency zvl iintsuku ezingama-77, emva koko kwi-ivl eqhelekileyo. Emva kweenyanga ezintlanu, le ntombazana yakwazi ukuphefumla yedwa. Yena kunye nokuqhoyilwa kwemithambo engakhange kudluliselwe. Kumhla wesithandathu, ihemorrhage kwingqondo yee-2 degrees. Unobangela we-cerebral palsy, ngoogqirha, yayiyinto emhlophe eyayifana ne-sieve.
NgoMatshi, umfazi wayesele ekhutshiwe. Kwakufuneka ashiye isakhiwo ngokukhutshelwa, apho oomama banoyolo abaneentsana ezingalweni zakhe. Okwalo mzuzu wagqiba kwelokuba abe esiphelweni sokubhala kunye ngokubhala kunye ne-tasse.
Ngelo xesha, eli bhinqa lalinobisi oluninzi, kodwa lalingekafuneki kwintombazana leyo, ke yafumana ifriji ekhethekileyo yobisi ngemali yakhe. Ukulondolozwa kobisi kwintombi yakhe kwanika ithemba lokubakho.
Ukuhlaziywa kwamehlo asandul 'ukuzalwa kukamama
Oogqirha bazama ukukhathalela umfazi. Emva kwexesha elithile, wafumanisa ukuba babuyayo intombi yakhe ebomini amaxesha ama-70. Kwisihlomelo sentombazana awayekwazi ukufumanisa kude kube kwangoko.
Ukuhlaziya ukuya kwisandi se-IVL. Intombi yakhe ibambisa iingcingo ezininzi. Umbono onjalo wavela phambi komfazi yonke imihla kangangeenyanga ezintlanu. Ixesha elingaphezulu, wakwazi ukuqhela i-cubys setch kwaye wafunda ukulawula iimvakalelo eziqengqelekayo ngexesha.
Inyanga emva kokuzalwa, iTaisia yafumana i-raisse kwithambo le-petrose lesibindi. Imeko yakhe yaqala ukonakaliswa ngokukhawuleza. Oogqirha babexakekile, kuba bengaxhomekekanga. Intombazana ayikwazanga ukwenza utyando. Ngaphandle konyango olukhethiweyo, ukuphuculwa kwemeko ye-Tasi kwakungaqwalaswanga. Ukufa kwasondela kwakhona. Ngelo xesha, umama ngelishwa wayenokuphelelwa lithemba kuphela.
Emva kwexesha wamvuma ukuba, ejonge intombi yakhe, wathandaza kuThixo ukuba anike amandla ukuze aphile okanye amhlangule ekubandezelekeni ngonaphakade.
Jonga intuthumbo yeTaisi yayinganyamezeleki. Ugqirha wancomela umntwana emntwaneni. Eli bhinqa lalimela inkqubo yobhaptizi etempileni, kodwa kusenokuphawula intombazana ekuvuseleleni.
Ixesha elingaphezulu, imeko yentombazana yaqala ngokuthe ngcembe. I-phrimbu isonjululwe, imisebenzi yezintso kunye nesibindi sabuyiselwa. Kwiinyanga ezimbini emva kokuzalwa kukamama, kwakuyimfuneko ukuba uza kwintombazana kathathu ngemini, kuba i-tuses yayifunwa ngokoqobo i-1 ml yobisi. Kodwa ke, yena, umama wayekulungele ukungxama esibhedlele.
"Umlo ngokufa komntwana waphumelela, kwakukho idabi lomgangatho wobomi bentombazana"
Kwiinyanga ezi-4,5, iTaisiya yayisiqingatha seekhilogrem. Kwezi zinto, umama waqala wamthabathela ezandleni zakhe. Malunga nexesha elifanayo, utata wam wabona intombi yakhe okwesihlandlo sokuqala, kodwa akazange amshiye ezandleni zakhe. Okwalo mzuzu, abazali baqonda ukuba ubomi bentombi yabo abayi kusongela nto. Bahlala kuphela kumzabalazo womgangatho wobomi bomntwana.
Iiveki ezimbini kwiSebe lePathology yaseNewborshini naseFARTARE PROLW ngokukhawuleza. U-Casya wafunda ngokuzimeleyo kwibhotile, i-catheter yasuswa. Ibilwe okokuqala kwaye ibeka iimpahla ezithengiweyo ngumama. Ikhoboka leoksijini lisagcinwa.
Ukumenyelwa kudliwanondlebe, ugqirha wathi akanakuthatha intombazana yakhe, kuba kwakungekho zixhobo zingeyomfuneko, kwaye wacela ukuba sisindise abantwana ngokubanzi. Lo mbuzo unxunguphele kakhulu uMana. Ngequbuliso waqonda ukuba ngaphandle kweziko le-Peinatal lifanele libe ngugqirha ohlaziyiweyo kumntwana wakhe, njengoko kwakungekho nto ukulinda uncedo.
Ngaphambi kokuba babuyele ekhaya, yonke into eyimfuneko ukugcina ubomi baseTaiiy kuthengiwe.
Eli bhinqa livakalise umbulelo omkhulu kubo bonke ogqirha kunye nabongikazi beziko le-perinatal. Bakwazi ukusindisa umntwana wakhe.I-taisiya ichithwe kwiindonga zeziko le-perinatal kwiintsuku ezili-169. Umntwana wayeza kubekwa kwenye yezibhedlele zedolophu, kodwa kwakungekho zixhobo zifunekayo ukuze uhlale ubomi bakhe. Ewe, le ntombazana yayifuna ukudlulisela esibhedlele, kodwa ugqirha oyintloko weZiko eliPriyatal wakwazi ukweyisela intloko yokuvuselela. Wonke umntu wayeqonda ukuba inguqulelo ingakhokelela ekuswelekeni kwentombazana.
Emva kokukhutshwa, owona msebenzi uphambili wawuvela kwi-oxhlann ekuxhomekeni. Intombazana ikwazile ukujamelana nale nto malunga neenyanga ezi-2,5. Abantwana basemva kwikliniki yabantwana abayibonelela ngenkxaso. Iyeza eliyimfuneko nelixabiso lokufumana iklinikhi ayizange yazi.
"Yayikulungele ukubuyiswa kobomi"
Ibhinqa kwafuneka lihlale lodwa kunye nobunzima beNdlu yeNdlu. Kwakufuneka abe ngumnini-qabane, kwaye uguquko, ugqirha we-massage, kunye nengcali ye-FFC, kunye nogqirha we-Sfc, kunye nonyango lwentetho.
Emva kokuphelisa ukuxhomekeka kweoksijini, umbuzo wokuhlaziywa ngakumbi wavela. Ubunzima bentombazana ngenyanga 8 yayiyigram engama-4300 kuphela. Kwiphulo, wayefana nomntwana wenyanga. Akakwazi ukubamba nantoni na esandleni sakhe kwaye wayigcina kakubi intloko.
Ekuqaleni, le ntombazana idlulisela i-electrophoressis kunye nekhosi ye-massage. Kwixa elizayo, kwenziwa uvavanyo, nto leyo eqinisekisa ukuba ayinazo iindlela zokwaluphala kulo naluphi na uhlobo lweeklasi. I-MRI iqinisekile kamva.
Kwiinyanga ezi-9, le ntombazana yayilawulwa kakuhle ukuba ibambe intloko kwaye ixhomekeke kwimithambo. Kwakufuneka enze yonke imihla ekhaya. Emva koko umama waqala ukukhangela ezinye iindlela zokuvuselela. Kodwa, ngelishwa, abakhange banike nayiphi na imiphumo. Emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa kamva, imithanga yafunyaniswa inesiphene se-cerebral. Enyakeni, le ntombazana isayehlulekile ukujika, ukuhlala kwaye imile, inamagqabi, igqabi.
Eli bhinqa laqhubeka nokujonga amaziko angazinceda iintombi zakhe ukuze azisebenzise kakuhle. Njengokhetho, uChelyabinsk, Moscow noPeter baqwalaselwa. Ngaphandle kweendleko eziphezulu zeenkonzo, umama ngelishwa akazange azame.
Wayeqonda ukuba uthathe isigqibo esifanelekileyo, emva kwekhosi yesibini kwiziko lokuhlaziya esixekweni labo, esiye sanxibelelana nabanye abafazi.
Ukubuyisela kwimeko yesiqhelo eMoscow ngenyanga kuzisa iziphumo ezibalulekileyo: I-Spin yaqiniswa, uCasta waqala ukuhlanganisa kubo bonke abanina. Kodwa ukufumana iziphumo, kufuneka ubuyele kwiziko ngaphezulu. Ibhinqa kwafuneka liqokelele imali enkulu yoku.Emva kwenqaku elipapashwe kwiphephandaba, abaninzi bafunda ngengxaki yabo. Saphendula ngoko nangoko sasabela ngoko nangoko, sifuna ukunceda ezemali. Emva kwexesha, esinye seziseko zesisa siza kuhlangula.
Ukuvuselela kwakubiza kakhulu kubazali bakaTapi.
Unyaka wokuhlaziywa kwentombazana, izixa eziphelelwe lixesha ukusuka kwi-0.9 ukuya kwi-1.1 yezigidi i-rubles. Ngaphandle koncedo lwabanye, iimali ezifanayo azibonakali zinokwenzeka.
Impumelelo evela kwintombazana yabonakaliswa ngokukhawuleza, kodwa iqinisekile. Kwiinyanga ezintlanu wasiya kukhangela ukuba ungakhasa. Iinkuthazo ezahlukeneyo zazisetyenziselwa ukudibanisa intombazana kwiintshukumo ezizimeleyo.
"Enkosi kumsebenzi wemihla ngemihla, kwenzeke ummangaliso - uCamya waya"
Intombazana yakwazi ukuthwala ngokwabo xa yayingunyaka omnye kwaye ezili-11 ubudala. Inyathelo lokuqala labasetyhini abalinde ukungabi namonde. Baqhubeka beqeqesha rhoqo kwaye bakholelwa ukuba le ntombazana yonke isebenza.
Nje ukuba intombazana isamenze inyathelo lakhe lokuqala. Yonke imihla bahlukana ngakumbi. Abazali abanakuwakholelwa amehlo abo. Ummangaliso, ababenethemba, ekugqibeleni kwenzeke. Ngoku uCanya ngokwayo uqhuba waya emnyango xa utata wakhe ebuya emsebenzini.
Ewe kunjalo, kusafuneka wenze umzamo omkhulu wokuqhubeka kwe-Taimia. Zombini kwindiza emzimbeni kunye nokunyanga kwentetho, kunye nengqondo. Ukubonakalisa inkqubela phambili kunika amandla ngakumbi abazali kunye nentombazana.
Ngoku uCanya ubaleka endlwini ngovuyo lokuhleka. Umama wayeka ukuthula kwezifo zentombazana aze azixolise, wayengoyiki ukwabelana ngebali lakhe kwi-Instagram. Uyazingca ngentombi yakhe. Waqhelana nabanye oomama abaneengxaki ezifanayo. Ngoku babelana ngengcebiso oluluncedo kunye nolunye ulwazi.
"Sinee-friendergartens eziqhelekileyo kunye nezicwangciso zesikolo"
Owona msebenzi ophambili kamama luququzelelo lwe-TATA ukukhulisa phambili kwezoqoqosho ebomini. Ngapha koko, intombazana isenokufumana ubizo lwayo. Eli bhinqa liyakholelwa ukuba ukuba intombi yakhe sele idlulile kuzo zonke iimvavanyo ingenisa, emva koko ilinde ubomi obukhanyisiweyo nobonwabisayo.
Ekuqaleni, abazali baphupha ukuba le ntombazana yabo basinda, emva koko babekulungele ukugcina ubomi. Kancinci emva koko kwaba nethemba lokuba kuya kuba nakho ukuva ngoncedo loncedo lokuva onokuthi alawule izandla zakhe. Ngoku bane-riveriergarten eqhelekileyo kunye nezicwangciso zesekondari zesekondari. Abazali banethemba lokuba i-Teiyaya iya kuhlaziya ngokupheleleyo kwaye ihambe nabo kwindibano ejikeleze ilizwe.