Ukunceda ikhaya, ukuba nemisebenzi yabo emincinci, umntwana sele eneminyaka emi-3-4. Ngendlela efanelekileyo yabazali, umntwana uya konwaba ngovuyo ukuba aguquke kube bubomi obuqhelekileyo, kwaye ukutyhubela iminyaka, imisebenzi yakhe iyandisa kuphela.
Suku-oda, kodwa ucacisa"Ukuzila ukutya ibhedi!", "Akuboni, luthini uthuli?", "Uphinde wagxothwa ngomzobo wakho!". Into ebonakala ngokucacileyo kuwe isenokungabi kuko konke okunjalo kumntwana. Ukuba uyazi ukuba kutheni kufuneka ugcwalise ibhedi. Ukuba uqaphele uthuli, kwaye umntwana unemidla eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo, kwaye akanakumbona. Ubona ubumdaka apho abantwana babona umdlalo kunye nobuchule.
Nasiphi na isenzo sifuna isizathu. Ukudinwa kakhulu ukwenza umsebenzi ongaqondakaliyo, ngoko ndifuna ukulibala ngayo.
Ke umsebenzi wakho kukufumana ingqondo kubo bonke. Ungayixela ngokunyaniseka indlela eyenzakalisa ngayo ukuphefumla uthuli, ukomeleza ibali ngezibakala kunye nemifanekiso. Sukungavuli ukuze ungayinyanzeli uloyiko olubi kunye nokunqwenela ukucoceka.
Kwaye ungaza nentsingiselo yokudlala. Umzekelo, chaza uthuli ngumbhanya womphambukeli, kunye nomntwana-umlo wamanye i-cosmic, ukhululwe ukuze alwe naye.
Akukho misebenzi kunye nomdlaloEli Bhunga libonisa eyangaphambili. Bambalwa abantwana abathanda ukuphuma, kodwa wonke umntu uyakuthanda ukudlala. Kuya kufuneka ukuba sibe selokhwe, senze uhlobo oluthile lweeplani kwaye uthathe inxaxheba kuzo. Akulula, kulula kakhulu ukwenza yonke into ngokwakho. Kodwa xa umntwana enene aze athabathe inyathelo lokuqala ezandleni zakhe, uya kuphumla - azenzele iti kunye noxinzelelo ukuze abukele imisebenzi yesaqhwithi somntwana.
Xa umntwana efunda ukufunda nokubhala, wenza iimpazamo ezininzi. Imiqolo engeyiyo i-stroke offs, inani elikhulu elingafundanga oonobumba kunye noxinzelelo olungachanekanga- konke oku kuyinto eqhelekileyo, inkqubo yesiqhelo yokufunda.
Umntwana wasekhaya ufunda. Ngamaxesha amaninzi thina, bazali, sibathintele. Yaphula ipleyiti xa ndifuna ukuhlamba izitya, ndihlise iincwadi, nditshonile uthuli ... Ngokubanzi, endaweni yoku-odola, ijika ilahlekelwe ngakumbi. Konke oku kunomsindo omkhulu, ndifuna ukurhoxisa yonke imiyalelo (rhoqo yenziwa ngawo mazwi: "Awunakukuthemba!") Yenza yonke into ngokwakho.
Kodwa uya kufunda njani? Amaqhinga onyango omalunga ne-ragus kunye neepleyiti, uyakukhumbula apho agcinwa khona ukuba akazokwazi ukuzama nakuphosakeleyo? Ukuba impazamo ngasinye iyangcikiva, ukuba umntwana uyabona ukuba ekugqibeleni umama wenza yonke into eyenziwa nguye, uyakuyeka nokuba ade azama ukuzama ukugxeka yonke into esekhaya.
Ewe, kwiimpazamo ngamanye amaxesha kufanelekile ukuvala amehlo akho. Kodwa kwimpumelelo-ngokuchaseneyo. Siyamxabisa umsebenzi womntwana, nkqu neyona ibonakala incinci.
Ukuba ishishini elithile lingena kulo msebenzi rhoqo womntwana, kusafuneka idumise ekuphunyezweni ngempumelelo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo uyazi ukuba lihlazo njani xa kungekho mntu ubonayo imizamo yakho xa umsebenzi ubonwa njengento eninzi. Ke andifuni kwenza nantoni na.
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