Iingcali zibanjwa iimvavanyo ezimbini
Iingcali kwiDyunivesithi yasePennsylvania zasibonisa isifundo esitsha, esibonisa ukuba abantwana bankwantya ngakumbi kwaye bayazingisa ukuba abazali bangenelela kancinci kwinkqubo yokusombulula iingxaki. Iziphumo zophando zapapashwa kwimagazini yophuhliso lwabantwana.
Abazali bahlala befuna ukunceda abantwana babo - bacebisa, bayalela, banike imiyalelo yendlela yokwenza ngcono. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ukuphazamisekileyo kubangela ukuba abantwana banikezele ukusombulula imisebenzi entsonkothileyo ngokukhawuleza, abafundi abafumanise.
Iingcali zenze iimvavanyo ezimbini. Kwenye yazo, iminyaka emine kunye nezicwangciso zeminyaka emihlanu zahlulwe zangamaqela kwaye zababonisa indlela yokusombulula ipuzzle yepuzzle. Emva koko abantwana bacelwa ukuba basombulule lo msebenzi ngokwabo. Kwelinye iqela, abantu abadala banceda abantwana ukuba baqokelele iipuzzle ngezandla zabo, kwaye kwelinye - amagama achaze abantwana, hayi indlela onokuthi uyenze ngayo.
Emva kokugqitywa kovavanyo, bonke abantwana banikwa ibhokisi enepuzzle, eyayitywinwe ngeglue. Akunakwenzeka ukuba uyivule. Abantwana abaye bancedwa bephazise, babonisa unyamezelo oluncinci kunye nokunyamezelana kunabo belinye iqela.
Kuvavanyo lwesibini, abantwana beminyaka efanayo bathunyelwa kwiqela apho abantu abadala bathabatha isigqibo sePuzzle. Kwelinye iqela, abantu abadala kunye nabantwana basombulule umsebenzi. Ababhali besi sifundo baqwalasele indlela ngokukhawuleza abantwana ukuba baphelelwe ngumdla kumsebenzi emva kokuba abantu abadala bethatha inyathelo ngokupheleleyo ngaphandle kwezandla zabo.
Sifumanise ukuba abo bantwana babo abazali babo bahlala bengenelela kwinkqubo yesisombululo sepuzzle bebeneenkani. Ufundisiso lwesibini lwabonisa ukuba umntu omdala uthatha umsebenzi onobunzima, umntwana olandelayo unikezelwa ngokukhawuleza - xa kuthelekiswa nabantwana abenzele ipuzzle.
Uxelele uhlelo lwabazali uGqr Pedchological Science Julia Leonard.
Izazinzulu zafika kwisigqibo sokuba ukuba abantu abadala bengaphazamisi inkqubo yokufunda, abantwana bakhulisa unyamezelo.
Ngezigqibo zeengcali zePennsylvanian, ugqirha wezengqondo wavuma kwaye umsunguli weNkqubo yokuGcinwa kweZiko leRobin klovits:
Abantwana banomnqweno wokuzalwa ukuze baphumelele kwimisebenzi kwaye bajongane nendlela yonke into ecwangciswe ngayo. Kodwa banomnqweno wokuzalwa wokukholisa abazali babo.
Ke ngoko, xa umzali ephazamisa, umntwana ufumana isiginali ukuba iziphumo zibaluleke ngakumbi kunenkqubo - ebaluleke ngakumbi ukugqiba umsebenzi, kwaye ungafundanga into ethile kule nkqubo.
"Xa abantwana beqonda ukuba iziphumo zokugqibela zibaluleke ngakumbi kunenkqubo, emva koko zinenkuthazo encinci yokuzama into ngokwazo," ezongeziweyo ezongeziweyo.
URobin klovitz ucebisa abazali ukuba bazimisele ngokwakhe, oko kubaluleke kakhulu ngalo mzuzu - isiphumo esihle okanye ukuba ufanelekile ukunika umntwana wakho inkululeko yokufunda nokusombulula imisebenzi ngokwakho. Ukuba awukwazi ukuphazamiseka kwinkqubo, emva koko udumise kwaye uxhase umntwana- lo noluhlobo lokuthatha inxaxheba kwimicimbi yakhe.
Kwakhona, ugqirha wezengqondo uxelele ngolunye ulwamkelo-phambi kwento ukubaxelela umntwana, ukubala ukuya kwi-10 kwaye uzibuze ukuba unokujamelana nexesha elincinci? Ukuba uthe nentembelo yokuba intombi yakho okanye unyana wakho ayisiyomkhosi, ndiphazamisa ngenkalipho. Bonke abantwana bafuna inkxaso.
