Ukuma kweRussia malunga neminyaka elishumi - uyahlulwa kumabhodlo e-kvn kunye neklabhu ye-gody ukuba abe luhlobo olutsha lwe-psychotherapy yelizwe. I-Stap-Refly Rule ngobomi, malunga nepolitiki, umsebenzi, malunga nolwalamano nosapho.
Ngobuzali obuphawulekayo - uninzi lwabantu abakhoyo kumabonwakude bayayazi naye ukuba bangabeki.
Ukusukela ukuba iHleya le-Starsia lihanjiswa ikakhulu ngamadoda (ewe, i-Internap ilapho, kodwa imele imazi yencoko), eso sisihloko esahlukileyo sencoko), ihlazo labo malunga nabazali likhulu I-jokes malunga nobabalo.
Amadoda akafane avakaliswe ngabazali, kuba ayinamncinci ebandakanyiwe kuyo, kwaye ngenxa yokuba ekholelwa ukuba ukuthetha ngabantwana ayingowonyango oyindoda. Nangona kunjalo, kwi-tomap, yonke into iphosakele ngokupheleleyo - ukusungulwa kwabantwana, ukuba ngumzali, ubudlelwane phakathi kosapho kunye nomtshato kwabakho kwimixholo engenaziqhamo kunye neziqhamo.
Sibukele iifilimo ezininzi zeshumi elinambini ze-Russia ukuze siqonde ukuba ukuba ngumzali okuchaphazela njani ukuba ukuba ngumzali kuchaphazela njani ukuhlekisa, kwaye nguwuphi umnikelo ohlekisayo womfanekiso wakhe waseRussia.
Kodwa okokuqala ngxelo: Ewe, siyayazi ukuba abantu abafikayo bayathetha iintetho zabo zizihlazo. Siyazi ukuba isebenza njani, kwaye loo nto, ithetha ngamava akho, izinto zokulinda azihlali zithetha ngokwabo. Kwaye siyayazi nokuba isibubuhlungu sezona singena ezintlungwini ezibanzi ngoncedo lwe-virls, umabonwakude kunye nesiqhulo sisisebenzisi esihle kakhulu. Xa sihleka into, iyayeka ukuba ibaluleke kwaye iyayeka ukoyikisa.
Kwelinye icala, kulungile. Kwelinye icala, xa siqala ukuhlekisa udlwengulo kwaye sizinciphise abantwana bengxaki yengxaki kwaye siqale ukuyijonga ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Ewe, sihlekisa ngokwesihloko sokuba ngumzali - ukuzama nje ukususa uxinzelelo kwiingxaki zethu eziqhelekileyo (ezinjenge "imikhosi"), kodwa siqinisekile ukuba le nto ayifani nesihloko " "Indoda eyindoda kwimicimbi yasekhaya okanye ubundlobongela obuphathekayo.
Nangona kunjalo, imizobo ehlekisayo nezaziwayo malunga nabazali abavela kubabeki baseRussia iyafumaneka - kwaye uninzi lwabo luninzi. Ngokubanzi, saqokelela, kwaye uzijonga ngokwakho.
UPavel Poyea: "Ezemfundo yimeko yamashumi eminyaka!"I-gobler emhlophe kwixa elidlulileyo kunye nendoda yentsapho yayo yonke i-coby ngoku i-pileds iyakuthanda ukuthetha ngothando lwakhe olungenamda kumfazi nabantwana bakhe. Ekuqaleni kweLokdan yokuqala, ngaphakathi kwesakhelo sokukhutshwa kwenye indawo, uClaba Pavel wabhala isibongozo kubazali ababevalelwe nabantwana babo.
"Kwaye kubonakala kum, ngoku abazali bandijongile, uyazi, bangoo:" Asimohlwayi umntwana wakho, "asiyiphakamisi, asiyi kumthukisa, asiyi kumthukisa, asiyi kumthukisa, asiyi kumthuka, asiyi kumngcikiva, "Uya kuthi, emva koko uqhubeke. - Ewe, wahlala kwiveki yeNdlu, mhlawumbi, sele emtyhobo ngomhla wesihlanu njengoko kufuneka! Kwaye wena uhlala ucinga: "Yayizikhusela, wayenetrektha yeplastiki ezandleni zakhe, kwakuyingozi kakhulu."
Nantsi enye into emzimbeni malunga nabantwana abavela kuPaul -na ngesihloko sokuphumla nabantwana (kukho neengcinga ezilumkileyo zokuphumla, kwaye kubalulekile ukukhumbula oku ).
Isiqwenga esincinci sekonsathi ye-solo yokuthanda ukukhulisa abantwana kunye nendlela "engcono ngayo ngaphambili."
I-Alexey Shcherbhakakov: "Musa ukubuyisa, ungabuyiseli"Omnye uGuqula osebenzisa ubomi bosapho bakhe njengomthombo wamahlaya. "Indoda eqhelekileyo" evela ebantwini uAlexey Shccherbakov ihlala ihlekisa kumxholo wobudlelwane babazali kwaye ithetha malunga nokuba yintoni "yokuhlamba" kubantwana bakhe.
Nantsi enye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo zeShcherbakov malunga nobutsha-bume-malunga nokulala kwi-kindergarden kunye nendlela eyaphakamisa ngayo koonyana 'baqhelekileyo. "
Kodwa isiqendu sinentetho yangaphambili yeShcherbhakov, yaxelela ukuba wayenonyana, kwaye wayethetha ne-rhetoric eyaziwayo kangangokuba "ndathetha ne-rhetoring eyaziwayo ukuba" ndandiye ndangqengqa, kwaye akukho nto iqhelekileyo. "
I-Monologue Shcherbakova ukuba inonyana, ingenguye intombi yakhe, kuba umntu uya kumsusa ngokuthweswa isidanga.
I-STAS STROVOVOVTOV: "Ootata babebambi kakhulu"Ubazeni, ongomnye womnye wokuqala waqalisa ukuhlekisa ngentsapho yakhe, umfazi nomntwana. Kuyinyani, ngokutsho kweSterovoitov ngokwakhe, zonke ezi zihlahla zazibiza kuye - kwiminyaka embalwa kamva, emva kokuthathwa komsebenzi wakhe obhinqileyo, emva koko kwatshata kwakhona - yaza yaqala omnye umntwana).
Esi sisimo sokuqala somntu wokuqala kwisicelo sethu - malunga nentombi endiya kukhula ngaphandle kotata, kwaye ngequbuliso - malunga ne-Evgenia Tsyganov.
Kwaye yena Molo kwixa elidlulileyo xa i-Starovatov isahlala nomfazi wokuqala kunye nentombi yokuqala-malunga nendlela abantwana abaya kulazi ngayo ihlabathi, kwaye malunga nendlela ootata abadlalwayo.
Ngoku ngaphezulu kwe-monologue entsha-eli xesha malunga nomahluko phakathi kootata noomama: "Ndiyathanda utata konke konke endingamaziyo ukuba bathini nabantwana bam - ngokungafaniyo nabafazi bam. Kuba abafazi, oomama - banayo ngandlel 'ithile kwisibhedlele sokwamaso, bakwazi ukuba bawujamelana nomntwana' - kwaye ngaphezulu malunga nokukhulelwa kunye nobudlelwane.
IVictor Komarov: "Ukuba utata, zininzi izinto ezimbi ze-stereotypes ezimbi kuwe"Omnye utata ophindwe kabini kwi-Russia Victric Victor Kmarov - waqala ukuthetha ngomxholo kathathu kunabanye, kodwa okuninzi kwanexesha lokuxelela. Apha, umzekelo, inzame ye-monologue kwi-tendetpes ye-stereotypes malunga nootata abangafundanga.
Okanye le inye ividiyo apho i-mosquito isixelela ngendlela awayeshiye ngayo isiqingatha sendlela awayesele ngayo nomntwana, kwaye indlela endikhathazayo. Kwaye ewe-kwakhona malunga ne-cusn ye-suative, enokuba ngabafazi, kunjalo, kunjalo. Kwaye malunga nokutyibilika emva kokuzalwa komntwana: "Ukuba umntu uphume kum, ngekhe ndenze enye into."
Okokugqibela, gcina umzobo omfutshane, apho, mhlawumbi wonke umntu angavuma.
U-Ivan Abramov: "Andikaze ndishiyele ekhohlo, kusekho ukujamelana nexesha."Ubambe uKutata weentombi ezimbini, ezaziqalisa ngemifanekiso yomculo, kwaye wafumana idyokhwe enobudlelane ngobomi bentsapho. Apha, umzekelo, kule vidiyo Abramov apha malunga namacandelo abantwana kwaye akunyanzelekanga ukuba banike abantwana isigidi semibhoti kwangoko (kwaye emva koko i-Obsorantism iqala ngokunyaniseka kwendalo kwaye iphinde yathandabuza "yethu abachaphazela indlela abaziphethe ngayo).
Ewe, nantsi enye intsebenzo: ukuba ootata ngamantombazana awazinxibelelani noomama banoonyana, malunga nokuba abantwana bafumana njani na ukuba abazali banamhlanje bamkelwe, kwaye banikwe ithemba (Mandulo Shcherbhakov Jonga le vidiyo).
Incoko eyadlulayo, apho uTata omtsha omtsha u-I-Abramov uthetha malunga neekhosi zabafazi abakhulelweyo, intombi esanda kuzalwa kwaye, kunjalo, iiforamu zabasetyhini.
UNurlan Sabhuhu: "Kulula kakhulu ukumthanda umntwana, kunzima kakhulu ukuwunyamezela umntwana"Iparade yootata emileyo iya kuba ingaphelelanga ngaphandle kweNururov: Umkhwenyana ufumana abantwana ababini kwaye ngamaxesha athile akhangele phambili kuTye. Umzekelo, ibali malunga nendlela ukukhulelwa kunye nokuzalwa kwePhondo kwiphondo naseMoscow (amehlo katata, owenziweyo), ukwahlula-hlula.
Ividiyo emfutshane malunga nendlela ootata otyholwa ngayo ngabantwana babo.
Ababeki badweliswe kolu khetho ayizizo zonke izinto zaseRussia, ezikwintetho yabo zibaxelela abantwana, kodwa kanye kweyona ithandwa kakhulu. Kule minyaka isixhenxe idlulileyo okanye ezisibhozo, yayikukuba inoxanduva lokusekwa (kunye nosasazo) lokubonakala kukatatali-kwavela ukuba iqele kwaye iyaziwa.
Iqhawe legorha elihlekisayo eliphantsi kwe-mammash, liqala ukucinga malunga nokungasebenzi kakuhle kwesohlwayo (kodwa kwangaxeshanye sinenzondelelo malunga nendlela engcono ngayo xa ihamba-hamba iye yakhathalelwanga (kwaye ngamanye amaxesha iyahamba nokuzalwa komntwana), kodwa kubonakala ngathi ayisazi ixabiso lakhe lokwenyani- yena, ekugqibeleni, akangonina, akanasiphelo esikhethekileyo. " Yimodeli yotywala yemveli eqhelekileyo ngokuchukumisa kwabantu- mhlawumbi, lusizi kanye, okulungele ukubaphulaphuli abaphulaphuli baseRussia.
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